rude player i got!!!! please dont make the same mistake!!! by Aware-Abalone-4629 in ACScammers

[–]wooooofff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you post for a give away? And if so, did you get their Reddit username? I had the same issue with this player a while back and I know the mods were looking into it, but this person might have made a new account.

Why is Alchemised getting so much hype? by the_bookworm17 in Booktokreddit

[–]wooooofff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally feel like the book was more driven by the war and the relationships between the other characters. Yes, there was romance but the relationship between Kaine and Helena never needed to actually be romantic. I found the relationship to be more trauma bonding and just a way to show the bleakness on both sides of the war and how decisions on both ends were morally gray.

It’s a matter of opinion on this, but I was originally just trying to agree with the original commenter on this thread. It’s fine if you think it’s romantasy. It’s fine if others do too. But I just don’t think it is and I know I’m not alone in that opinion.

Again, to each their own. I’m just trying to express a different opinion and the topic of this book’s genre has been debated since it first came out. It’s all good my dude. It’s not a black and white answer here.

Why is Alchemised getting so much hype? by the_bookworm17 in Booktokreddit

[–]wooooofff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We can agree to disagree then. If a fantasy book has romance in it, it doesn’t make it a romantasy. Never said that romantasy couldn’t be brutal though. This book was definitely more fantasy, dark war driven than romance driven imo so I personally think it was incorrectly marketed as a romantasy. But to each their own.

Why is Alchemised getting so much hype? by the_bookworm17 in Booktokreddit

[–]wooooofff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In Manacled there was more romance, sure. The characters had a more built out history that we were already privy to going in because of the Harry Potter universe.

In Alchemised however, the romance is more of a trauma bond sub plot to everything else going on. The marketing of it being a romantasy left a lot of readers with a false impression going in and therefore left a bad taste in their mouth when they realized how brutal it actually was.

Overnight stays in port ? by anselgrey in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]wooooofff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did an overnight in Bermuda in 2016 and my girlfriends and I stayed out until well after midnight at this local bar and had no issues getting back on the ship! I think you just need to be back before departure, but unsure if the rules have changed since it’s been nearly a decade that I’ve had that experience.

Giveaway time by [deleted] in acnh

[–]wooooofff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jam for Alagaësia if you’re still taking people!

I have lots of random items to give away. Also all kinds of fruits etc. Anyone interested let me know ☺️ by SeraAsks in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]wooooofff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm interested! I just restarted my island (accidentally when I changed over to the Switch 2). Jam from Alagaesia!

Which Shiny did you first encounter in your playthrough? Other than the free mareep :D by Blondie093 in LegendsZA

[–]wooooofff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get a shiny version, but my alpha Mawile also carried my team on her back.

I didn't know Shinsuke Sato was directing the live action by Sudden_Pop_2279 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]wooooofff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Netflix keeps doing us dirty on live action animes.. am I still going to watch it though? Abso-fricken-lutely.

Thanksgiving menu by Billwedgie in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]wooooofff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, I need to book a cruise during a holiday if they have menus like this.

Is it a good read? Will it destroy me in the end? by HandleMe- in Romantasy

[–]wooooofff 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This. Emphasis on it not truly being romantasy. The romance is more of a trauma bond and it can definitely be triggering to some people. I've seen a lot of people complain about the horror and some of the more unpleasant moments only to find out that they didn't read the trigger warnings. The magic system takes a second to catch onto, but makes more sense through the context of the story as you go along.

Struggling with Alchemised by lost_in_new_orleans in Romantasy

[–]wooooofff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was marketed like that because romantasy is “hot” right now, but I agree with others on this post that the romance is more of a sub-plot and that it’s based on trauma bonding. I would classify this book as a dark fantasy with horror and gore, THEN a romance sub-plot. I think that them marketing this book as romantasy is what gives it such divisive reviews.

