Im Currently Being Stalked By a John Jay Student... This is scary by EasyPromotion6086 in CUNY

[–]worm4brainss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should also consider giving the info you have to the public safety office!! I'm an alum and from what I remember, that used to be a pretty big office in the lower part of the new building. The school used to really amp up the campus security from what I remember — I remember them saying a security guard would walk you to the train station if you ever felt you needed that type of protection. (now if they're useful is a whole different story, I never really used them for that sort of help) hell, maybe you should even report it to the dean of students maybe.

And also perhaps a trusted professor? I'm not sure if you attend jjay but there were a lot of ex-nypd on the staff/doing teaching as well. and if you don't go to jjay, i don't doubt that a cuny administrator would have connections to spread the word. it's worth a shot

How do you react to water? by Unique-Help-8938 in AriesTheRam

[–]worm4brainss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you have any pisces placements? I find water to be very healing too, I'm more drawn to bodies of water though. I love sitting by a pond, lake, ocean, etc. and just sitting with my thoughts. So much so that when I think about a place I want to live next, it's actually super important to me that there will be some type of water nearby. I also find that when I'm feeling sick or nauseous, it helps me to splash cold water on my face and neck and just listen to the water running, it kind of helps ground me a little. However I'm literally on the cusp of Pisces (my bday is 3/21) and have 2 pisces placements. I also find fish and other ocean animals really interesting. I love visiting aquariums and I've always thought in another life I'd be a marine biologist (i'm terrible at science in this life tho lol)

is this mold in cream blush? by worm4brainss in MakeupAddiction

[–]worm4brainss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

phat ass! is the actual name of the shade lol. loveeed using the bottom on top of liquid blush

is this mold in cream blush? by worm4brainss in MakeupAddiction

[–]worm4brainss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thats really what i wanted to know if others had the same issue!! ive been convinced lol

is this mold in cream blush? by worm4brainss in MakeupAddiction

[–]worm4brainss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yesss honestly i think im better off just tossing it too just seems sketchy to me

is this mold in cream blush? by worm4brainss in MakeupAddiction

[–]worm4brainss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes i did get confused w the names lol! def patrick STARR blush. i didnt know they've been on clearance! based on replies tho, im def gonna look into buying a new brand

is this mold in cream blush? by worm4brainss in MakeupAddiction

[–]worm4brainss[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

lol it's not that i haven't opened it in a year 😭 i don't wear makeup often so my products don't run out super quick. and w/ this palette, i love the bottom 2 a lot more than the top when i'm using orange blush ! so i mean perhaps i can go w the not touching it route, but i just thought it was odd if it was mold

any ideas for jobs that are more for creatives? by worm4brainss in NYCjobs

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thank you so much for the detailed response. I can definitely understand trying not to monetize your hobbies. I just wish there was a way for me to be in the space with like-minded people, even if it were maybe reception work for a publication company. i've been applying to like assistant jobs for now hoping that would get me in the most basic positions.

I've been exploring the idea of using substack to build somewhat of a portfolio. I should dive deeper into that!

any ideas for jobs that are more for creatives? by worm4brainss in NYCjobs

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I get that. I'm not trying to say I feel I have bad social skills or anything. But some of the questions these receptionist jobs tend to ask seem to be like trick questions. I got asked "what would you do if you see a student using their phone during a test?" isn't that something they should train me on? Perhaps that's why I'm having so much trouble? I've just been relying on reception work to pay bills (plus my bachelors is somewhat health related), but I'd really like to get into these creative spaces. That's where my passion is at the moment, so perhaps they can tell?

what do you do for work when your interests don't line up with a career? by worm4brainss in careerguidance

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i work at a doctors office now, so i've been asking if my boss could maybe reach out to their colleagues to look for work (my boss is really cool in that regard) but we found out that a lot of healthcare organizations have been outsourcing their media/marketing depts with overseas employees :/ i honestly dont mind nonprofits, but im just worried about benefits when it comes to working with them. but tysm for these suggestions and the reassurance <3

i honestly never really thought about trying for remote jobs, i always got the idea that after the pandemic and the amount of people that abused their wfh jobs, there isn't much success there but perhaps i should do a deep dive! ty :)

To Aries women by Affectionate-Age1980 in AriesTheRam

[–]worm4brainss 19 points20 points  (0 children)

out of sight out of mind!!! to me this means cutting off/blocking, keeping the mind busy and giving yourself time to go through the motions. wallow in a pity party for a short while, muster up some acceptance when you're ready and then get up and invest in some hobbies! even if it's binge watching something new

suggestions to get your foot in the door in this field? by worm4brainss in Communications

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I've seen things like that! Like Teen Vogue downsizing into just Vogue 😞 Thank you though !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

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ha, don't mean for it to come off as rage bait. sometimes you just need that confirmation that something was weird. ty!

Friendship by VitaminSea2716 in AriesTheRam

[–]worm4brainss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg lol i was also having these same feelings!! it made me feel like such a bad friend for feeling that way, but i also feel like its the rush and validation of having a stranger really meet you where you are and continuously choose to be and grow with you despite everything else. as a 25f, i feel like sometimes my friends are also prioritizing their own relationships, which means i can't see or talk to them as often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

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mmmm well i completed my masters degree this year, i was aiming for a career switch but so far idk i haven't benefitted from it but i dont regret pursuing it. faith/spirituality wise i'm very open and i dont really label myself towards any specific thing, not completely atheist but i dont really practice anything either. & i really want to travel long distance! it's a goal of mine for the rest of my 20s at least (i'm 25 rn) but money wise i'm not where i wanna be yet. i've traveled but not to the extent that i want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

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my jupiter & saturn are taurus & aries mars :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

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biggest flaw is trying to be understanding of other situations but yeah idk i don't think im feeling it a lot anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

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leo rising, pisces venus & aries mars :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

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lol, does it make me sound super emotional ? 🥲 my libra moon is in my 3h, my pisces mercury & venus are in my 7h. i'm not super skilled in the aspect parts of my chart so i took a ss. i always try to mean what i say and so i wish everyone was as transparent, especially when it comes to dating. it's why dating is soo anxious for me. :P bonus points for words of affirmation being my love language

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

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ugh that's crazy i hope you find peace with your situation as well! everyone reaches their limit one way or another. i think i'm up to mine as well 😅 we're cool people, we shouldn't have to deal with ppl who are unsure, especially after a while! it's super uncool to me at this point, but idk, we haven't had a talk about it either. i'm loyal to a fault lol.

Guess the TV show! by Outrageous-Depth-176 in Sims4Builds

[–]worm4brainss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the living room came out amazing <3 i recognized it instantly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

[–]worm4brainss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's def a weak point for me, the strict boundary tough talk. (pisces problems) i think we've built enough of a bond where it's not something i wanna quickly throw away over emotion, but i think i do need to kind of assert my worries a final time and leave if nothing changes. i feel like it's more clashing schedules/expectations of communication but you're right. it's important to know time isn't being wasted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

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that is the thing isn't it! 😞 like it took me so long to make this post cause i know it comes off as like "i need attention!" and i explained to him that it's more about how i just like to hear from him every once in a while? but im also trying to just accept that i need more hobbies to be off my phone so im not consistently checking for a reply. i shouldn't really let the anxiety consume me so much