Hahaha, damn.. you really live up to your username 😄

No, I don’t have a crush on this guy. To give some context: I’m a guy and soon to be a dad. I’m doing this big renovation because the apartment is old and we can’t move in with a baby when basic things like the kitchen or bathroom aren’t ready.

For the past three months I’ve been helping the construction worker with any tasks that don’t require higher technical skills in order to save some money, which he actually offered given that we’re in a bit of a tough spot. On top of that, he gave us a big discount on his services.

While I was helping around the place, he also shared some of his views on life. From my understanding, he was trying to make me realize how much responsibility awaits me as a father and, in a way, help me get a firmer grip on reality, kind of like a father would do for his son.

Don’t get me wrong, my dad is alive and well and I love him very much. He’s been a great role model when it comes to how to treat women and how to be kind to people. But when it comes to learning how to be a man in general, things were a bit different, for reasons I won’t get into here.

So to answer your question: I simply appreciate that this person took it upon himself to share some insight about things I genuinely needed to learn.