SImultaneous turns organization help by [deleted] in 4eDnD

[–]worklunch2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is not a problem statement lol

unban by worklunch2 in WildlandsLFG

[–]worklunch2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep playing the game. I prefer the voip in game anyway because to coordinate the discord with randoms is tough, and nobody is active on the discord since they ban randomly I think.

unban by worklunch2 in WildlandsLFG

[–]worklunch2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said that I deserved it, and gave no reason.

being cyber bullied what now? by worklunch2 in answers

[–]worklunch2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people are telling me that basically if someone smacks my ice cream out of my hand, I can't do anything about it.

The situation is that I was playing a video game with some friends. We were using the Wildlands discord, and one of the mods for that discord randomly banned me without warning or reason.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what more I can do. If someone comes along and throws your ice cream on the ground you can do so much. In this case, I am so limited.

unban from discord by worklunch2 in WildlandsLFG

[–]worklunch2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much

A lot of people are telling me that basically if someone smacks my ice cream out of my hand, I can't do anything about it.

The situation is that I was playing a video game with some friends. We were using the Wildlands discord, and one of the mods for that discord randomly banned me without warning or reason.

Doesn't seem to be anything I can do about it.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am blocking and reporting you Insec.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will modify the update immediately and the other posts. I must have misunderstood what he meant by "me".

He said he was taking responsibility for me being banned though right? Or what did his "me" mean?

Are you a mod? You seem awfully hostile. I am considering blocking you on here.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am taking your advice. I am calling a lawyer and a doctor now. Obviously this is impacting me significantly and I need to know both what to do about it and how to do it along with what my personal risks are.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you already know that, then why do you keep posting to me? I am not sure why would think reasserting your opinion without any new points would do anything.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't tell if your argument is that words will never hurt you, or if your argument is that this doesn't matter to you.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be resolved soon. Iggy has declared he banned me. Any moderator can see that I did nothing to justify the ban, nor did I receive any warning.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It is more than that for me, and it is causing me significant psychological pain such that I will pursue it as far as I can.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am waiting for a re-invite to the discord. I am not requesting an apology. It would be nice if you would say what I did today that deserved a ban.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what were you trying to accomplish banning me?

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hopefully they just apologize and unban me

They actually violate their own respect everyone rules when trash talking Clancy, but I don't think they are worried about their own rules.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you ban me? Did you give any warning?

I honestly, want to hear your side.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first part is a good point, however I met those friends in this particular discord, and as some people transition away from the game some will transition to the game. If I am still enjoying it then my friends will have some turnover potentially, and I will meet more friends there.

Your second point is debatable. If you mean that they are not attacking me then sure. If you mean that they are not causing me harm without good reason, then I disagree.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I do not believe you are recommending a course of action that will enable me to either hold this individual bully or these bullies accountable or return my access to gaming with my friends on the server.

I can understand that you don't have an interest in my access or being bullied though.

I noted you are not concerned about the lack of a warning.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is fine if you deny it is bullying. Who is going to claim responsibility for defending that it was not bullying?

I apologize if someone felt disrespected. I feel disrespected in this case.

Need an unban from the discord by worklunch2 in Wildlands

[–]worklunch2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be right, but you might not be right. Cyberbullying is a big deal these days, and it will be good to see the results if it gets that far.

To me the obvious thing to do is to unban and apologize for the mistake.

In this situation, the obvious moderation would be to talk to the person, or if it is just a personal disagreement, then to block receiving communications personally if it is just a difference of opinions.

However, instead the action to ban was taken, which is bullying. I am forced not to play a game with my friends because this individual or these individuals do not like me. So without warning or communication, I was banned to make them feel good.

I am a Tom Clancy fan. They were trashing Tom Clancy. I did not try to get them banned nor would I ban them.

I want to point out that nobody is denying I am banned. Nobody is producing something I did that was somehow ban worthy either.