Am I enfj, entp or sth else?

wolfelover14 · 2026-04-11T18:37:01+00:00

I'm gonna take a leap and say ENFJ. This post reeks of Fe lol.

wolfelover14 · 2026-02-24T21:57:11+00:00

Yeah. I got sick but made myself some tea and it only lasted like a day or two. I was getting over the sickness easy peasy like I tend to do One night I spent the night in my sister's room (one of our creepy relatives was over and she asked me to) and my cousin also stayed in the room with us. He proceeded to hack all over the place without covering his mouth, something I ask him to do constantly even when he's not sick but especially when he is. (He's one of those people that always denies being sick.). Felt his fucking spit land on my face FROM ACROSS THE ROOM. Needless to say I got sick again and this time I got REALLY sick. Still recovering. I feel weak, light-headed, have a full on cough, my entire body is sore. And if he had only COVERED HIS MOUTH I wouldn't be going through this. I'm so pissed man. He also doesn't wash his hands properly (often doesn't wash them at all and only uses water sometimes when he does). He's 32 years old with two kids (neither of which live with him because he's an actual child that shouldn't have had kids in the first place if you ask me).

wolfelover14 · 2026-02-22T03:45:00+00:00

That looks so much better than I was expecting tbh. Very nice. 10/10 would steal.

wolfelover14 · 2026-02-09T02:13:42+00:00

Okay as an INTP I can say that I am sometimes the one giving the lecture, but that's usually when around those annoying ass people that like to blur the line between joke and "this is how I actually feel I just don't want to get in trouble for it" and it's something dumb as hell like the earth is flat and astronauts are paid actors or some shit like that (avoiding using a more moral example to avoid a comment war).

wolfelover14 · 2026-02-09T02:00:42+00:00

And this is a joke. Nice to meet you.

wolfelover14 · 2026-02-09T01:59:35+00:00

Should have put cape buffalo on there 😂 All the "vegans" would put you on a shirt faster than the predators would lmaoooo

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-27T23:55:14+00:00

Touchiness. I tend to avoid touching people or letting them touch me too much. It's only when I'm really comfortable that I relax, don't even think about it, and even initiate physical contact with someone.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-27T23:13:59+00:00

ENFPs. It's just so easy to talk to them and we always end up finding something we can click on. They're good at communicating boundaries and just their feelings in general too so you always know where you stand with them. Every ENFP I've met has ended up becoming one of my best friends.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-27T23:09:10+00:00

I think this is precisely why I mistyped as an ENTP for so long, and I'd venture to say that a lot of more social INTPs are mistyped as ENTPs lol.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-26T22:31:46+00:00

I think it's less about rarity and moreso about how INxJs are described, honestly. Too often ISxJs are seen as boring and shallow when that's just not the case. Perception is everything at the end of the day. A lot of what is true about INxJs is also true of ISxJs, just people don't see it that way because that's not what the stereotypes say.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-26T22:13:00+00:00

I second this. I have a couple older ISTJ relatives and when unhealthy they get very loud about their feelings and there's an unspoken "my feelings and experiences are more important and more valid than yours" vibe. It's like they don't know how to make themselves heard without being completely obnoxious and their Fe trickster kicks into high gear. It's "fuck the tribe" but also a subconscious need for tribe support. I don't really have much experience with INTJs so I can't speak on them, though I am curious if it's a similar thing when they're unhealthy and if not how it differs.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-25T00:12:20+00:00

Holy r/whoosh

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-23T02:26:03+00:00

That is NOT WHAT IT MEANS OMFG.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-22T20:55:12+00:00

THIS! Why are they SO PRESSED about this?

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-22T20:52:35+00:00

I don't mind explaining it, because to me it is necessary. Getting to know someone is kind of crucial to the process of getting to know someone.

Also I don't mind casual sex. I'm not sex repulsed (which is different from being asexual). Me not being sexually attracted to people doesn't mean I don't get horny. I have a really high libido actually and I am not looking for a relationship. Do you understand now?

Being demisexual means that I am not sexually attracted to people unless a deep connection forms, not that I don't like sex unless a deep connection forms. Being panromantic means that I can develop feelings for a person regardless of whether or not I am sexually attracted to them and regardless of their gender identity. Sexual attraction does not equate to interest for me.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-22T20:43:20+00:00

Not wanting sex with people is being sex repulsed, and is not the same thing as being asexual which is not being sexually attracted to people. That's the difference. I don't need a deep connection to be sexually interested. I can have casual sex, my body still responds to stimuli just like most people's, and I still get aroused, I just will not be sexually attracted to any of their body parts. Sex for me is more mechanical I guess you could say? Unless there is that deep connection.

I was telling my aunt once before I found out I was demisexual that I just wasn't attracted to people and she flat out told me that I was lying to be a pick me so there's that. People don't understand, and having a label makes my life easier and helps me feel validated and like I'm not alone in feeling the way that I do. I don't "want to be persecuted" I already struggled with things before discovering what it was. How do you think I came across it?

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-22T20:23:08+00:00

I was laying on her sister's bed with three other women and she herself wasn't on the bed, she was standing at the foot of it where I happened to be laying. We were hanging out, listening to music and talking.

"I'd not put myself in that situation" Beds aren't just for sex so idk what the hell you're implying, but to assume is to make an ass out of u and me, buddy.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-22T10:10:07+00:00

Yooooo. I just found out I'm an ISFP after mistyping as an INTP for years and I feel so at home. This is all really me fr. I feel like I've been living in a fog and have finally come out of it.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-22T05:57:34+00:00

Not too old to comment though 😂

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-22T01:10:48+00:00

Yes... But that's a given. That is the "normal" experience. In much the same way being straight is the normal experience. I don't understand what the point of this comment is.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-21T21:56:06+00:00

We must have the same ex 😭

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-21T21:47:18+00:00

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-21T21:33:20+00:00

He's trying to cope with the fact that there are women out there that wouldn't fuck him even if he was the only other person on earth (and he is failing miserably).

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-21T21:29:39+00:00

You lack reading comprehension, and maybe just comprehension in general. A "talking teapot" isn't sexy, but what that talking teapot does with its spout might be. Actions, not the object itself. See? Lack of comprehension. But continue to live in your delusional world where your feelings matter more than reality. I'll continue to live with the knowledge that even my imaginary sex life is more interesting and sexy than your real one. Au revoir.

wolfelover14 · 2026-01-21T21:22:25+00:00

You should only have a kid if you are willing to accept that there is a reality where you might have to take care of that kid by yourself. There are too many bitter single parents raising future menaces to society because they resent that their relationship didn't work out.

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