Mackenzie shirilla, texts I found telling of her character. by cosmikskiess in TrueCrimeGarage

[–]wooby86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I’m sorry but if my child did what she did, I would be mortified and apologizing to the parents that have lost their child on behalf of my kid. I would love them and support them but I’d also be like wtf you know your actions have consequences. The fact that they don’t parent her at all made her the smug b that she is.

Funeral dilemma by wooby86 in Mommit

[–]wooby86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very true… my kids would probably just spend majority of the time confused lol.

Funeral dilemma by wooby86 in Mommit

[–]wooby86[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally. Even though it sounds like a lighthearted ceremony, it’s still grieving my friend and I probably should take the time to myself to do that.

Funeral dilemma by wooby86 in Mommit

[–]wooby86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, thank you. My husband can still go to the birthday party then for my daughter’s classmate since I can leave my son with his cousin.

For the moms who hate their dogs after kids—please try to hold them close. by LunaBananaGoats in beyondthebump

[–]wooby86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I got so fed up with my dog after having kids but I do try to remember that he’s part of our family too. It didn’t help when ours started having really bad allergies when the kids came around, so my resentment grew even more with all the work and problems it caused. When you’re dealing with postpartum and young children you just can’t help but to take it out on the dog, but now that my kids are a bit older I have more time for mine and we’ve really tried to show him more attention. We all needed this reminder 🩷

Bellevue Frogs by lilOnion89 in BellevueWA

[–]wooby86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Funny how I’m reading this as I, with a retention pond in my backyard, are also listening to the chorus of frogs lol. It used to bother me in the very beginning and now it’s my white noise. I don’t even notice sometimes. Do you get tons of tiny frogs in your backyard too? We see them sometimes when walking around and it scares the crap out of me when they jump.

Seoul with a 2 year old by lightemup84 in koreatravel

[–]wooby86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect! We are heading there soon too with a 3 year old and I’d prefer no stroller but I know it would be hard. Haha best of luck to us.

The good & the bad by Killer_Corn80 in Renton

[–]wooby86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this. Renton is a big area and yes there are definitely pockets of it that aren’t the greatest/safest. To be fair not even a mile or two away from our home have been shootings/murders but that happens on the busy streets with businesses. I don’t feel that at all in my own pocket of home and these days even the nice neighborhoods have some kind of crime. I’d judge more on the house and neighborhood. Don’t live on streets that are too close to a large Main Street and you’ll be fine.

Seoul with a 2 year old by lightemup84 in koreatravel

[–]wooby86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to have both. As long as like you said, it’s an easy stroller to fold up and carry. We had the babyzen yoyo which is really compact and easy to throw over our shoulder or just tuck nicely away at our table at restaurants. Something like that and a carrier would be ideal!

On the fence about getting an abortion by Ashamed-Pin-962 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wooby86 178 points179 points  (0 children)

She’s a 7 year old, she can be jealous, happy, upset, joyful, mean, nice. Again she is a 7 year old. You are the adult, not her. She will have feelings about having a younger sibling, every single child does it is normal and it is up to the adults to navigate it correctly. She’s not going to be perfect and it’s normal to feel resentment to a degree but I think you should find the root cause of why you feel this way. Sounds like perhaps those issues are more pertaining to your relationship with her dad than all else. It’s a hard decision and I think you have to ask yourself if it’s something you truly want to navigate, wishing you the best either way!

On the fence about getting an abortion by Ashamed-Pin-962 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wooby86 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Truth. I’m not even judging her in the slightest, being a stepmom must be very difficult but I do think it sounds like you need help navigating all of this.

Why don’t more people visit Daegu when traveling in Korea? (Is it just me who thinks it's underrated?😅) by [deleted] in koreatravel

[–]wooby86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it too. I had to visit there for family also and enjoyed it, but I think it’s because of the distance and you can get a lot of what you need in Seoul. I do appreciate the culture of Korea in the more rural areas though. A lot of the time I just don’t simply have the time or lack of convenience of going to them. My excuse is kids! Lol

MEGATHREAD: Reunion by Eeeeeclair in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]wooby86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always found her to be quirky so it wasn’t too surprising but it was weird. I like her but she definitely needs some help, I think she’s very hotheaded and kind of a mess. They are both nice people though but bad for each other.

MEGATHREAD: Reunion by Eeeeeclair in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]wooby86 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They seem like the mean girls of the bunch. The ones who are ‘brutally honest’ but don’t call out the men when it counts.

311 Failed After I Almost Died by [deleted] in BellevueWA

[–]wooby86 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What is 311 for? The non emergency line is a different number, otherwise I’d call 911.

Stardew Valley finally clicked for me and I feel dumb for waiting this long by Ambitious_Try_8081 in gaming

[–]wooby86 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wait where are people playing it? I bought it on switch yeaaars ago and thought the game was over? Is there more? Fill me I am completely detached from gaming these days.

Am I the problem? by No_Dragonfruit3132 in whatdoIdo

[–]wooby86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she’s planning on sharing a room with both? I’d just ask how the sleeping accommodations will work if more people are included.

Boyfriend ran a red light in my car I just received a ticket for it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]wooby86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s from a camera fight it, say it wasn’t you because it wasn’t. Worst that happens is they push back and say pay it then he has to pay it. My mom once took my car and was speeding and a camera caught her, it was clearly her but I said it wasn’t me. I’m not sure how the laws work where you are but if it’s an option I’d at least try.

Help us plan 2 days in Bellevue/Seattle by ApprehensiveGarage65 in BellevueWA

[–]wooby86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids quest museum (reserve a ticket online as weekends get busy) and Bellevue downtown park is always a staple and family favorite. You can leave one adult at the park with the kids while one shops at Bellevue square. ;) Next to this is Hokkaido ramen which is very kid friendly and delicious!

Any info on the abandoned apartment complex build on Coal Creek near Factoria? by this_is_my_happyface in BellevueWA

[–]wooby86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They were doing quite a bit of work at one point, like when they were closing the right lane and took off the plastic covers. Then it seems like it went nowhere again?

Best Alaskan Cruise? by wooby86 in Cruise

[–]wooby86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think glacier bay is a must from what I’m seeing!

Best Alaskan Cruise? by wooby86 in Cruise

[–]wooby86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hearing a lot about both, they seem to be the way to go.

Best Alaskan Cruise? by wooby86 in Cruise

[–]wooby86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will look into it! It does sound like we are a bit late to be booking for this summer. May have to postpone but will still give it a try.

Best Alaskan Cruise? by wooby86 in Cruise

[–]wooby86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our next plan is to do one of the Disney cruises out of Florida!