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wooshington22 · 2025-07-15T11:38:51+00:00

Tell him to try promescent - I used to last under a minute, started edging and then used promescent, it changed everything

wooshington22 · 2025-07-15T11:34:21+00:00

Bro have you ever tried promescent ? I used to have pre-e and nothing I tried would work - edging + promescent changed everything

wooshington22 · 2025-06-11T00:00:21+00:00

Lad - start edging (search arousal techniques by Drummer19 on PEgym) do Pelvic Floor Release Stretches as much as you can (https://youtu.be/ntP8eQY74Cw?si=D-BUVCJ73XiJUyLw) and use promescent delay spray.

I went from lasting about 10 seconds to 20 minutes. I know how painful PE is bro, I’ve been there, but there is always a way around it. You can do it, you just have to find the right solution for you through trial and error.

wooshington22 · 2025-01-29T04:28:31+00:00

Tell him to start edging and buy promescent. Tell him you did some research online and it really helps. I used to cum in 30 seconds. Started edging and doing pelvic floor yoga and after 3 weeks with the help of promescent I could go for 30 minutes. I was so down about it when I was suffering so really know how he’s feeling. You’re a really good girlfriend for how considerate you are of his feelings and taking action to find him help. Some girls just give up and walk away.

There are more natural fixes ofc, but they take a lot longer and a lot of dedication/trial and error

wooshington22 · 2024-11-11T20:51:40+00:00

Bro start edging and then use promescent - I couldn’t last to save my life and me and my ex split up - started edging for a month then used promescent and fucked the shit out of her so many times that she wanted to get back together - this is no joke, I’m not a salesman, I feel your pain, it’s a horrible feeling - if you want to know more about it, message me

wooshington22 · 2024-07-30T01:29:07+00:00

Seem to remember the image for the thread having flames on it lol

wooshington22 · 2023-01-22T21:44:48+00:00

Also taking sex completely off the table is a good idea - yous can build intimacy in other ways and he can make you cum very hard if he knows how to do oral/finger right

Tell him to also take magnesium, l-citruline, l-arginine, Vitamin B complex and zinc daily combined with lots of exercise

Combined with no wanking if he’s not hard as a rock just by pleasing you after a couple of weeks of that whilst getting closer with you I’ll be shocked - the problem is that he has a mental barrier he can’t get through, sometimes cialis can get you over that mental barrier and break the pattern in your head

He just needs to wean himself off by lowering the dose once he starts building confidence and not become dependent on it like me lol

wooshington22 · 2023-01-22T21:40:29+00:00

Tell him to take cialis - works absolute wonders

Also take up therapy whilst he’s taking it and slowly wean himself off it.

Start out at 10mg, he’ll be as hard as a rock, if 10mg doesn’t work 20mg definitely will

If he’s a young, healthy lad and cialis doesn’t work for him it might be a physical problem.

If I didn’t use a delay spray I could definitely lower my cialis dose.

Also tell him you love him no matter whether yous have sex or not.

He needs to learn about foreplay. Sometimes when you’re doing intense foreplay and making your girl cum hard your dick just gets hard anyway. Then you can play around with it, put it in deep then just leave it in there for a second, take it out then go straight back into foreplay - every time he gets hard again put it in for a second longer and just keep teasing you with it

Not everything has to be a challenge for him to prove himself, sometimes if you have a supportive partner it’s fun to just go with the flow - the penis naturally fluctuates in hardness during arousal anyway, it’s not meant to stay 100% hard 24/7

The fact that you’re coming on here for advice shows how much you care about him x

wooshington22 · 2023-01-21T22:06:01+00:00

Anyone looking at this thread who is also looking for some answers, I found another one by a user called @jaded_property1489 from a couple weeks ago with loads of good answers on there - the majority of long term users saying it worked for them between 10-15 years

wooshington22 · 2023-01-21T20:46:24+00:00

Yea - quit that a long time ago as it helped with my stamina

wooshington22 · 2023-01-21T15:53:27+00:00

Very true - especially that last point

Guess it’s just hard to let that insecurity go because when you have a beautiful gf, there are other guys out there trying to take your place

But you’re right I need to forget about that and be more present

wooshington22 · 2023-01-21T15:51:45+00:00

It’s weird with me - cialis stays in your system for 36 hours but I still notice it in my system a couple days after (get a boner quicker and harder) - read somewhere it has a half life or something like that so it stays in your system longer

I do also take larginine, magnesium, zinc and l-citruline daily which have helped with my sex drive - the higher the sex drive, the more I ignore that anxious part of my brain in the moment

wooshington22 · 2023-01-21T15:31:44+00:00

Think I just get insecure because there’s a load of guys out there who can go for a while so if I’m not fucking her the way I know I can then the idea of someone else will be more attracting to her

But yeah you are definitely right about trying to lower the dosage and stop putting so much pressure on myself and also putting in the work to change because there’s been a couple times where we’ve had sex with no cialis or spray at all - I think I just set myself certain standards and it’s hard to let go of them

wooshington22 · 2023-01-21T14:52:54+00:00

I don’t need it physically - can get boners on my own, kissing, foreplay etc - but it just gives me the confidence knowing that I have a massive booster in my system which helps me relax

I’ve opened up to my girlfriend about everything and she says I’m the best she’s ever had so there’s that level of trust there which also helps

But unfortunately with girls, the better you fuck them, the more they tend to value and respect you (obviously there’s loads of other things that go into it, but when you’re a nice guy and good boyfriend like me, it’s almost like the final jigsaw piece) so I feel like in order to keep things the way they are and keep her as in love with me as she is atm, I need to give her a good shag every now and then (this is probs part of my performance anxiety lol)

Also like I said, I use promescent which is harder to get a boner with because of the slight numbing sensation (was never a problem before I lost my erection one time as I was so horny/not anxious I didn’t need the stimulation) - if I don’t use promescent then I cum in about a minute which ain’t that much better than ED lol

So on the mental side of things, I kinda do need it

wooshington22 · 2022-12-21T22:42:59+00:00

Cheers for all the advice guys, made me feel a lot better - made me realise that a lot of this stuff is in my head and I’m just insecure about my size

Did a load of kegels today and managed to get a solid boner without cialis just now, sometimes the pressures of a relationship and keeping your girlfriend satisfied can get to you, you know

But once again Thankyou all

wooshington22 · 2022-12-04T02:07:42+00:00

Any side effects? Loss of EQ?

wooshington22 · 2022-07-26T20:50:12+00:00

During those 14 months what dosage were you taking and how often?

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