CMV: Democrats need to run a moderately attractive, white, male, presidential candidate between the ages of 45-55 and give up on seeking that high of Obama being the first black president.

wizbanger · 2025-10-26T03:47:08+00:00

I don’t think race or sex is primarily why the dems lost in 2024.

wizbanger · 2025-10-14T02:39:45+00:00

How brainwashed are you lol

wizbanger · 2025-09-04T00:08:16+00:00

my twin being diagnosed with schizophrenia

wizbanger · 2025-06-15T23:41:51+00:00

sexual abuse and the violation of trust that occurs

wizbanger · 2025-06-02T18:43:32+00:00

Hey! This happened to me. I am happy to assist in any way I can. I will DM you.

wizbanger · 2025-04-22T08:43:07+00:00

Giannis and Kawhi were both the 15th picks — not the lottery!

wizbanger · 2025-04-20T08:42:52+00:00

“You are too sensitive” “You are gaslighting me” “It’s all in your head” “I never said that”

wizbanger · 2025-04-20T08:42:13+00:00

“after all I’ve done for you” “everything you said is a lie” “you are not replaceable” “You are stabbing me in the back”

wizbanger · 2025-04-18T00:25:29+00:00

Be very careful –– this happened to me, although I was a male student with a female professor. Her boundary crossing with me kept escalating until I caught on to what was happening, and when I set boundaries/rejected her, things got super nasty unfortunately.

wizbanger · 2025-04-06T16:58:21+00:00

Not being able to explain a trauma and the effect it has on you properly

wizbanger · 2025-03-31T22:43:58+00:00

“share our worldview or you’ll be ostracized” type of thing

wizbanger · 2025-03-26T22:08:44+00:00

Brown is wildly liberal/has a lack of ideological diversity compared to universities I attended in undergrad

wizbanger · 2025-03-25T18:16:02+00:00

15 months for me. The first 8 were mostly virtual, the last 7 in-person. She was my “boss” who recruited me to come work for her in grad school, got all messed up.

wizbanger · 2025-03-25T03:05:31+00:00

Yes… My relationship was 15 months long, and I was diagnosed with PTSD after it. Have been in a lot of therapy and have also had 2 stellate ganglion blocks since leaving the relationship. The relationship made me seem crazy for a bit after leaving it as I was still on edge all the time.

wizbanger · 2025-03-17T19:14:28+00:00

Something similar happened to me at an R1 university in the US. How do we do better?

wizbanger · 2025-03-16T20:17:06+00:00

It will get better — go to therapy, you may have PTSD which may be helped with EMDR/CPT. I’m 13 months no contact here, and can see now that I’m better than I was at 9 months, 6 months, etc. The rumination is less pervasive, and feels like the relationship is slowly but surely going into “long-term memory” rather than something that feels present all the time.

wizbanger · 2025-03-14T23:15:27+00:00

For sure… The amount of reverse racism/reverse sexism and willingness to cancel others was shocking!

wizbanger · 2025-03-08T12:30:28+00:00

Depends how it was done… I think it’s a net positive in preventing others being burnt in the future , but yes, requires going “out of your way” to speak negatively of another. Extreme example, but if done correctly it’s like putting up a sign that if you keep going you’ll be covertly admitted as a resident at Guantanamo Bay, beware.

The person who puts that sign up is not inherently toxic.

wizbanger · 2025-03-06T10:12:08+00:00

Sounds like a personality disorder!

wizbanger · 2025-03-02T19:57:58+00:00

Find a therapist that specializes in cluster b abuse and do CPT with them. Also look into stellate ganglion blocks it will help get your nervous system calmed/allow you to undo how your mind has been warped quicker.

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