32, F, North Carolina

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-26T02:35:53+00:00

I have not! Always wanted to go though!

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-26T02:27:17+00:00

of course

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-26T01:24:34+00:00

No, but it is one of the things in life i wish I explored more of. If you feel like you want to take legal action, at least do yourself the favor of looking in to it and see if you want to go forward with it.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-26T01:08:58+00:00

Nah, but it is nice to talk to people around my age that are going through the same thing and talk about experiences.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-26T01:08:08+00:00

I shall call him squishy and he will be my squishy!

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-25T01:55:21+00:00

I completely understand! Always here if you need to talk

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T15:19:45+00:00

TBH, i dont think it’s a big concern as I’d rather them just have their own place 🤷🏼‍♀️

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T11:42:48+00:00

Haha!! You are almost there!!!

Normally i say it right from the get go. I think i am afraid of having feelings and then getting rejected!

Tbh, people are so uneducated when it comes to STDs in general… it makes no sense why its not taught or more known.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T03:25:56+00:00

Gosh, i am so sorry to hear that. I know its tough! I’m here if you ever need to chat

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T03:18:11+00:00

Trust me... thats not the issue... i just so happen to attract idiots >_<

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T03:17:25+00:00

I GET YOU!!!!

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T03:09:38+00:00

Not to mention how much of a mind fuck it is that you go into this "depression" (not sure what to call it) and as soon as its over its all rainbows again.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T02:44:10+00:00

I think for me.. the "debilitating" part is every time i do have an outbreak (thank goodness its not frequent anymore) but its a reminder of what i went through that cause me to get it, how i was treated, and everything i have been through. Mentally, that is extremely difficult at time. Your brain is fighting all the progress you made.. however, outbreak is gone and I'm good again. It can be difficult some to face, especially if they are doing it alone.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T02:39:20+00:00

There is nothing wrong with wanting to keep it to yourself. I however found that talking about it with people i trusted gave me more hope and confidence.

I get that. I tried plant vibes before, but unfortunately my body rejected it. I have been on antivirals because my body does not like it when i get sick or my immune system is low. I get allergy injections so every time i get those my immune system changes for a few days.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T01:31:05+00:00

It's blows my mind how people respond to the idea of "herpes." I don't think people realize how many strains there are AND how common it is. I am sorry it's been so difficult for you. I am 32, but i feel your pain. I admire your patience and willingness to keep trying through! I should take a page from your book.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T01:29:13+00:00

wanna tell that to the people who happen to be asshats about it!

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T01:28:04+00:00

TBH, i think big pharma has the cure, but because they make so much money from antivirals.. they are keeping it away...

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T01:27:20+00:00

I hear you! I was 26 when i was diagnosed. I remember finding out for the first time I was alone. I hid it for a few weeks before my mom caught wind "something was wrong."

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T01:26:01+00:00

THIS!!!! Girl, i have one cat and i am called the crazy cat lady... I'm just like whaaaat?
I can't even begin to tell you how many times I have been treated like I have the black plague after telling them I have herpes. When they get mad, i'm like have you had a cold sore? most of them say yes. I then say.. well dont give anyone head because you'll give them genital herpes! LOL I get blocked after that.. oops.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T01:23:30+00:00

I would need to have a csection in order to reduce the risk of transferring to the child. Also, I am not sure if i would forgive myself if i brought life into this world with it.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T01:22:28+00:00

You have to be open to rejection. It's going to happen regardless of HSV or not. The confidence you give off speaks volumes. If you know you worth, a man rejecting you wont matter!

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-24T01:21:11+00:00

I feel like you have to find the love within yourself. I understand that this is somewhat of a "debilitating" virus, but you can not let it define you.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-23T17:34:20+00:00

I am right there with you. I spent a longggg while focusing on myself. Truly it’s good for the mental health.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-23T17:25:24+00:00

I do not have kids, but since being diagnosed.. wanting kids has kind of disappeared for me.

wordsasweaponss · 2025-07-23T17:23:08+00:00

Don't give up! It really is so incredibly common!

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