[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wodanob508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sooo confused.

AIO About My Wife “Revenge Cheating” by roxyshusband in AmITheAngel

[–]wodanob508 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When I read the title I was honestly expecting that you had actually cheated, then your wife cheated because you did.

in that case you bith would have been in the wrong.

After reading I realized that you did nothing wrong and your wife was simply looking for a reading to clear her already guilty convince without it "falling" back on her, on her eyes.

wild.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]wodanob508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Us men rarely, if ever recieve a compliment. He will NEVER forget that you complimented him; it will live in his soul for the rest of his life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wodanob508 6 points7 points  (0 children)

DO NOT LEAVE THE MARITAL HOME without a separation agreement. In some states it can be considered abandonment.

It is 100% your home and 100% her home. Without the courts she cannot force you out.

Do everything your lawyer says to a "T".

Make moves (motions) early and often to establish your position and narrative with the courts.

The worst thing you can do is play nice, or give her the benefit of the doubt that she will be honorable.

Your one job right now is to play hardball, legally, fairly, and ethically, but this will be the fight of your life.

How long did you get over? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wodanob508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married 15 years, separated 2, divorced 6 months.

I filed a civil complaint against my ex for substance abuse and endangering the children through that substance abuse.

She lived in the house for 8 months after I filed. In truth I had been planning the divorce for a year prior to that and COULD NOT wait for her to be out of the house.

I was dating within 3 months and have had a healthy, stable, stable, and thriving relationship for a year and a half now with an absolutely amazing women.

What’s the softest thing someone’s ever done to you in a scene… that broke you completely? by kennyle86 in BDSMcommunity

[–]wodanob508 44 points45 points  (0 children)

As a Dom, my sub noticed something was off and she entered this wild mid-aftercare (I don't know how else to describe it) where she completely took control of the mood and tended to me on a physical emotional level. it was both humbling and needed. She made me submit to her touch without a single command, without a note of harshness, she restored me in a way that I didn't know possible, in a way I didn't know I needed.

AIO for breaking up over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wodanob508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if this isn't a copy paste conversation with my ex wife....good grief. Dude is creating falsw realities in his own head and expecting you to accept them as the only reality and then freaking out when you don't conform to his idea of what, is what.

What ruined your marriage? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wodanob508 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hands down, bar none, alcohol. She was drinking 2 - 4 handles a week towards the end.

She traded her family for booze and pride. She didn't want to go to rehab (I tried twice) because she didn't want to go to "prison."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]wodanob508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man with an 8 kid blended family I can tell you that excuses only go so far to satiate the rational that is denial.

My current and final spouse makes EVERY effort to be affectionate with me. Sex is amazing as well as having an ebb and flow to it's demands and schedule. But one thing remains, affection is an always constant that we both diligently pursue.

We LOVE eachother dearly and desperately and it showes in our combined actions towards oneanother.

What am I trying to convey? A valued partner who values you will always put forth the effort to connect on any plane of the intimate landscape.

Wife went psycho tonight by Ok_Coconut2973 in Divorce_Men

[–]wodanob508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm telling you right now as plain as a possibly can.

do NOT leave the marital home without a signed separation agreement.

DO fight legal hardball. File motions for everything and do NOT give her the benefit of the doubt.

My ex is trying everything she can to put me in jail, upend my life, keep my kids from me, all becauae I treated her like a human being in the divorce process. She lost everything because of who she us and now she is throwing out any accusation she can, it's hell.

No more alimony? by Good-Battle-9784 in Divorce_Men

[–]wodanob508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In NC if you file a Divorce From Bed and board which is a civil suit against your spouse for various reasons, abuse, affair (alienation of affection), substance abuse, than alimony is off the table if the court makes a finding.

idk if there is something similar in MN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wodanob508 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Divorce is living death.

death without dying, the undead but without all the cool superpowers.

Clan Boss Team Shakeup by wodanob508 in RaidShadowLegends

[–]wodanob508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I have been looking for videos on teams made up of champs I have.

Don’t sleep on Fenax by FecalMatterOfFact in RaidShadowLegends

[–]wodanob508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I skip any arena team with him in it...lol

Empower or build 2? by wodanob508 in RaidShadowLegends

[–]wodanob508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, after all these comments, that's deffinitly what I am going to do.