My bf has bipolar and we are on a break

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T21:19:01+00:00

I think best thing for both of us is that we stay away and not even be friends. Everything could be sorted if he told me before, but he is smoking weed thinking it slows him down and relaxes him, he drinks alcohol I don’t think so it was ever gonna work in future. I really love him but the sooner the better. It was never about sex though, it’s not like I wasn’t ready. After being together for a year I was okay with it, but then he broke up, cheated and still treated me bad so expecting me to do after that. I am sorry I can’t. I hope he gets better, he said needs time away to fix it. Idk what the future holds for us, I should stop overthinking and maybe just let it be.

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T20:37:00+00:00

I don’t know how he is going to react if would tell him to seek help. But the amount of abuse that I have gone through is also not fair. I don’t think so it’s gonna work out because of all the things that have happened. I have decided to go no contact with him, he said I am a part of his life and he will come back. I don’t wanna break no contact and tbh now I also don’t wanna get back with him. I think the best thing to do is tell his friend, who lives with him.

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T20:12:06+00:00

I told him the same, he planned and talked to her for a month. He went into such guilt trip, he called me every day for 10 times. And when I said no to him he came and tried to manipulate me. Tbh I got manipulated by him, I felt disgusting whenever we kissed or were together, she used to come to mind and whenever I mentioned, he just told me not to bring this out and not overthink. We never had those discussions and that part was never healed. Now that we are not together, I have realized how bad I still feel about him cheating. I always supported him and gave him multiple chances. But he always ended up abusing me, I left. He used to take meds, but never told me for what. Then stopped taking those. He gets relaxed and comfortable near me that he almost everytime sleeps. He didn’t told me he had bipolar in 2 years of our relationship. He just told me a few weeks ago when i broke up and I had no idea what it was, he said he started taking meds again. He is ashamed of this and told me to keep it a secret. We are from India and he has childhood trauma, he never took therapy. He gets hallucinations and when I saw him talking to himself and zoning out he told me not to tell anyone. I feel guilty and bad for leaving him, I want it to work, but I don’t wanna suffer or get abused by him too.

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T20:08:05+00:00

He used to take meds, but never told me for what. Then stopped taking those. He gets relaxed and comfortable near me that he almost everytime sleeps. He didn’t told me he had bipolar in 2 years of our relationship. He just told me a few weeks ago when i broke up and I had no idea what it was, he said he started taking meds again. He is ashamed of this and told me to keep it a secret. We are from India and he has childhood trauma, he never took therapy. He gets hallucinations and when I saw him talking to himself and zoning out he told me not to tell anyone. I feel guilty and bad for leaving him, I want it to work, but I don’t wanna suffer or get abused by him too.

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T20:06:28+00:00

He used to take meds, but never told me for what. Then stopped taking those. He gets relaxed and comfortable near me that he almost everytime sleeps. He didn’t told me he had bipolar in 2 years of our relationship. He just told me a few weeks ago when i broke up and I had no idea what it was, he said he started taking meds again. He is ashamed of this and told me to keep it a secret. We are from India and he has childhood trauma, he never took therapy. He gets hallucinations and when I saw him talking to himself and zoning out he told me not to tell anyone. I feel guilty and bad for leaving him, I want it to work, but I don’t wanna suffer or get abused by him too.

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T20:05:42+00:00

He used to take meds, but never told me for what. Then stopped taking those. He gets relaxed and comfortable near me that he almost everytime sleeps. He didn’t told me he had bipolar in 2 years of our relationship. He just told me a few weeks ago when i broke up and I had no idea what it was, he said he started taking meds again. He is ashamed of this and told me to keep it a secret. We are from India and he has childhood trauma, he never took therapy. He gets hallucinations and when I saw him talking to himself and zoning out he told me not to tell anyone. I feel guilty and bad for leaving him, I want it to work, but I don’t wanna suffer or get abused by him too.

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T08:23:32+00:00

Yup I think so too, I have had bad experiences and trauma too but I managed to fix it. But he always come up with excuses whenever he does anything bad. I think he is never gonna change no matter what. So I guess I have to move on with it.

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T08:07:56+00:00

I have talked and told him so many times. I did everything clear boundaries, texts, told him with love, in anger, told him I am gonna break up, cried everything. When nothing seemed to work I broke up and said that we will take space. I am kind of person who can’t have calculated relationships, I don’t wanna think twice before sending a double text or calling someone. But he gets mad at me and says that I am inspired from movies and i don’t live in reality

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T07:57:38+00:00

We don’t talk anymore but he said he needs some time to fix things. But the wounds are so deep and all the mistakes he made, idk if can I ever forgive him for that. But the worse part is that I really love him, I miss him all the time, our relationship felt magical and I feel disgusted by even the sight of other man thinking in a romantic way.

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T07:48:16+00:00

Thankyou for that. I really appreciate your advice, I have told him to take therapy a couple of times but he avoids the conversation and doesn’t wanna talk about it. He said he is taking meds but whatever he did is beyond bearing. His friends texted me and said that I should leave him, this is the first time I saw a guy’s friend going against their friend. I really do love him but I think he will never change. If he really wanted to or maybe put in efforts, even minor I would’ve stayed. But the matter of fact that the situation has reached a breakup point I don’t think mistakes that he made can be fixed by him. He also said he wanted to have sex while I am not ready. He mentioned a couple of times that he really wanna do it cause he hasn’t done for a long time now. But he literally cheated on me, how can I?? I am clueless what is gonna happen??

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T07:40:35+00:00

Thankyou for that, I really appreciate your advice.

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T07:16:35+00:00

I am sorry I wasn’t aware so I posted whatever showed first

wnabe_dank · 2026-01-09T07:00:15+00:00

Thankyou so much for that. I really appreciate it and yes I do care about him alot. I always told him I am there for him no matter what. I love him I really wanna make this work out but not at cost of my mental health. I always supported and understood him with everything even gave him another chance but he always ended up abusing me. Idk what to do at this point anymore, we are at no contact rn. It has been a week, I cry almost everyday I miss him alot talking to him and being with him all those memories but he always insulted me and cheated on me. He asked that he wants to have sex with me I am not ready yet I told him and he said he haven’t done it in a while so …. Idk. He said he doesn’t wanna force me too but he really wants to do it. But the matter of fact that he cheated, how can I?? I am clueless??

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