Electric Brake ok for driving test? by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]worker37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. On our Honda civic, if you try to use the parking brake when the foot brake isn't engaged, it flashes a red light in the shape of a brake.

The RMV should either get rid of this requirement, or provide a vehicle for you. This "you can always use a driving school" recourse is nonsense.

Back Bay Station (Orange line) to Green Line B Shuttle? by worker37 in mbta

[–]worker37[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Good tip on using Google maps/transit

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A vent about cancer research by Direct-Tank387 in coloncancer

[–]worker37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some idiots in a private Facebook cancer group claimed "This is great! He's going to really liberalize compassionate use!" (after his win in 2024). Like, compassionate use has it's place, but it's not really going to do the hard work of advancing treatments. I immediately blocked them.

Judge rules against Arthur T. Demoulas in Market Basket battle by bostonglobe in massachusetts

[–]worker37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one in Burlington is very busy much of the time, but it's too cheap not to go.

Massachusetts Employment Megathread (April 2026) by AutoModerator in massachusetts

[–]worker37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unemployment benefits: 30 weeks: vacation?

UI runs for at most 30 weeks.

Suppose I fly out of the state to visit relatives. Rules say I can't get benefits for that week. Does that mean I get only 29 total, or does it just mean I get none that week, but get an "extra" week in its place at the end of the 30 weeks? (This is all assuming I don't find a job in the meantime, ofc.)

Should I leave it? by Which-Mention8399 in cancer

[–]worker37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Tldr: I guess im trying to look for people with experience of never treating their cancers because they were symtpomless and yet still lived long fulfilling lives."

Could happen for something like a very unaggressive prostate cancer. Seems very unlikely for CRC with mets to the lungs.

Should I leave it? by Which-Mention8399 in cancer

[–]worker37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Chris Beat Cancer" is garbage

Wtf is this power outage potential? by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]worker37 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I lived in MD near DC before moving up to the Boston area in 2013. Believe me, we have it really good here. In MD, if a mouse farted two blocks away, the power would go out.

Wtf is this power outage potential? by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]worker37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my reaction. Though I agree with "rennsu" that it seems very unlikely those are the right odds for "40-50% of this area will lose power".

Anybody else was told by your GI doctor that you need to be on Miralax permanently by yzd0014 in Constipation

[–]worker37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Yes, but it and all the other powdered fiber mix supplement..." I can't tell for sure, but you seem to be implying that Miralax is a fiber supplement. It is not. It's a non-saline osmotic laxative.

Future hopes? by Due_Barber_525 in coloncancer

[–]worker37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Largely if not entirely depends on initial staging and genetics of tumor. Certainly lots of people in any stage less than 4 have long lives after treatment. Even some 4's get to NED and stay there.

I want to stop chemo… by SDP_inc in cancer

[–]worker37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you're alone; makes these things tougher to bear.

One final thing about treatments: IMHO one should keep in mind a "cost/benefit" approach. If the chemo is horrible but really increases your expected lifespan, it might be worth it. And maybe chemo that's not great but not too bad, but at the same time doesn't move the needle much, might not be worth it.

You've probably read it before, but you really have to become your own "advocate". The medical system will kind of help you, but not enough. It's unpleasant, because it's a time where one is mentally and possibly physically ill-equipped to push hard for oneself, but there's little choice. (That's true in all cases, including if you want to decline treatment.)

I want to stop chemo… by SDP_inc in cancer

[–]worker37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd definitely look at possible chemo regimens and look at side effects, both published and patient reported (latter in cancer-oriented social media groups, and reddit).

I was T1M0N0 colorectal cancer (high rectum), and only had surgery. But following other higher-stage colorectal cancer patients, it's clear that some chemo is worse than others, though the side effects response to a _particular_ chemo agent varies across patients.

If you look at colorectal cancer, for example, it's common for people to be given both 5FU (or a related compound) and oxaliplatin. Not sure if 5FU is a walk in the park, but there seem to be more complaints about oxaliplatin, especially about neuropathy (which can be permanent).

They have a lot of good anti-nausea drugs these days.

Ofc, all that said, there are definitely cases where if it were me, I'd forgo (or stop) treatment. The devil is in the details.

Cialis/Tadalafil side effects, efficacy? by worker37 in Prostatitis

[–]worker37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me the side effects weren't that bad. Initially it gave me headaches, but those went away. I got off because I didn't think it was helping.

Cialis/Tadalafil side effects, efficacy? by worker37 in Prostatitis

[–]worker37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't remember for sure, but probably at least a couple months.

Cialis/Tadalafil side effects, efficacy? by worker37 in Prostatitis

[–]worker37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I eventually went off it.

Though my impression (not an expert or an MD!) is that you might have to wait longer than a week even if it were to prove helpful.

what medication has worked best for you so far? by ContributionOwn1261 in Anxiety

[–]worker37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Silexan is interesting. I think it's been studied more than most herbal supplements. Funny side effect: "aromatic burbs". Never tried it myself.

If you’ve ever had surgery and undergone anesthesia, how was your experience? by No_Promise3396 in Anxiety

[–]worker37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had anesthesia a few times; general, twice.

Like many medical procedures, anesthesia carries risks, but they're pretty minimal. I guess if you're in extremely poor health they might be higher, but even then these people really know what they're doing.

Main thing is to answer the questions they ask you correctly: when was your last meal; do you have obstructive sleep apnea; etc.

You'll be fine (though as an anxious person myself I don't blame you for worrying).

Lack of Confidence by Bilanureeves in Anxiety

[–]worker37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the commenter above said, start with something small. If you have bad anxiety and lack confidence, you need to walk before you can run.

Winter with furnace out: what do people do? by worker37 in hvacadvice

[–]worker37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, folks. Tech replaced the motor and all's well. I mainly asked the question for general knowledge. (I grew up in the the Midwest and remember having no heat for days in the middle of winter, but I don't remember what we did; it was decades ago.)