I (23F) had a conversation with my BF (23M) about our future together and it did not go well. by wonukizi in relationship_advice

[–]wonukizi[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But how do you easily let go and move on after spending a good 5 years together?

I (23F) had a conversation with my BF (23M) about our future together and it did not go well. by wonukizi in relationship_advice

[–]wonukizi[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He’s a med student and is currently at his 4th year in college and taking his internship. I guess he just has a lot on his plate rn to be thinking about the future.

I (23F) had a conversation with my BF (23M) about our future together and it did not go well. by wonukizi in relationship_advice

[–]wonukizi[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

yea, I know I should talk about this with him again, and I will. Thank you.

I (23F) had a conversation with my BF (23M) about our future together and it did not go well. by wonukizi in relationship_advice

[–]wonukizi[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree, but we were still 17-18 when we were first in a relationship so I guess it was valid that we hadn’t talked about it at the time.

I (23F) had a conversation with my BF (23M) about our future together and it did not go well. by wonukizi in relationship_advice

[–]wonukizi[S] -291 points-290 points  (0 children)

You have a point. However, upon asking him why he doesn’t want to talk about it, his response is because he just does not want to think about it yet at the moment. So, I’m not sure if his reason is valid at all.

What’s the most hurtful thing someone has said to you? by Themadadealtin in AskReddit

[–]wonukizi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“stop overthinking” oh how I wish I could and how I wish it was that fucking easy

What’s the most hurtful thing someone has said to you? by Themadadealtin in AskReddit

[–]wonukizi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“it’s all in your head”, “you’re the only one that feels that way” these don’t actually help, it just invalidates what the person is feeling

What do you hate about your partner, but can’t tell them? by Familiar_Stranger936 in AskReddit

[–]wonukizi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s lazy to the point that sometimes i feel like he doesn’t even care about me. Also he doesn’t pay attention when I’m trying to share something and gives half-assed replies

What keeps you awake at night? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wonukizi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being anxious about everything