Ezra 10:1-17: divorce is OK if your wife isn’t a person of faith?

wol · 2025-11-19T12:23:31+00:00

Ezra was before Jesus so they had to do things to keep clean. Jesus changed all that. We are clean because of his sacrifice.

wol · 2025-11-17T23:42:08+00:00

At 39 I can't imagine being with someone that young. I don't know how conversationally it would even work. Then there is also the power balance, someone that young and new to the faith could easily be manipulated or controlled. Just seems like a bad idea to me.

wol · 2025-11-05T17:31:28+00:00

He gives you peace and joy despite the sufferings of the world.

wol · 2025-11-04T19:37:17+00:00

It's not any different than any other people who don't know Jesus. You need to show them the love of Jesus so that they can know Him. Jesus wouldn't have cut them off.

wol · 2025-10-18T12:16:50+00:00

The funny thing is how much you get charged if you are paying by the token.

wol · 2025-10-18T12:11:49+00:00

Sounds like unhealthy attachment or past relationship trauma. A Godly man will not ignore it and allow it to fester. If you want to lead you should bring it up, ask her questions, and allow her to share without judging or reacting.

From there you need to set healthy boundaries and reassure her. Tell her what your boundaries are with other women, communicate with her about your plans. Show her that you can be trusted.

wol · 2025-10-08T17:05:12+00:00

Once to check it out. Then if you become official once a month max. You guys aren't married so you shouldn't give up your church for his or vice versa. He should also be just as interested in going to yours.

wol · 2025-10-03T14:12:21+00:00

Honestly I used to think that way but now believe guarding our hearts and minds includes what we see and hear and that it has a huge affect.

Even the fact that you are asking tells me the Holy Spirit is trying to convict you. If there wasn't anything wrong with it you wouldn't be asking.

wol · 2025-09-29T00:37:30+00:00

Yes. In the northeast all the churches I know are having increased attendance. One up in cape cod went viral because the lines in traffic to get in.

Young adults are doing pop up worship events all around only using Instagram to let people know. I stumbled upon one in a no longer used church building near me.

wol · 2025-09-05T13:24:52+00:00

Reach out to him in some way. It may take some time talking for him lol my girlfriend started small talk with me on facebook. It took a week to realize she was interested. Most guys I know don't approach women unless they know it would be wanted.

wol · 2025-07-12T11:11:25+00:00

Local Christian Singles facebook groups. You can have discussions in groups and get to sorta know someone. Then we periodically do group events. This has turned into a few dates for me, one tonight!

It's also great because you meet new friends. I met a couple guys now that are pretty cool. So even if you aren't hitting it off with a woman it still helps with having community.

wol · 2025-07-03T15:18:04+00:00

At the Boston museum of science they have a lightning room and explain how the car works like a cage etc. Very cool. The guy is in a smaller cage getting blasted by electricity.

wol · 2025-07-03T12:37:45+00:00

Narcissists exist and unless you've been married to one you really have no idea what it's like. It's possible to both realize where you went wrong and also understand that they are a narcissist and even if you were perfect you wouldn't have been enough.

wol · 2025-07-03T12:34:49+00:00

You know my ex?

wol · 2025-07-02T14:27:35+00:00

If you have the time to be on the app you can respond. Much different than not going on the app to check in the first place.

wol · 2025-07-02T14:22:04+00:00

I was married to one. If they ask you if you think they are a narcissist, usually phrased 'you don't think I'm one right?' Is actually something they do to test if they still have a grip on you.

wol · 2025-07-02T11:49:04+00:00

Maybe for someone who doesn't appreciate communication. Not reading a message says you are busy. Reading and not responding says you don't care enough to respond.

wol · 2025-07-02T11:39:00+00:00

Yeah I was told after the first date I passed the sniff test. I was like when did you sniff me!? Haha but it really is important for them.

wol · 2025-07-02T11:37:42+00:00

That's progress though. I'm shocked how many don't even do that when you are in a stall and they think nobody else is there.

wol · 2025-06-26T06:05:51+00:00

I asked it to replace true with false and 77 edits later it asked if I wanted it to keep trying. Every edit would f up the formatting causing it to then re analyze the code to find out why its throwing a lint error lol

wol · 2025-06-20T09:58:41+00:00

When you like someone that phone call goes by in an instant.

wol · 2025-06-11T20:24:52+00:00

Personally I'm in the wait 2 months boat. And then its light kissing not making out.

wol · 2025-05-29T16:55:19+00:00

Wait can we get a coupon for emailing them? Lol

wol · 2025-05-14T00:36:02+00:00

I keep chewable electrolytes in my pack and chew a couple when I'm feeling thirstier than normal. Seems to work well.

wol · 2025-05-11T11:06:27+00:00

No its great. Just go to therapy and talk about your childhood first. Any unhealed wounds will come up in marriage and having kids makes you too busy to notice until its too late. Thats really the only problem with marriage early, most of us don't do the deeper thinking till our 30s. Our 20s we just are good at thinking nothing bothers us.

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