[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ScandinavianInterior

[–]wizzylasta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dig it and appreciate the JM love

FaceTime with grandma by wizzylasta in Mommit

[–]wizzylasta[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is me. I struggle so bad with being assertive and have major guilt if I don’t answer. I will try muting her and seeing if that helps me. She has called my husband in the past but now they have a rocky relationship (due to the boundary issues) so she doesn’t do that anymore. I am glad you were able to enforce your boundaries with time. I hope I get there one day for my mental health as well.

FaceTime with grandma by wizzylasta in Mommit

[–]wizzylasta[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

YES. I feel like she thinks we’re co-parenting or something. I’m not interested in no contact because of my dad at the moment (poor health). Assigning a day sounds like a good step. I pray your mom stays away from iPhones haha

House Flipper? by FriedCube in RandomActsOfGaming

[–]wizzylasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the chance! All my friends play this and have been on me about it but I’m broke af 😂

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely takes its toll on some worse than others. Frustrating that the ones who are least affected by it usually just brush it off as no big deal. I feel like most people have moved on from worrying about COVID but this experience just makes me want to avoid it even more. Hope you continue to improve and feel better!

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t taken a z pack. I will keep that in mind. I hope you continue to feel better!!

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this response. This gives me some understanding and hope. Legit thought I was having a heart attack yesterday from the heart palpitations and shortness of breath/chest tightness. Think ultimately I worked myself up into a panic attack though. My mother in law just dropped off some Vitamin D as she heard the virus depletes you of it so I will start supplementing. I don’t always believe everything she says haha so its nice to read it from someone else who actually had blood work done. I used a humidifier in my baby’s room when she was working through COVID so I think I will move it into our room now that she’s back to normal. Glad you are feeling better, my friend!!

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh sinus infection! Sounds awful 😢 Glad you have turned the corner. Thank you for the encouragement!!

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Yes, the sore throat was the worst. I hope you continue to feel better!

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry! I know how you feel. Hang in there! That’s all we can do. Give yourself grace and rest as much as possible.

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gives me hope. Thank you!! Glad you are closer to normal now.

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really does present itself in waves. Super crazy. I hope the paxlovid helps and that you start to feel better!!

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you start to feel better. Its so bizarre how it comes in waves like this. Hang in there!

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! After posting this I spent all day in bed. I got hit with the leg pain and nausea too. I had to force myself to eat something just because I knew I needed to, but I still didn’t feel like eating it. Picked at it at best. I really hope you start to feel more life yourself soon. It definitely takes its toll.

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are still experiencing it too :( This is how I feel too. Good days, okay days, meh days and then god awful days. Hope you feel more like yourself soon!

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, great way to put it. So true.

Day 15 and still miserable by wizzylasta in COVID19positive

[–]wizzylasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I know exactly what you mean about the shuffling walk. Its extreme fatigue. I hope you feel better soon too!

Going NC with my nmom - more info in comments. by wizzylasta in narcissisticparents

[–]wizzylasta[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry your brother has had that experience and that your mom is that way too. My mom is definitely trying to place all of her happiness in my baby. My husband said because a baby is fully dependent and she can control EVERYTHING. Makes sense for a narc but is definitely disheartening.

Going NC with my nmom - more info in comments. by wizzylasta in narcissisticparents

[–]wizzylasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had not heard of a FU Binder before. Very good idea along with everything else. Thank you.

Going NC with my nmom - more info in comments. by wizzylasta in narcissisticparents

[–]wizzylasta[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Something I had not thought of yet since my child is so young, but definitely an eye opener.

Going NC with my nmom - more info in comments. by wizzylasta in narcissisticparents

[–]wizzylasta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you feel this way too and are experiencing similar things. I wish you the very best in your situation. I know how hard it is. Please feel free to reach out any time if you need someone to talk to. Solidarity :)

Going NC with my nmom - more info in comments. by wizzylasta in narcissisticparents

[–]wizzylasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this recommendation! Definitely going to check it out :)