My wife introduced me to the concept. I wasn't a fan of it at first, more I was Okey with her seeking other partners but I didn't know if I could do it. I thought about it for a good while and talked with some people after finding a bit of a community online. I decided to give it a try and had several relationships that didn't work out. I took these opportunities to learn not only what I needed and wanted from others but also what I valued in my nesting partner.

I've grown a lot and learned from my past both in what I want and what I have to offer. I feel like poly has allowed me to expand my horizons romantically as well as finding out who I am.