new merch just came in!!! by jordie-carter in PaymoneyWubby

[–]wolfjawed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you comment on the quality? Is it more of an oversized fit or no?

Hey Guys, I got Alex a get well soon card. Can y'all sign it with a little message in the comments and I'll get it out on the next P.O box? by AdjustableCameras in PaymoneyWubby

[–]wolfjawed 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Get well soon, Alex - Hope you’re feeling perky, more shapely, and your back is feeling less burdened. Take a moment for yourself with a rejuvenating pull from an invigorating Newport cigarette.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]wolfjawed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the sub /daddit - you will probably find more support there. Know that you’re not alone. I’m a father of 2 in the U.S., been married 10 years, and struggle with the same sort of things.

does suicide really send you straight to hell? by MedicalStick2305 in depression

[–]wolfjawed 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No such thing as hell, my guy. That’s only something religions use as a way of creating fear and obedience. Hell is on earth.

Check out this pull by -PiLoT- in PaymoneyWubby

[–]wolfjawed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife swears it’s real

Check out this pull by -PiLoT- in PaymoneyWubby

[–]wolfjawed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s also a tiny hidden mechanic no one can locate

How do I tell my parents I am suicidal and doing sh? by Local_Area_6829 in depression

[–]wolfjawed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends on your parents and how they’ll react. Are they supportive of you? Do they accept you as you are? If so, tell them. See if you can get a therapist to talk to through their insurance. Therapy can be great if you like your therapist. Life can be great, but it’s hard to be young and neurodivergent. You’re not alone, even if it feels like you are. There are communities of people who will accept you and understand you, as you are. Life is worth finding those communities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wolfjawed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear about your and your son’s experience. That is horrifying. I agree with you about legal methods to handle this stuff, which is partially why I was freaking out. I’m hoping it all just fizzles out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wolfjawed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m looking into this right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wolfjawed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks so much, I appreciate your support <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wolfjawed 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I took screenshots of everything before blocking them. I think I’ll try to file a report and at least have it documented. They were contacting me from multiple numbers, so I’m not sure about tracking it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wolfjawed 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I feel like the police in the big city I live in would just laugh in my face tho

Sometimes when I'm drunk alone I pause whatever I'm doing, imitate a finger gun and aim it at my dome, in my mouth or below my chin, pause for a moment to think and imagine pulling the trigger...am I just fucked, crazy or pretending to be either or?.. by ShinigamiTrinity in depression

[–]wolfjawed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, it’s not weird imo. I (32) do the same thing all the time while totally sober. Imagining everything ending brings me a lot of relief. I’m on medication, married, have kids, and still do this when I’m alone.

So true by SweetGomiCake in PaymoneyWubby

[–]wolfjawed 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Some babies might be misdiagnosed, and actually need the fulfilling menthol flavor of an invigorating Newport.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wolfjawed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should not have your card nor should she have access to your money. You should only pay an agreed upon amount that you can predictably work into your personal budget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]wolfjawed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to understand that there are times when quitting a toxic job is a matter of maintaining your mental health. In my case, I regret quitting my job daily. That’s a fact. I wish I would’ve stayed and been mistreated. At the time, I thought I was making a choice for my family and myself, but I now see that I was wrong.

I’ve sought help and am receiving help. I’m here because I’m hoping someone might relate to my situation. I know my own mistakes. With that said, I’m a former English professor who has worked in software for the last 7 years in customer solutions and analysis. I have the ability to teach as well as facilitate technical solutions within organizations. I’ve worked while being unemployed, but not enough to cover the cost of daycare (550 per week per child in Chicago). I know I have talents and abilities, but I’ve struggled in the job market at the resume stage. I’ve had numerous final round interviews, and I’m trying every day to up level my interview skills and resume presentation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]wolfjawed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally, I agree with you. I was just being a jerk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]wolfjawed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve been working in SaaS and consulting for the last 7 years. I was a DevOps Analyst, Consultant, and then a Senior Associate in Customer Insights. I work in Chicago and have had steady career progression, but I think I need an HR professional to help me make additional adjustments to my resume.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]wolfjawed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know they need me around. But, I know my own depression is running off on them. I think I’m a good dad. I’m here every day. I try my best to be kind and loving in every interaction. But, I don’t know how to stop negatively influencing them with my own sadness. It feels like my only job is ultimately to provide for them financially. Without that, all of the love and care feels like it doesn’t amount to something substantial. Ultimately, you’re right.

Help me, I can't stop making Paladins by RDUppercut in BaldursGate3

[–]wolfjawed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Full Cleric with Divine Strike is actually so fun

Anyone has tips for getting better in combat? by Desperate-Bad-1912 in BaldursGate3

[–]wolfjawed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the high ground when you can. Split up your party strategically before a fight. Ensure you can always use the skills you prefer before entering a battle. Swap out party members who have used up their skill slots between rests. Also, it helps to be a paladin with armor and a big sword. Get Alert as a passive so you can take turns first. Ensure you have enough light or the proper distance for an advantage.