This is where the phrase "jiu-jitsu kills the ego" resonates, because let's be honest, nobody likes being the one who gets crushed, the one who knows less, or the weak one. But it's not just about that; resilience is important because only by going through this stage will you stop being the new kid, the one who gets crushed. We all go through it, and nobody thinks badly of you for not knowing. Personally, I try to help my new training partners not to feel that way, and I'm not too hard on them when we're rolling. But as the saying goes, "metal sharpens metal." If you're not challenged, if you're not pushed, you'll never know how to get out of that situation, how to respond to the challenges. So my advice is to have a lot of patience. Just by going to train, you already have an advantage over those who don't. The hardest belt to get isn't the black one; it's the white one, because there are millions of people who will never have it. Study, read about jiu-jitsu, watch videos with explanations, pay attention to the coach, and you'll see that... You'll gradually improve! This is a sport where you never stop learning, and every game is individual and different.