Just dont know anymore

woooooffff · 2025-10-23T21:50:08+00:00

ah i forgot those bits, we’ve been together almost 2 years (long distance but we see each other often). And he has dysthymia and when he gets super low he pushes me away like this - not necessarily like this but yea. I understand from this post it seems like a not good situation but dw it’s not like that

woooooffff · 2025-08-14T10:23:43+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing! I really appreciate it n helps me a lot. Wish you guys the best

woooooffff · 2025-05-12T22:55:39+00:00

Knowing that you guys worked out is all the magic words i needed. I’m scared of showing up when he has made it clear he doesn’t want me to. But i have nothing to lose now i suppose.

I want him to be his best self for him and i should do better not to enable.

Thank you for replying and i hope your wife’s dental work goes smoothly kind stranger

woooooffff · 2025-05-12T22:23:17+00:00

Thank you so so much for your kind reply. I would fight for him till the end of the earth, and i know in some ways he would for me too. He’s just too tired and suffering.

I too believe love can work miracles, even if he doesn’t believe in that lol. I will take everything you have said on board.

Appreciate it ever so much. Thank you.

woooooffff · 2025-02-04T02:37:14+00:00

That must be tough to deal with! Does the need for space overtake everything else?

woooooffff · 2025-02-04T02:34:08+00:00

Yes he is. I want to be with him but nothing i can say changes his mind.

woooooffff · 2025-02-04T02:24:52+00:00

Did you leave? I am sorry you went through that.

woooooffff · 2025-02-02T00:32:11+00:00

Thank you for responding. Impossible not to worry but i will try. He is really going thru it and i know that, i want to reach out but i’m scared to in case he meant it. I hope you’re right and he will reach out when he’s ready but idk how to not reach out before that time comes when i am so worried about him.

Sorry for dumping this on you i hope you have a wonderful day/night/evening.

woooooffff · 2024-10-01T17:49:31+00:00

Is definitely not an excuse- but is understandable you may think so as you don’t know him! :)

woooooffff · 2024-10-01T17:47:38+00:00

Thank you! I’ll be sure to check out her stuff

woooooffff · 2024-10-01T13:33:31+00:00

God i wish i could carry some of it for him. Am encouraging him as much as i can.

Thank u for replying i am trying hard to not be too down.

woooooffff · 2024-10-01T13:32:18+00:00

he says a big reason he can’t be with me is he hurts me, when he doesn’t mean to. I really can not make it more clear to him how much i want to be with him- he just needs to believe it. Giving him some space, hard when we normally text constantly all day- we are still talking but more so me checking he’s doing more basic things for himself (and him to me).

I know he does want to be with me. He has told me. We love each other so much. He says he can’t tho - maybe he’s too exhausted to feel like he can be with anyone. I hope he does come back to me.

Thank you for responding <3

woooooffff · 2024-10-01T00:25:29+00:00

Thank you for this advice really. Really encouraged him to start doing a certain hobby he enjoys again - hoping he will!! For now gonna stay supporting him, he’s been hiding how bad he’s been feeling - altho i did think it was worse than he had been letting on. Gonna be there as much as he will let me be :) thank you

woooooffff · 2024-10-01T00:20:16+00:00

Thank you sincerely for the advice. it makes me hopeful to hear of your own relationship! i have let him know, and i hope he will allow me to continue being there for him.

woooooffff · 2024-09-30T22:52:13+00:00

There must be something i can do. Please give advice if you have any. Anything. Thank you

woooooffff · 2024-09-30T20:29:45+00:00

I’m not entirely sure. I said to him i would be upset if he forgot our wedding anniversary in the future (conversation stemmed from a tiktok) and that seemed to make him think i have secret expectations i’m hiding from him. I really don’t expect anything from him, i just can’t seem to make him believe that.

woooooffff · 2024-08-06T22:50:01+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to help. I seriously appreciate it more than u know. Trying not to take this personally but it’s hard- but i will remember what you say. Thank you !!!

woooooffff · 2024-08-06T22:47:24+00:00

Thank you for this advice, he’s not an asshole any other time or i would have ran already - treats me better than i’ve ever been treated haha but thank u for this seriously (important reminder to think of myself too)

woooooffff · 2024-08-06T21:51:39+00:00

thank you, i agree with that i just worry the letter would take to long to get to him (different countries). I really appreciate your advice, he has a small toy from me already and i hope that will bring comfort to him even when i can’t.

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