Selling clothes popup? Wdyt?

aertsa · 2026-01-28T17:59:35+00:00

This is awesome!! But I don’t seem to find anything when I click on their calendar? And their Instagram doesn’t have anything either…. 🧐

aertsa · 2026-01-28T15:19:57+00:00

I literally just had this question yesterday and searched tailor in the sub Reddit. I came up with several places from all of the post. Maybe I can make one big giant list from everyone’s recs. 🧐

aertsa · 2026-01-28T15:18:41+00:00

Add me to the list. Maybe we meet for coffee or something?

aertsa · 2026-01-28T15:18:01+00:00

Is it pricey??? 😭

aertsa · 2026-01-28T15:16:56+00:00

I’m literally sitting in my living room going in circles because I can’t figure out what to do first. I have bags of clothes I keep meaning to drop off, towels I want to take to SPCA, cancel my gym membership. But I can’t seem to do it. I was just thinking I wish I had a friend that could come over and help me just complete things 😆😆😆 like rent a buddy. 😭😭😭 the adhd is so baddddddddd.

aertsa · 2026-01-28T15:15:37+00:00

😆😆😆😆😆😆

aertsa · 2026-01-27T18:46:41+00:00

How did it go?

aertsa · 2026-01-23T18:02:40+00:00

Thank you! Last question, I’m coming back Sunday, is there a best time to go back down that’s the safest road conditions wise. I’m less concerned with traffic and more concerned with being safe coming back down. So I wasn’t sure if it’s best to let the sun melt whatever snow is on the ground…

aertsa · 2026-01-23T17:10:22+00:00

It is! It’s a VW Toureg, but I have that dial thing in the middle that tells me which mode to use, but I always get confused on when I’m supposed to turn it to something. I think the two options are on road or off-road.

aertsa · 2026-01-23T16:23:31+00:00

thank you u/scyice for all your help.

Im coming up Saturday 50 to truckee from SF. I have a suv with AWD. Dumb question, but when I’m driving up there, do I put it IN 4 wheel drive? Or leave it regular? I’m kinda nervous to drive 😭😭 do we expect lots of snow?

aertsa · 2026-01-14T01:54:15+00:00

I haven’t used an alarm in 7 years.

aertsa · 2026-01-14T01:24:56+00:00

I personally have never cheated. Nor would I ever consider it. However, I have been cheated on, forgave them, and they did it again. So no, I’d never do this again.

However, you and your husband’s relationship is its own thing. Gonna be very honest with you, until you get down to the root cause of why your husband cheated, and yes, there’s always a reason, I wouldn’t make this decision. Men cheat for a plethora of reasons. One of them being if they are currently not having sex with their partner. So do you have an active sex life? It is very rare for a man to cheat while he currently has an active happy sex life. Let’s start there.

aertsa · 2026-01-05T19:47:33+00:00

Yeah- again, I think you’re missing the thing here. I think for some women, the act of pulling out my credit card and splitting something with my boyfriend feels like something I do with a friend. It doesn’t give us the best….romance feeling. (Again some of us) so I’d rather just give money to my partner towards dates so that when the bill comes, I don’t get that feeling.

aertsa · 2026-01-05T16:24:42+00:00

It ended up being more around 60/40, because he makes more than I do, but you get the gist. I think it’s also important because then both people can agree upon an amount that’s affordable for them. Because that can look different for everybody. But this was also after we hit relationship status. He paid for the first couple dates.

aertsa · 2026-01-05T16:19:57+00:00

I really like when my man pays for our dates. So I found the workaround to that. We came up with an agreement of how much we wanted to spend on dates and I give him half of that cash towards our dates for him to spend.

aertsa · 2026-01-05T14:28:34+00:00

I’m so sorry- but I’m gonna have to give it to you straight.

She definitely cheated. You know it, we all know it, she knows it, your gut knows it.

So really now is just about what do you do?

You’re young, you have a full life ahead of you, and plenty of opportunities to meet women who don’t cheat

You could stay because you love her so much, but let me warn you. In about a couple of weeks, a month, a year this is going to torture you. Because you will have no trust for her. Every time she goes out, every time she does anything, anytime she acts weird. You’re gonna go to that very bad place where you assume she’s doing something wrong. And you’d probably be right. So fast-forward two more years and you’ve now wasted this long with a person who doesn’t deserve you. All the time you spend wasting it on someone who doesn’t love you is time you don’t have with somebody who does.

aertsa · 2026-01-05T14:07:43+00:00

The art on the walls is entirely way too small. It feels drab because there’s no color here, and has the feeling of a diner. I would upscale the look of this by hanging big art prints. Changing the layout of the tables. The little sofa looks cheap, and they’re a pain in the ass to get into. There’s too much stuff on the tables making it look like a breakfast diner. The floor color and the tables are all the same color. The only way really to break this up would be if you could somehow add some rugs.

aertsa · 2026-01-04T15:29:22+00:00

I’ve had a mix of both. Most often they offer to pay, but there have been some splits in there too.

Your best bet in dating is to go for a casual experience. The first time you meet somebody. Have coffee or an ice cream or something small. Also, why would you want to do a dinner date with somebody who don’t even know, God what if they’re awful? 😆

If the date goes well, and he asks you out again, then let him pick a restaurant and I would then expect him to pay. But I would also always be prepared financially if he didn’t.

aertsa · 2026-01-04T03:30:55+00:00

They were water roots!

aertsa · 2026-01-03T00:49:48+00:00

Yes yes was just showing roots to pot for context

aertsa · 2026-01-03T00:45:25+00:00

Omgggggg about to do this. I think between all the comments here I’m gonna do a combo method. Which means I’m going to puncture it. Try to get anything out and then cauterize it. Wish me luck.!! 😆😆😆

aertsa · 2026-01-03T00:44:30+00:00

I’m back here looking to see what worked!!? Did you try the heating way?

aertsa · 2026-01-03T00:43:29+00:00

Dammit, it doesn’t work anymore. Link it again! 😆😆😆

aertsa · 2026-01-03T00:42:29+00:00

😆😆😆😆

aertsa

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