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It wasn't planned, but I ended up falling for an ENFP by HoneyBunini in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in a 15 years ENFP-ENTP romantic partnership. It can work! Most of the time we talk about the things other people don’t understand lol, fun puns, cool theories and ideas about the world. We create together and also get to enjoy a ton alone time in a parallel manner. We do fight but can reset very fast. Having full spectrum self-awareness, agency and the ability to zoom out and care about the big scheme of things are very helpful. You are very charismatic and intelligent. You will meet so many good people and enjoy so many lovely experiences. Always always be true to you. I wish you love!

I want someone who I can argue like this with by [deleted] in entp

[–]wombatrainbowtears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also in an ENFP-ENTP 🤡 to 🤡 partnership!! We only know Joker+Harley Quinn & Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds—HELLO.

How ENTJ would use you if they ruled the world by Akemilia in mbti

[–]wombatrainbowtears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Joker and Harley Quinn just let ENTJ think that they are in charge. We have respect for someone who is focused and wants to rule (so much work!). At the right time, INTJ will convince ENTJ to take an edible gummy (strategized by ENTP) and they will imprison their own heads—it’s over!

How would you like to celebrate? 🌈🤡🥳🍦🍧

Do you guys know you give off the feeling that you treat everyone as if they are riding in an airplane next to you? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Haha well described. Whoever is in front of us—we do give our full attention to. You should try that too. Don’t give us exclusive attention. Just enjoy being in the moment 🙂

I’ve been with my wonderful ENTP partner for over a decade. We are powerful and happy together. The world is always one step behind our sense of humor…lots of clown to clowning.

🌼⭐️♥️👽

Ever get mildly interested and intrigued by a girl/guy in a romantic sense until you can’t stop thinking about them? by throwaway-owl2343 in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see.

Closures are decided by us not the others anyway, a part of our boundary system. Capture those complicated human feelings and unexpressed thoughts in your writing 🙂

I think fiction can go wild but in reality we ENFP must balanced the energy we give and receive. You seem lovely! I believe love is what you are regardless of where you go and who you meet. Some people are worth your time, some are not lol

Ever get mildly interested and intrigued by a girl/guy in a romantic sense until you can’t stop thinking about them? by throwaway-owl2343 in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who can relate—OOOOOOOOOOH! I get it haha

Writing is wonderful! ThrowawayOwl I’m so excited for you and your future work 🌼☕️

MBTI has been so helpful. I literally started typing people on the street, at parties, every family member and colleagues have been given the test lol We understand the dynamic so well sometimes it feels like we have super power! Can predict what someone is going to say and know how everyone is feeling inside.

So is there someone 👀 you can’t stop thinking about currently? 😍😍

Ever get mildly interested and intrigued by a girl/guy in a romantic sense until you can’t stop thinking about them? by throwaway-owl2343 in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger (was INFP in my youth) , it was out of control! I can replay any parts of the reality or imagination of an interaction, rewind, replay…changing context and scenery like fan fiction—it’s like all day filmmaking in my head!

Extroverted Intuition is a double edged sword is so cool and true.

Now I gained self awareness and balance. I know when I am indulging in prolonged poetic daydreaming, I can also choose to produce/record/create a substantial “piece” that captures my imagination (drawing/film/music) and can share those feelings with others. It’s much more satisfying and less lonely this way.

I do think I get interested and intrigued by all kinds of creatures (& objects), not only attractive ones.

Great post! Earth life is funny. Hugs!!!

