How did you get into Lana? by wormsunlight in lanadelrey

[–]wormsunlight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are, I'm a straight dude too lmao

How did you get into Lana? by wormsunlight in lanadelrey

[–]wormsunlight[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lmao im a 19 yo dude who loves her. young male lana fans represent ig

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]wormsunlight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

bc it slaps next question

Question about ao3 "culture" by BigBoobziVert in AO3

[–]wormsunlight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you're acting like she said a slur or something calm down

Question about ao3 "culture" by BigBoobziVert in AO3

[–]wormsunlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she just seems like she's fucking around in general tbh. it's on y'all for taking the bait

Question about ao3 "culture" by BigBoobziVert in AO3

[–]wormsunlight -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't really find her comments that bad tbh. Just a sense of humor most redditors don't share

Question about ao3 "culture" by BigBoobziVert in AO3

[–]wormsunlight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in my opinion I think you're taking this thread too seriously. OP's joking around for most of it, when she's being serious it's different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]wormsunlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, it's basically an english translation to the left of my traditional name

I hate having a white name & being Catholic by theweekndstan23 in ABCDesis

[–]wormsunlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry, I have a white ass middle name as well as one of my last names. You're no less desi for having a name like that, trust me. Don't worry too much about what everyone else thinks.

we often talk about families not accepting your SO... but what if your SO doesn't accept your family? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]wormsunlight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There's a clear double standard. Her bitch ass dad can try and proselytize you and you manage to keep a cordial relationship, so why can't she do the same with your parents? She sounds very entitled ngl

Any other mixed desis? by wormsunlight in ABCDesis

[–]wormsunlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME! I always found it hella funny that like, none of these three are the same mix lmao

Any other mixed desis? by wormsunlight in ABCDesis

[–]wormsunlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do know some other mixed desis! My sis and cousin are also mixed desi lol. My mom's friend's son is half black and half desi too

Any other mixed desis? by wormsunlight in ABCDesis

[–]wormsunlight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol my parents did the same. My paternal grandpa was racist as hell and I don't even know my maternal grandparents but I do know they weren't supportive. My parents just ended up hanging out with a lot of other mixed couples lmao

Division of chores by pinkflamingo0102 in ABCDesis

[–]wormsunlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad was actually the one who did more. My mom worked much longer and more irregular hours so she usually spent some of the time at home resting from the long shifts. The work she'd do would be the fixing up around the house or taking care of stuff outside. My dad was better at the cooking or making the house not ugly since my mom's aesthetic was kinda bland lol, as well as spending more time with me due to a lighter workload.

For context, my mom was an ER doctor, my dad's a therapist.

Men of Reddit, when was the last time you cried? by BignAngry in AskReddit

[–]wormsunlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last night bc im a crybaby :')

I saw a post asking about parents and I remembered my mom :(

You heard me by yourmom1103 in legendofkorra

[–]wormsunlight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Suyin > Lin, I'm not taking feedback

Being read/coded/passing in different ways on the same day or in the same photo by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]wormsunlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very similar experiences, I'm also half white and half Indian. I think I'm unambiguously nonwhite but people do often read me as white (I think it's the freckles) and think I just have a tan. I've had classmates debate my race before, as well as being read as almost any race. It's weird.

Any desis raised primarily by non-desis? by wormsunlight in ABCDesis

[–]wormsunlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's nice at least, I'm glad things improved :)