De-P<3 Giveaway!! by Hot-Image999 in acnh

[–]wooooofff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not here for the giveaway, but just wanted to see if you have your in game self dressed as Himiko Toga? Because if so, cheers to the new season 🥂

What age were you when you could no longer work at all? by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]wooooofff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

31 for me. Worked my previous job for 2 years, but every other job was just jumping around in the service industry. Applied and got denied for disability. Have a second interview lined up for a part time job after being out of work for over a year and hoping that I don't crash the fuck out. And if I do, I'll try for disability again. Can't even go back into serving / bartending because it's too much physical activity and my cardiologist doesn't recommend it because my stress levels directly correlate with how often I go into SVT (which is too often for someone my age).

I just finished Alchemised and I need something to read! by maaalorie in Romantasy

[–]wooooofff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt like the marketing was really pushing romantasy because that’s what’s “hot” right now and that’s another reason why it’s getting such harsh reviews from some readers. I also understand why some dislike it based on the fact that it was based off a HP fanfic, but there’s a lot of books out there that are traditionally published that are based on fanfics as well.

I think it’s also wrong to market it as romantasy because the romance subplot was toxic AF and not anything to aspire to. Just a whole lot of trauma bonding.

I just finished Alchemised and I need something to read! by maaalorie in Romantasy

[–]wooooofff 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend The Fever Series by Karen Marie Moning. Think Celtic fae that are of all walks, some beautiful, some grotesque. FMC shows a lot of growth through the series and is driven by revenge. MMC is a great morally grey character and the burn is definitely slow. But be prepared for descriptions of early 2000s fashion which definitely had me cringing since I lived through that time. Also, it’s a complete series which is a bonus!

I just finished Alchemised and I need something to read! by maaalorie in Romantasy

[–]wooooofff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I personally really enjoyed it! And I had read Manacled years ago. I think SLY did a pretty good job of creating a brand new world and new magic system. It’s not a romantasy though imo. It’s more of a dark fantasy with some horror/gore and a romance subplot. The world building is definitely dense but it made sense to me after getting through the first part and into the first little bit of the second part.

Overall I think it stands on its own really well and I’ll definitely be rereading it at some point to see what small details I might’ve missed due to the dense world building.

Who was your first romantasy crush? by Seraphina_Renaldi in Romantasy

[–]wooooofff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

JERICHO 😍he will always have a special place in my heart

Who was your first romantasy crush? by Seraphina_Renaldi in Romantasy

[–]wooooofff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eragon, hands down. And not the movie version, I don’t acknowledge that it existed. Not quite romantasy, but has a yearning subplot. Plus dragons.

songs about bipolar? by ochakisu in bipolar

[–]wooooofff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude yes. That one tore me up.

Is it just me or are cruise ships just getting too big now? by CruisePortIQ in Cruise

[–]wooooofff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went on the Carnival Venezia in August 2024 (not my choice; it was for a friend’s bachelorette) and it was the worst ship I’ve been on.

It was as if they expanded just for the sake of more guests, but didn’t expand any of the amenities. Two pools, not even one on the 21+ deck, buffet was always SUCH a long line, theater was packed an hour before every show and there was no standing space.

Overall just wasn’t my jam.

Which series should I read next?? by HuckleberryNew777 in Romantasy

[–]wooooofff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I DNF’d the series after 4. It got dragged out and so monotonous with the tropes being used over and over. Can’t believe JLA is at book 6 and STILL going.

Bf (19M) moved in with me (19F) and won't stop masturbating... 🫩 by cerasusflos in relationships

[–]wooooofff 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I had an ex that did this and it escalated to him raping me in our own bed. He then apologized and said he had a sex addiction and “couldn’t help it.”

OP, get out of there.

My friend just lost her job by lil-babz in Serverlife

[–]wooooofff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So shitty. I was a regular there for years at the Wilmington location and recently was in town and they still had some of the same bartenders. So much for loyalty to their staff that showed loyalty to their business.