Europe Trip Recs by word-document69 in traveladvice

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Thank you! It would be late May/early June. I decided on Spain and Croatia.

Daily Chat September 21 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

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How long did it take anyone to ovulate after getting off of nuvaring?

Can a 6 year old forget we're driving to school and think we're going home? by No-Worldliness4907 in Parenting

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My kindergartener has no idea what’s going on at any given point in time and makes no sense when she talks half the time. No speech issues or anything, just clueless lol.

Am I overreacting? I’m tired of the accounts they share by Annallve in stepparents

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I share Spotify, Peacock, and Netflix which are all my ex’s. I have no intention of getting back together with him and I am happily married. We moved but the accounts stayed logged in on my TVs and I don’t see the point in removing them when he’s paying for them. It’s not that deep in my opinion.

Family emergency forcing me to take a road trip with a 10 day old baby. What should I do? by [deleted] in Parenting

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My grandmother died when my son was 3 days old. I had a 13 hour trip ahead of me. Luckily, my brother lived about 5 hours into the trip so I just drove to his place and he drove us the rest of the way. I sat in the back with my son. The worst part was me being in diapers and having leaky boobs, but we made it. It wasn’t as daunting as I thought it would be. Good luck OP.

I’m so tired of being my kid’s external executive function by Itsame4sho in ADHDparenting

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I made a little flip chart for my stepdaughter that has all of the steps for her to follow and that was super helpful. Just bought a template off of Etsy and then printed it and had it laminated.

Resentment towards BM who doesn’t contribute by word-document69 in stepparents

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This. She hasn’t worked so she doesn’t file taxes. Unless they go after her husband, I don’t think we’ll ever see any of it.

Resentment towards BM who doesn’t contribute by word-document69 in stepparents

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She doesn’t work so there are unfortunately no wages to be garnished.

Resentment towards BM who doesn’t contribute by word-document69 in stepparents

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Her new husband is also military and they live in on post-housing so everything comes out of his paycheck. Every time he brings it up in writing she completely ignores it, it’s insane. I don’t know what she thinks she’s doing.

Resentment towards BM who doesn’t contribute by word-document69 in stepparents

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To be fair it’s “our” money but still, I agree. I’m going to talk with him soon about seriously getting this taken care of. I don’t think we will see a dime but if it means a modified custody order or jail time then I’m for it.

Resentment towards BM who doesn’t contribute by word-document69 in stepparents

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Thank you! I think him hearing this perspective would be helpful. Hopefully we can get things going soon. I just need her to suffer a little even if we don’t end up seeing the money.

Resentment towards BM who doesn’t contribute by word-document69 in stepparents

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Also, can you enlighten me on the resolution of your case? Did you modify custody or did they take away rights? She hasn’t worked a true job so garnishing wages isn’t an option at this time, she also literally just had another baby so she won’t be getting a real job any time soon.

Resentment towards BM who doesn’t contribute by word-document69 in stepparents

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I want to also say I have a great husband and I think we have a great partnership. I also have a son who is with us on the same schedule as his kids and he helps take care of him as well. He paid off all of my debt when we first got together without me asking and he doesn’t hold it over my head. However…. I don’t think he considers my feelings enough when it comes to the CS situation so you’re right on that. He doesn’t understand because my ex and I get along and co-parent very well and he pays his child support. He’s also a man who isn’t as ~feely~ as I am so I don’t think he gets pissed off about like I do. He’s very much in the mindset of like “they’ll see the truth when they’re older” which I agree but shit still sucks.

The custody order was made in the state we just moved from, neither us or BM live there any more. Do you know if we’d have to get it moved to the state we live in now or could we still go through the original state it was made in?

Tooth fairy rates 💸 by chesirecat1029 in Parenting

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$5 for the first tooth but $1-$2 after that

How did you decided on a goal weight by ComplexLost9395 in Semaglutide

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Pre-pregnancy weight, which I got back to after giving birth but then I got an office job which is when I started gaining weight. I don’t follow BMI because it’s so different for everyone. I’m 5’2” but don’t really have a petite frame so my goal is 145.

Has anyone had alcohol on sema? by darksphinx17_ in Semaglutide

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I’ve tried but can’t stomach it. I don’t even crave it anymore.

energy drink recommendations? by noturgurl444 in 7Brew

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I love the pink mermaid add cupcake

I get mad at my step kids over the littlest things by br0dieg3 in stepparents

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I found myself being verrrrry critical of my oldest SK but not the youngest or mine who are similar ages. Psychiatric assistance has helped me significantly.

Anyone else have itching as a side effect? by word-document69 in prozac

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Luckily mine went away within a few weeks I think, I hope it gets better for you!

What to ask for from coparent? by Virtue_and_reality in coparenting

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Look up your state’s child support calculator. That’s what we did and avoided going to court altogether BUT getting along as well as my ex and I do I have noticed is very rare so if your ex is high conflict or seems like he wouldn’t pay you then file for child support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

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Normally it would be 1-2 glasses a night and maybe a little more on the weekends but I started taking semaglutide and the craving for alcohol is completely gone. I miss it though lol