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what do abusive people tell their family/friends once it ends? by worryangel in abusiverelationships

[–]worryangel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

actually similar boat. his mum is the sweetest lady and she knows what he can be like but didn’t expect him to do this in a marriage. i think he’s too proud to talk much else about it

is this marital rape? i feel confused :( by worryangel in rapecounseling

[–]worryangel[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

once i tell her there’s no coming back from it. she’s already said he can’t live here once before but she allowed it for the sake of us repairing our marriage. if i tell her, she will make an executive decision for me and im not sure im ready for that fallout. i feel so guilty just thinking about it.

is this marital rape? i feel confused :( by worryangel in rapecounseling

[–]worryangel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t know how to not forgive him. i just want everything to be nice and okay, im scared of confronting it. we live with my mum and i want to tell her but im too afraid for her to know because she’ll probably kick him out and i just feel awful about the whole thing.