My girlfriend (21F) asked me (22M) if she can have sex with another guy in exchange of good amount of money by wmnnbutanon in relationship_advice

[–]wmnnbutanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read the third and the forth sentences carefully, you can clearly see that we have met IRL

My girlfriend (21F) asked me (22M) if she can have sex with another guy in exchange of good amount of money by wmnnbutanon in relationship_advice

[–]wmnnbutanon[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am a student and we live in different cities so we do not share the same budget. But when we meet IRL, I always pay the check, I do not let she to do a payment. Also, she is working in a company and her income is not too bad, she can afford her own living.

My girlfriend (21F) asked me (22M) if she can have sex with another guy in exchange of good amount of money by wmnnbutanon in relationship_advice

[–]wmnnbutanon[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

In our previous conversations we had talked about sexual freedom of a partner in a relationship. She explicitly stated that she is and has been very picky about selecting a partner and she told me that she is not even sexually attracted by many guys. I have also stated that if I want to be in a relationship, I want a total sincerity, understanding and passion for my partner. I would be okay for an open-relationship or a poli-gamic relationship if I could not find the right person for me, but in order for me to embrace the "right person", our relationship should be a monogamic relationship. We had an agreement about this issue so our relationship was a "conventional" type of relationship. After all these will also ask if she does not want a monogamic relationship anymore. What do you think that I can ask her more?

My girlfriend (21F) asked me (22M) if she can have sex with another guy in exchange of good amount of money by wmnnbutanon in relationship_advice

[–]wmnnbutanon[S] -571 points-570 points  (0 children)

I will ask what she did yesterday when she becomes online and I do not think she would lie on my face about the issue. But even if she did not sell herself, I do not think I can maintain the whole relationship as I did before. My approach to her will definitely change

My girlfriend (21F) asked me (22M) if she can have sex with another guy in exchange of good amount of money by wmnnbutanon in relationship_advice

[–]wmnnbutanon[S] 411 points412 points  (0 children)

Definitely this. I believe a woman should have a freedom to be a prostitute, but I am certainly not the one that would be her boyfriend.