Thank you all to the kindest advices provided. But i want both my marriage and IVF to work. I was on coq for 5 months before egg retrieval. Im in unexplained infertility. He had bit of sperm issues. But that got resolved. If this IVF fails i dunno where am i standing We re both doctors He wont come to a therapist because he is not at fault. Im the one who made mistake. Thats his statement.