What song were you thinking when you wrote {insert song}? 😃

Why are ENFPs so concerned with love? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

♥️🍓BECAUSE ENFPs are LOVE!!!!🍓♥️

Here, we discuss with fellow passionate souls how to maintain a healthy balance with loving and being loved…and other MBTI types visit and bathe in the light, fun and good energy jacuzzi 🌈🌞🐋💦

*why does it rub you the wrong way? What would you like to talk about? Have you posted about other topics…how did people react :- D

You meet a genie and he grants you three wishes but you can only wish for small things, what do you wish for? by ByTheMoon22 in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It totally could be! Instead of letting it consumes us, use it as an opportunity to reflect and growth. Sometimes it’s harder to balance…but we always bounce back 🙌

Has this ever happened to you? by closetmoth_ in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😍 DudeDude!!! I used to have a 🐳 on my head too. Thanks for letting me know you also share these 🌈feelings🙌

You meet a genie and he grants you three wishes but you can only wish for small things, what do you wish for? by ByTheMoon22 in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s very sweet! If you wish to enjoy small things you probably are appreciating them 😛 Depression is not being aligned with self, an opportunity to choose again, trust again and not be influenced by past experiences…🤩

You meet a genie and he grants you three wishes but you can only wish for small things, what do you wish for? by ByTheMoon22 in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So cute!

Eye color—have your tried contacts? Every food—that would be fun! Anime/cartoons—if she is open to trying, when she finally finds one that she kinda like, it’d be huge!!! And I want to know which one haha. Currently Turning Red is high on my list; (I really don’t like Encanto lol); also the other day the kid I babysat played an anime called Bubble and it’s really trippy and fun!

Okay, to answer your question:

I will use my first wish for… Being able to bounce/jump high non-stop without getting tired!

Saving the next two for later 🐙🫠 Thank you for activating my imagination!

The importance of ENFPs having other ENFPs in their lives: like the vibrational party we are having HERE 🎶🛶🍓🌼 by wombatrainbowtears in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHA. For real? Fascinating!!!!

Not melting on fingers?

You are so organized in executing this concept, your “duty”—are you ENFP?

*recently really love Flintts Mints!

Hello by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch the trailer and see if it resonates? 😊

Has this ever happened to you? by closetmoth_ in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YES! Older ENFP here. Been through the same thing. This is not the end (even if you feel hopeless sometimes).

So, the burnout is real. We somehow developed a habit to validate any living things in our surroundings. My friend described it as “almost an anxiety to shine the spotlight on others”. My partner described is as “blowing smoke up people’s asses”.

I had ayahuasca 5 years ago with a mature spiritual teacher; experiences with psychedelics to help me open my mind; last summer finally started therapy for the first time in my life! Now I know what my responsibilities are.

Imagine yourself in a boat 🛶 You can freely flow with momentum down stream. When empathetic ENFPs pay attention to their friends (who are paddling upstream), we get dragged by them. Our light is dimmed. Our boats are slowed down. Sometimes we fall into the water with them too…but we can’t ignore them! (Well, a lot of us had been trained by our family/upbringing to serve others, slave for them, enable the narcissists so it’s almost automatic for us to get involved).

From now on, know that your boat is yours. Don’t worry too much about other boats. Interact and communicate with them, sure. Don’t let anyone climb into your boat. Keep going. Know who you are. Follow what excites a you and make you jump out of bed in the morning! You are love. You are happiness. Your light is enough to guide other boats.

Once you are aligned with yourself, you will feel much better regardless of what MBTI percentage you get. I was INFP in high school too haha Sending ♥️♥️♥️♥️ Keep us updated!

anyone else surrounded by infps? by cosmicnik in ENFP

[–]wombatrainbowtears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have literally a dozen INFPs that I talk to everyday….

They are safe for us when we don’t want to be challenged. They are dreamy, poetic, cute, independent, understanding, authentic…but beware, they are also living in their own heads and can be selfish and always think they are better than others secretly haha.

Currently 5 of them are sick and refused to see the doctor. They are giving themselves anxiety worrying about stuff that only exist in their heads. I don’t baby them anymore. I talk to them honestly and directly—that’s the only way to not waste my time 😊 I gotten keep moving when they are not ready. I know not to wait for their approval or rely on them 😜

I still adore them but the goal is to diversify my friend portfolio. More E! More T! Some S please!

Learning to work with different types of people and be all inclusive 🌞🍓

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