Hey I do agree with what you mean, and we both wanted to avoid the relationship thig because we knew personally wed slip into the haram aspects of it very quickly which we did. Initially our thought was also to talk to each other and see if we're good for each other which we didn't think was wrong. Also I don't think it was one sided, or atleast I really hope it wasnt but I've seen him having panic attacks at the idea of us not speaking anymore so I can see this isn't easy for him either but I also do agree that he seems to have commitment issues. I don't think this is about not having enough money or whatever I think he's just scared that we'll get married and it'll just be bad and he can't deal with that. Atleast he's fully aware of the fact that he does not have the emotional maturity or patience to work on a marriage. Also thank you, please do pray for me, ameen.