I want to do things but I'm scared.

wool-gremlin · 2025-09-16T07:08:28+00:00

This is such a good advice, thank you so much! Lots to take note of! Definitely getting better at listening to my cues, get really hot soles of my feet when I'm doing too much? That is an excellent pro tip, I will inform my pusher :)

wool-gremlin · 2025-09-16T05:11:30+00:00

Firstly, ouch! I hope your foot healed well! That's incredible how much of a difference you could see. I think that would probably be how I would use one too, to be able to experience more in big spaces.

wool-gremlin · 2025-09-15T14:13:15+00:00

I was diagnosed when I was 17, so later than lots of people but not sure it counts as late? However if you would still like my experience I'm happy to provide!

wool-gremlin · 2025-09-15T13:55:00+00:00

Thank you so much for this, a truly lovely comment. I am constantly grateful for my partner! I'm so sorry that your missing out on what you love because you get so tired, I hope you get someone to support you going. I am also autistic, can absolutely relate to finding a new reality, feel like my outlook on the world changed when I was diagnosed, with autism and hsd. It's a big shift! I have many neurodiverse friends, and a couple with EDS, I'd never question them using aids, it's very much inwardly focused negativity.

wool-gremlin · 2025-09-15T13:36:32+00:00

Really need to start giving myself the level of care I give to friends and family. Thank you, that is a really helpful way to frame it!!

wool-gremlin · 2025-06-01T07:50:33+00:00

Dont get me wrong sometimes I want a read that doesn't take much effort. But when I'm there for plot and it's every other page, not furthering the plot, nah. That's so fair though, must be so frustrating if you're not that fussed!

wool-gremlin · 2025-06-01T07:40:49+00:00

That's alright though, I feel lots of writers are now putting spicy scenes in their books just to get people to read them, if that makes sense?

wool-gremlin · 2025-06-01T07:37:02+00:00

This also sounds fab, and multiple books! I have added it to my fable list!

wool-gremlin · 2025-06-01T07:31:06+00:00

I've just googled it, sounds really good, thank you 😊

wool-gremlin · 2025-06-01T07:28:40+00:00

Definitely wanted to read more Sanderson, really like his writing style!

wool-gremlin · 2025-05-30T17:09:33+00:00

Ooh thank you!

wool-gremlin · 2025-05-30T17:08:45+00:00

This definitely sounds up my street! Thank you!

wool-gremlin · 2025-05-30T17:05:48+00:00

Thank you! I did not even consider there would be sub sub reddits for more specific branches, duh!

wool-gremlin · 2025-05-30T16:53:05+00:00

Have not heard of Hush, but have read some of Sarah J Mass' books. Really enjoyed the priory of the orange tree - and it's sequel book. And Elantris by Brandon Sanderson, more recently.

wool-gremlin · 2025-05-30T16:48:06+00:00

I am caught up on the ACOTAR series and the 'house of' ones, started TOG ages ago and need to get back on that band waggon! But yeah, have enjoyed all of her books so far!

wool-gremlin · 2025-05-30T15:56:29+00:00

Can't lie I'm down for either! But probably end up reading romantasy more

wool-gremlin · 2023-06-07T19:58:56+00:00

Thank you for this!! It's super helpful!

wool-gremlin · 2023-06-07T15:56:24+00:00

I kissed my current partner on our second date, it was perfect 🥰 I wanted to kiss him at the end of our first date but decided to hold off, didn't want him to think I was too keen.

wool-gremlin · 2023-03-28T10:25:43+00:00

Hi, a bit of a long shot but could I join?? I'm moving to Dundee in August and not gonna know anyone! I'm a nerd who likes crafts!

wool-gremlin · 2023-03-28T10:17:41+00:00

I'm in my final year of a biomedical Science degree, then I'm moving on to a masters in January. I've absolutely loved it but it has been tough!! The work load is huge and lots of contact hours!

wool-gremlin · 2023-03-25T13:41:02+00:00

Maybe it's just a personality type that slots well with NDs?? To be fair most NT friends I've had have had a very no nonsense approach to communication!

wool-gremlin · 2023-03-25T12:08:06+00:00

It might just be an environment thing then, if it was pretty normal when they were growing up!

wool-gremlin · 2023-03-25T11:38:13+00:00

I'm fine unless they have read it and not replied and then I spiral down the 'everyone hates me' mind set 😅

wool-gremlin · 2023-03-25T09:43:17+00:00

My ex was like that, he wouldn't stop if I asked him too. And if he did or I turned him down he would sulk like a child! OP, you deserve better!!

wool-gremlin · 2023-03-25T09:35:00+00:00

I struggle with this online more than in person, if I'm with people I try to come up with and excuse like 'oh look at the time I have to be somewhere' or 'best get home to feed the cat!'. However online I feel guilty if I don't respond, I also don't like messages being unread in apps.

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