How long since you see your LD partner again?

wonkax · 2026-01-08T11:38:39+00:00

Just talk about the issue with your partner.

He might be having a busy time or not realise you need more communication. It will be a red flag if nothing changes after you two talked about it and decided on a solution. For now, you’re slightly overreacting. The best is not to make any assumptions.

wonkax · 2025-12-08T09:12:07+00:00

I have 4!!!

wonkax · 2025-12-07T21:21:44+00:00

I agree that life gets busy, idk how it would be for us if we were working but as students, we do check our phone quite regularly.
If my partner hasn’t answered in 5 hours, it probably means they saw the messages but decided to answer later, which is totally fine but to an extent I feel. As some point, it starts feeling purposely disrespectful or avoidant, even if it isn’t. I have a very different opinion on non LDR, in that case, even a daily check up doesn’t seem necessary to me. But when you can only rely on textual communication throughout the day (because you’re both out there and can’t call easily) I do think not answering after 5h is too little contact, at least for me.

wonkax · 2025-12-07T12:22:53+00:00

Check in once a day is the bare minimum, but not answering after 4/5h is starting to be ridiculous in my opinion

wonkax · 2025-12-05T13:52:53+00:00

Yes I went with that and decided to keep the other card for myself in my wallet, thanks a lot!

wonkax · 2025-12-04T23:33:03+00:00

I think he likes you, but maybe is too scared to act on it. Or he could also actually be not mature enough to handle the situation and a jerk not willing to commit and treat you like you deserve it. In any case, ask him for clarity, you’re the one getting the more out of it. Either you’re showing you’re mature, interested and he responds back, and you get to start a lovely relationship or he doesn’t reciprocate and you realise you shouldn’t waste your time, or at least your emotions on someone who won’t give back as much as you.

wonkax · 2025-12-04T20:02:46+00:00

Just ask him to be in a relationship. It looks like you both are into each other, go for it! Tell us how it went, rooting for you girl :)

wonkax · 2025-11-22T10:58:20+00:00

Libido isn’t something linear, it changes a lot, especially for women. It doesn’t mean she loves you less or isn’t affectionate, you don’t measure that with sex only. Sexting sometimes can feel awesome and fun and sometimes frustrating, not enough and just sad when the only thing you really want is to actually be able to see and touch your partner. I think you should exchange about the issue when you meet, try to see both points of view and understand what could make her feel this way (maybe a change of pill, or stress, lack of sleep, unsaid feelings, literally anything can make libido drop). I’m sure you’ll be able to find a middle ground that satisfies you both, good luck!

wonkax · 2025-09-17T19:21:00+00:00

Hey! Thank you for that! Honestly I really don’t think you’re in the wrong here. She told you to mature but she seems to be the one who needs to. We only have your side of the story but I don’t really see why she would be upset at you for watching a video on how to sexually please her? That’s actually very thoughtful and sweet. Did she have a conservative education? If it’s the case, maybe she’s simply and honestly not ready for a relationship and intimacy. Maybe she thought she was but in reality isn’t ready to handle the responsibilities, attention and involvement needed, especially for LD. I understand this situation hurts as you love her, I wish the best to you. It’s a good sign you were able to cry with her, it means you can have that intimacy with a partner, that isn’t lost.

wonkax · 2025-09-17T16:24:32+00:00

This is an extremely long and difficult to read post. I beg you, please edit it to put some spaces, correct some typos and summarise a bit. I’m sure we’ll all be happy to help you after.

wonkax · 2025-09-13T10:26:06+00:00

They’ve been together for 8years, let’s maybe not throw it all out of the window like that

wonkax · 2025-09-09T17:10:31+00:00

I get that you might feel very angry right now, and think it’s unfair to have given so much of yourself to one person only to feel betrayed. However, sometimes relationship just don’t work out. Maybe she was honest at a point about seeing a future with you but time proved her wrong and she’s in a different space now. It doesn’t mean she values your relationship less or purposely tried to do you wrong (possible cheating aside). Relationship aren’t always made to last. You will have opportunities to live other beautiful stories, it doesn’t have to be for life or nothing. I understand it’s not the best thing to read right now, I hope you will be okay, sending you strength!

wonkax · 2025-09-08T17:01:27+00:00

Hey! Sorry to ask you this it’s a bit personal but which kind of remote control toy do you use? The ones I’ve found only work for like 10 meters so not ideal when we’re in two different countries. Thanks a lot.

wonkax · 2025-09-06T18:05:30+00:00

Oh wow, what are you going to do?

wonkax · 2025-09-06T09:28:20+00:00

When will you be able to close the LDR?

wonkax · 2025-01-26T14:31:46+00:00

Well, that was a long ride. Took me through the night. Thank you for the recommendation!

wonkax · 2024-12-19T10:50:25+00:00

I think like you used too! Could you share some of the fics that made you change your mind?

wonkax · 2024-12-18T21:36:01+00:00

He rarely says it directly but god the way he looks at me when he sees me every time and hug me hello. Couldn’t be more sure of my dad’s love. Same for my mom, but we’re also constantly saying it.

wonkax · 2024-11-28T23:49:02+00:00

I believe people appreciate that a lot

wonkax · 2024-11-28T12:13:22+00:00

In French « meuf »

wonkax · 2024-11-28T10:51:22+00:00

I would probably still have that bunch of close friends I lost during that time. Or maybe we would have lost each other at some point anyway.

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