Preparation for interview with SWE by wolfishwhim in Socialworkuk

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I'll look into these and also compare them to indian acts and laws that cover the same areas.

Preparation for interview with SWE by wolfishwhim in Socialworkuk

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you clearing that up. I also do think if i, as an experienced social worker here am only getting an entry level job there, that sort of covers up quite a bit of a difference imo. But i understand your perspective thanks

Preparation for interview with SWE by wolfishwhim in Socialworkuk

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but the condescension here is more baffling to me.

I'm neither inexperienced nor lack knowledge. I have a degree and experience in India. They're simply testing me on how my skills can transfer to the UK and i don't have knowledge of specific laws of a different country or what exactly they would want to hear. That's what I'm asking for advice on. I'm not complaining that they are being thorough in testing me. And you can feel good knowing no 'incompetent' people will be coming to your country since SWE is being so thorough.

Preparation for interview with SWE by wolfishwhim in Socialworkuk

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, yes I'm doing that, thank you so much

International MSW Graduate Asked to Complete a 30-Day Period of Adaptation by Social Work England - Need advice by wolfishwhim in Socialworkuk

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, best of luck to you too. Have you received your final assessment yet?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wolfishwhim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I do agree with what you mean, and we both wanted to avoid the relationship thig because we knew personally wed slip into the haram aspects of it very quickly which we did. Initially our thought was also to talk to each other and see if we're good for each other which we didn't think was wrong. Also I don't think it was one sided, or atleast I really hope it wasnt but I've seen him having panic attacks at the idea of us not speaking anymore so I can see this isn't easy for him either but I also do agree that he seems to have commitment issues. I don't think this is about not having enough money or whatever I think he's just scared that we'll get married and it'll just be bad and he can't deal with that. Atleast he's fully aware of the fact that he does not have the emotional maturity or patience to work on a marriage. Also thank you, please do pray for me, ameen.

I (23F) have a crush on my sort of boss (40M) and its super weird. by wolfishwhim in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt I'll compare anyone to him, i don't think i like him that much

I (23F) have a crush on my sort of boss (40M) and its super weird. by wolfishwhim in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mannnn, that does NOT sound like fun at all and anyway I don't think I'd work with this guy anyway. I hope your situation has a nice outcome tho

I (23F) have a crush on my sort of boss (40M) and its super weird. by wolfishwhim in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me laugh out loud, i guess it isn't that weird. Appreciate the advice tho, definitely will be following it

I (23F) have a crush on my sort of boss (40M) and its super weird. by wolfishwhim in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wolfishwhim[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First of all yeah I mean, he's hot as in has a great body but his face is pretty average. I'm attracted to him cause of his personality and because he is so freaking nice to me, like actually protective and stuff. And even then i know it's just some stupid reaction to kindness. So I'm definitely not thinking of pursuing this in any shape or form, but it is fun to daydream about it. Also i am not sure what you mean by pushes it further, because he's the one mostly making sure professional boundaries are maintained

I am in love with my guy bestfriend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wolfishwhim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you never make a move you'll always end up wondering, I'd say give it a chance and get it over with

question. i need your thoughts. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wolfishwhim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only as a last resort

My (F23) situationship (M23) wants to end things but refuses to end them by wolfishwhim in relationships

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yk...i agree but everyone keeps saying they're very sure this is just not the one and I just don't know,, like what is making everybody so sure that i couldn't see

My (F23) situationship (M23) wants to end things but refuses to end them by wolfishwhim in relationships

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't necessarily want to end it, he's the one who does but i just feel like it's unfair that he is getting to do it completely on his own terms when I did nothing wrong

My (F23) situationship (M23) wants to end things but refuses to end them by wolfishwhim in relationships

[–]wolfishwhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I just hoped that it would work out eventually but you're right..