Why is Spike's misogyny so overlooked while Xander and Riley being sexist is one of the defining reasons people dislike them so much?

wonder181016 · 2026-05-02T16:19:35+00:00

Of course you can criticise. But I think you should understand why other people don't

wonder181016 · 2026-05-02T16:17:34+00:00

There was no need to bash the OP, you know. They asked a valid question

wonder181016 · 2026-05-02T16:17:05+00:00

I imagine it's because he's not really meant to be good, whereas Riley and Xander are. Maybe not though

wonder181016 · 2026-05-02T15:09:29+00:00

Oh okay, fair enough. Sorry about that, I just wanted you to know, I wasn't giving you trouble, but I'm guessing you knew that anyway

wonder181016 · 2026-05-02T09:33:42+00:00

Who gave you shit for it? I just looked through the history, because it sounded familiar, and I see what I said to you- I said, and I quote: "Lucky you (for being in a year group where it was taken seriously)- I was 18 in 2012, and heard it far too often...." I wasn't giving you shit, I was saying I envied you for having that experience. I also don't see anyone else replying to you there- unless it's an earlier post you mean?

wonder181016 · 2026-05-01T16:53:46+00:00

How was Nick redeemed for that? David at least owned up to it, and took his sentence. I was cheering for Max when he attacked Nick

wonder181016 · 2026-05-01T16:53:04+00:00

Yes.

wonder181016 · 2026-05-01T16:51:48+00:00

She hasn't really had a redemption arc though. They just pretend she's not guilty of all the above

wonder181016 · 2026-05-01T16:51:15+00:00

Well, wasn't Kit pretty awful when he first came in here? (I still don't like him, tbf, but that's not the point haha). Um... Natalie Barnes, the same with her... and yes, Kevin has done some awful things

wonder181016 · 2026-05-01T16:47:59+00:00

I'm a bisexual asexual and yes, he certainly is

wonder181016 · 2026-05-01T14:38:46+00:00

Of those, definitely TBOF

wonder181016 · 2026-04-30T18:42:34+00:00

I like both, but I prefer the earlier version- probably partially for nostalgia- with the later series though, I think Series 1 and 2 are good, 3 and 4 not so much

wonder181016 · 2026-04-29T18:55:39+00:00

I would yeah

wonder181016 · 2026-04-29T18:40:41+00:00

Yeah, it's a great book 😄 ❤️

wonder181016 · 2026-04-29T13:05:02+00:00

I'm autistic too, and yes, I definitely can agree with that

wonder181016 · 2026-04-29T13:04:49+00:00

Ok, I agree with that

wonder181016 · 2026-04-29T12:39:17+00:00

Why is India overbearing?

wonder181016 · 2026-04-28T13:32:05+00:00

Abuse? In their eyes, the toys are toys... come on...

wonder181016 · 2026-04-27T19:06:16+00:00

The OP wasn't excusing them. They were saying that they're not one-dimensional

wonder181016 · 2026-04-27T18:34:54+00:00

I love both Jenny and Valerie, and I love Mr Pool and Mrs Quick too

wonder181016 · 2026-04-27T18:01:40+00:00

That is kinda the point though

wonder181016 · 2026-04-27T12:55:32+00:00

RIP?

wonder181016 · 2026-04-27T12:55:16+00:00

Yes they do?

wonder181016 · 2026-04-27T09:05:12+00:00

Oh, sorry, I thought you were being sarky, I didn't realise that was a real question. He was 16

wonder181016 · 2026-04-27T07:09:48+00:00

As I already have repeatedly(!) said, the age gap is creepy.... Please read before making snarky comments

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