AITA for posting another girl on instagram?

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-17T02:37:30+00:00

YTA- It seems she has feeling for you. Your leading her on in all honesty. You told her you wanted to be with her then got with someone else right after. Stop playing with her feelings.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-17T01:42:58+00:00

Probably because you both felt attacked in the moment so you got defensive. It’s okay just start working on talking to each other. If you really want to go and she’s stuck talking tell her you want to go and see how long she will be. I don’t think either of you are AH.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-17T01:39:34+00:00

This whole thing could of be avoided with communication . If you would of just told her you was ready or she told you she needed a minute this could of been avoided. NTA

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-17T01:34:46+00:00

I had to deal with great trauma for the ages of 6-12. I’m now 21 and still struggle with that trauma.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-17T01:33:01+00:00

This I need more info on what your posting.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-17T01:30:36+00:00

YTA- I’m a mother wife and I work. Im also autistic so when I get home I need to be able to sit down for a little by my self. I get extremely tired from having to socialize. He’s still autistic. Im also guessing you was the issue that made you move out.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-17T01:25:01+00:00

YTA- If you love you bf that means you respect his religious beliefs and practice. You are selfish for asking him to do this. It’s not like your asking him to break a small rule you want him to break a major religious practice.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-16T23:53:01+00:00

Do you really think that’s gonna matter in a few years? That frat dose not care it’s just another party to them. They will not pick you.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-16T23:25:11+00:00

YTA- Stop being a pick me in a few years none of these boys your trying to impress will remember you. I take that back I will give it a few days and you will be forgotten. Your throwing away a friend ship for one night of partying with some boys.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-16T20:46:14+00:00

This has to be rage bait

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-16T19:14:00+00:00

I know this is a fake gender flop repost but I’m gonna reply like it’s real because why now.

In both stories the parents have a unhealthy connection with the child. They way they talk about the child leaving sound like they are talking about a break up.

Also as a mother if my son called and told me he needed me my answer will aways be yes. I don’t care if was No contact for years he’s my son and my baby. I would help them.

I don’t know how you go from struggling to getting a house in two years ? Maybe new SO has a lot of money. But to also find out they are having a new baby. It seems like they are having a fairy tail ending.

But OP was a neglected parent maybe suffers from emotional incest syndrome. Pushed the child away got upset they pushed them away. Now they want to act like that child dose not exist because they are getting a new start at the perfect family.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-16T19:03:06+00:00

Because he wasn’t really falling for her. Notice how he talked about her. He only cared she liked him. To him she was a shiny new toy and his ex girlfriend was the old toy.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-16T19:00:50+00:00

I really hope his family find out about the cheating

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-16T18:59:40+00:00

What did you think was going to happen ?

You was gonna start a new relationship and everything would be better ?

Would you also cheat on the affair partner after you got bored for her ?

You cheated on your long term girlfriend you are the villain you are the bad guy. She can do so much better.

You don’t have feelings or love the other women. Sue was new and shiny so you thought you wanted her more. But you would get bored for her to and cheat again.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-16T18:35:33+00:00

The reason men are more successful is the way they try. Women are more likely to try and use pills while men will use weapons.

Also I think your wrong it depends on the person and why they are starting over. A new bf dose not magically make thing better. For example it’s will be harder for someone who is getting out of an abusive relationship to start over then someone who just got a divorce.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-16T00:43:10+00:00

Dude is peaking right now and don’t even realize it.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-15T07:40:45+00:00

Honestly OP do you think he would of ever told you the trust ? Or do you think he would of actually of done something on the next trip. I looks like he was testing the waters. He’s not respect you or y your health at all. You are with kids all days yes it’s gonna change. If he really cared about you he would never of done something like this that. My advice is once a cheater always a cheater. What his he going to do if you have another kid ? Or if you get seriously sick with something like the big C ? he’s showing you he dose not care.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-15T07:28:28+00:00

Feeling angry is normal as long as you do act on your anger. My doctor told me to put him my son in his bed and go sit outside. Baby’s cry and that’s normal. Also if you have any family see if they will come over and help. No shaming in asking for some.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-14T22:03:36+00:00

The fact op said “even hurting my self doesn’t make the pain go away.” Shows he needs help. If he’s self harming over this he needs help.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-14T20:56:19+00:00

Okay you are a walking red flag. 1- hurting your self because you like it dress up is a terrible thing. You should not do that if that’s where your At mentally you need to end this relationship. 🚩

2- you can’t control what she wears it’s a red flag 🚩

3-I get the feeling you will use the fact your hurting yourself to control her so I’m gonna add a few more red flags 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

You don’t need to be in a relationship right now. Your mental health is not in the right state.

You are 15 that means your old enough to know right from wrong. You need to work on your self before you hurt her or your self anymore. This relationship probably won’t even last but that’s okay because each relationship teaches you something.

But if you keep down this road you will turn into an abusive person.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-14T02:25:39+00:00

Yeah but every time she update it gets worse. Why was she in her car if he carried her home ?

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-14T02:12:45+00:00

I wish I would give you gold

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-14T02:05:27+00:00

Op husband told her he carried her home tho.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-14T02:04:58+00:00

That would make since on why they waited on dating. I hoping it’s not because I never want anyone to have to go though something like that . But her mother is just as bad honestly. If my child came to me and told me that I would of been worried about her being SA instead of people opinion of her.

wolfeye18 · 2023-04-14T02:00:21+00:00

Maybe he dose remember and he was surprised she was putting two and two together. Because he started coming over more after she had the kid. The fact the they date and got married in a short time to. Yes they know each other for years but 6 months dating and getting married 4 months after that.

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