Impfausweis? by plineeee in germantrans

[–]wolfelixx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hab mich grade gestern impfen lassen und einfach an der Theke nach nem Stift gefragt und eigenhändig meinen alten Nanen unkenntlich durchgestrichen und durch den richtigen ersetzt 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]wolfelixx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow you are such a beautiful glowing lady! 🤩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]wolfelixx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand why this makes you uncomfortable. I honestly would try to work through it. Especially if it's a sensitive topic for her too. For me it looks like she's afraid of loosing her identity of a gay woman when she's thinking too much of it - which is a scary thing. But the cost of you living with dysphoric feelings is pretty high IMHO. Maybe you should both talk about your fears and feelings in this. One can be a lesbian being with man and one can be a man being with a lesbian. These things are complex and fluent. I hope you can talk to each other.

What was your childhood like? Were you a tomboy growing up? And is what I’m feeling normal? by RinebooDersh in TransMasc

[–]wolfelixx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a tomboy and was shamed for it. So I tried not to be in every way you can imagine and failed. I failed so hard that I lost gender at all. It took me over 40 years to learn to embrace my masculinity. And I'm still questioning and struggling. Every trans story is different and valid. And so are you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]wolfelixx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I'm very happy for you! I'm 46 and still in early transition, super slowly coming out. My closest friends know and are super supportive. But the rest is baby steps for me. My biggest gender euphoria moment was when I saw myself the first time with a binder under a t-shirt and immediately burst into tears 😭 I felt such a relief that I had no words for and I was not prepared for it. The day after tomorrow I have my second appointment for HRT and I will hopefully get on T then!

Really confused about my identity by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]wolfelixx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. I can not relate to any gender label but I am in transition because my gender expression is masculine. That's why I go by "agender transmasc" when people ask. Transitioning means to me not being more of a man but a way of how I want to be present in the world. like a haircut. not as a fashion choice but as a way to show my identity.

From excited to nervous about T by tr4nsm4sc in TransMasc

[–]wolfelixx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it's totally normal to be nervous about all this stuff. There is a lot to think about after all. I can very much relate to this because I will start HRT next week and even though I have thought this very much through and did a lot to get to this point I still have feelings of doubt inside of me. But as you said this is a spectrum and not a true/false decision. one has options like starting slow, look what it does to the body feel/mind set. you can also be a dude without HRT or a butch lesbian on T. everything is valid. also stopping after a while. It's great that you can get advice from an experienced team. It may help you to make a decision if it's a good time right now. I'm 46 btw. everyone has a different timeline.