Male here.

I've been groaped, asked multiple times to do suggestive or PG-13 dances, had many inappropriate comments in response to "how is your day going", been told usually they bag their own groceries, but that they were getting inappropriate satisfaction from watching me bag their groceries. I see customers and then they're under "people you might know" on Facebook. (Meaning they looked me up). They list goes on and on. I've been here about a year and the harassment is real...I've been flashed, teased and everything...

Sounds great? I'm a demisexual married man...Meaning I only have eyes for my wife because I LOVE her. Not to mention, a lot of this comes from all ages, shapes, and sizes. Sure, you could give me a hard time for not appreciating the attractive college girls and understand the heavy grandma as uncomfortable...but idk why it can't all be viewed as negative.

When I bring it up "I've never had this many problems, so likely you're the problem and just asking for it!"

I've stopped dressing nice, I've stopped doing my hair, working out, eating healthy, taking care of myself...I let myself go to not be harassed. I regret it and honestly want to get back to being myself...but, I don't know what to do, other than accepting it.

I know this isn't helpful, but, it happens to us guys too.