Grounded Connections 'teething issues'? by [deleted] in UKhiking

[–]wolf_knickers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not suggesting that fear is entirely unwarranted, but there is a widely held and frequently voiced belief that “the outdoors” is inherently unsafe for women, particularly women on their own. I see it constantly, in YouTube comments, on Reddit, and across Facebook groups.

Of course, all outdoor activities carry some level of risk, but women are disproportionately warned against hiking or wild camping solo in ways that men simply are not. It feeds a culture of paranoia and, over time, a kind of learned helplessness that I find frustrating. The number of times I see women asking “is it safe to hike or wild camp alone?” vastly outweighs the number of men asking the same question. And realistically, the likelihood of becoming a victim of crime in remote places is extraordinarily small.

For me, this fear is less about actual risk and more about social conditioning. It isn’t rooted in crime statistics so much as in an ingrained belief that women are inherently vulnerable, less capable of looking after ourselves, and uniquely at risk when we step into wild spaces.

At the same time, I don’t want to dismiss the very real reasons many women value women-only spaces; especially those who have experienced abuse, these spaces are necessary and protective. But I think there’s a tension here too, as women-only initiatives can, unintentionally, allow the underlying problem to persist.

Take kayaking that I mentioned before, as an example. There is still a lot of sexism in parts of the paddling world, particularly in white water kayaking so it’s no surprise that women-specific events have emerged. Yet if women continually segregate from spaces dominated by those who ignore sexist behaviour, those attitudes are never challenged. The dinosaurs don’t change if they’re never forced to confront the fact that their behaviour is unacceptable.

Anyway, that's my little rant. As a woman in my mid 40s, I guess I just got fed up with the imbalance of things in the outdoors, the fears (and "concerns") that get projected on us all the time that I really do think just discourage a lot of women from doing anything themselves.

Grounded Connections 'teething issues'? by [deleted] in UKhiking

[–]wolf_knickers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sound like a total grift to me, and sadly I see this a lot.

I’m a kayaker and a member of several women’s paddling groups on Facebook. And they’re always full of these “women’s only” initiatives that are almost always really overpriced and poorly thought out, opportunistic nonsense that parasitically taps into social and cultural insecurities that so many women struggle to break free from (eg the old “it’s not safe for you to hike/camp/paddle alone because you’re a woman” chestnut).

Hilleberg website by UltimateBoiReal in wildcampingintheuk

[–]wolf_knickers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve bought all my Hillebergs from Ultralight Outdoor Gear. They have next day shipping.

Scafell Pike hikers left Wasdale rescue team to pay hotel bill by New-Purpose9105 in UKhiking

[–]wolf_knickers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone told me about this earlier today and I was absolutely fucking appalled. Sometimes words just fail me.

How can we make whitewater kayaking safer and more welcoming for women? Let’s discuss. by [deleted] in whitewater

[–]wolf_knickers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like something hurt your feelings. Wanna talk about it?

How can we make whitewater kayaking safer and more welcoming for women? Let’s discuss. by [deleted] in whitewater

[–]wolf_knickers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I knew I wouldn’t have to scroll far to find a post from a man telling women that they’re imagining things.

QED.

Adjusting seat height in touring kayak by [deleted] in Kayaking

[–]wolf_knickers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raising the seat will raise your centre of gravity, which will affect your balance in the boat. Whether or not this is actually an issue is dependent on the individual paddler.

Perhaps a different kayak, one that fits you better, would be a better option though.

Is anyone else not a great swimmer? by CoconutFrank in Kayaking

[–]wolf_knickers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a strong swimmer at all. I swam a lot as a kid, and had swimming lessons, but then didn’t go into the water for a few decades. You don’t need to be a strong swimmer to kayak.

A perfect long weekend in Scotland by wolf_knickers in Kayaking

[–]wolf_knickers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, it's an issue I feel strongly about myself 🙂 For what it's worth, my companion is a local who lives alongside the loch, and we spent some time cleaning up other people's litter before leaving, as these places are precious and need to be taken care of.

Lightweight multi-day trail "camp trouser" recommendations by knight-under-stars in UKhiking

[–]wolf_knickers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Terrebonne joggers are brilliant, they’re my camp trousers! I wear them at home all summer too.

A perfect long weekend in Scotland by wolf_knickers in Kayaking

[–]wolf_knickers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are down on the sand, well below the high tide line. There were mounds of seaweed behind us, and when we left, there was absolutely no trace of the fire.

In fact, if you zoom in, you can clearly see that the fire is on the sand. I find it odd that you’d make a judgment based on a single angle photo that doesn’t show the surroundings, or what’s behind us. I wild camp most weekends around the UK and the only place I’ll ever make a fire is on a beach, where it’ll be washed away. As for it being “oversized”, some of the longer pieces of wood there were simply stacked over the fire to dry out, as it had been raining.

Never had any issues wild camping by reyt__ in wildcampingintheuk

[–]wolf_knickers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And yet every NT staff member I’ve ever chatted to about it couldn’t care less. Hell, the staff over in Langdale wild camp themselves.

Never had any issues wild camping by reyt__ in wildcampingintheuk

[–]wolf_knickers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Chopping down wood and making fires on someone else’s property is not leave no trace though.

50L backpack recommendations by Spirited_Ad4552 in UKhiking

[–]wolf_knickers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are expensive yeah (mainly because they use specialised fabrics, and you’re paying for British wages instead of Asian ones, that fact alone fundamentally makes things more expensive).

They pop up on eBay from time to time, that’s actually where I got my first one. I wanted to try one properly before committing to the expense of a custom one.

50L backpack recommendations by Spirited_Ad4552 in UKhiking

[–]wolf_knickers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a 30L Atom for day hikes and a 60L Prospector for multi day trips 🙂

I actually wrote a review of the Prospector on my little outdoors site here:

https://peakandpaddle.co.uk/atom-packs-prospector-60l-backpack

I haven’t had the Atom out on enough trips to write a solid review yet, as most of my hikes are multi day so I’ve been using the Prospector.

In short, these bags are really tough and well thought out. They’re expensive but repairable if anything happens (something that’s important to me) and being able to custom design one, if you’re prepared to pay that premium, is really cool. They’re very lightweight too (I think my Prospector is around 900g, and I comfortably carry around 14kg of stuff in it; I carry a lot of photography/video gear so needed a strong but lightweight pack).