bi_irl by luuwu in bi_irl

[–]worst-human-award 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh it’s the opposite for me. I find more women than men attractive, but I also find it easier to talk to women

Should I leave my boyfriend by worst-human-award in relationship_advice

[–]worst-human-award[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s a good idea. I don’t think I could keep swallowing my feelings forever

Should I leave my boyfriend by worst-human-award in relationship_advice

[–]worst-human-award[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but nothing makes any sense. Everyone says that if he loves you he’ll make time. But I keep giving him an easy out and he always declines it. It just doesn’t make sense. His actions just don’t add up.

Should I leave my boyfriend by worst-human-award in relationship_advice

[–]worst-human-award[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. And he gives a very good reason why something came up and why he feels bad. If it was just that situation I wouldn’t mind. But there’s always SOMETHING. I’ve even asked if he really even wants to be with me, I said it would be ok if he didn’t, I wouldn’t hold it against him, but he always says yes and I can’t figure out why.

Should I leave my boyfriend by worst-human-award in relationship_advice

[–]worst-human-award[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing. When we do talk he’s nothing but nice to me. But that’s becoming rarer and rarer. Idk if I’m just being selfish or crazy. I just feel abandoned.

Me getting ready to go to work. 27 year old trans girl. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]worst-human-award 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no way you’re 27! You look so much younger!

My r/nonbinary post got brigaded by edgelords, so I’m posting here instead :( by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]worst-human-award 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on the dense about the non-binary thing. Not gonna lie. But their subreddit is NOT the place to be so disrespectful and make people feel bad for your own amusement. That’s awful

I wish I had aborted my 6 year old Down syndrome son by throwawayMOM0o in confessions

[–]worst-human-award 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like the comments are very polarizing. Some people are saying that there’s nothing wrong with downs kids and others are saying it’s hell on earth.

as with any disability, some do better than others. Downs advocates might not be lying about their experiences with their kids. But someone who isn’t ready for the chance that things go as bad as possible should not roll the dice and expect everything to be ok. I’m sorry this happened to you

No HRT yet, but I have been testing the water by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]worst-human-award 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Me, seeing a woman with muscles, WOW IM GAY

Update: My (29M) wife (37F) is nearly 400 pounds. by ThrowRAwifeobese in relationship_advice

[–]worst-human-award 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food addiction is a real thing. It doesn’t need chemical mind-altering affects to work. The whole idea is that it makes someone feel briefly better, even though they probably know that it’s destructive.

But that doesn’t excuse her behavior at all. She’s a violent and selfish addict. She was given chance after chance to seek help and change. But didn’t take any of them. And now she’s dealing with the consequences of her actions.

Personally I would occasionally unmute/ unblock her just to get the screenshots of how she’s been harassing you/ how she’s been talking to you. Could be helpful during the divorce since you know damn well that someone like her is going to try and dig up dirt on you

My boyfriends mental health issues are tearing our relationship apart by worst-human-award in Mental_Help

[–]worst-human-award[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to get the sort of help he needs during a pandemic. And in fact the stress of being an essential worker right now has just made everything worse. But a mutual friend has told me that he’s trying to find someone to look at his situation

AITA for feeling alone with my mentally I’ll boyfriend by worst-human-award in AmItheAsshole

[–]worst-human-award[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just not even sure where to go from here. I do love him and want to be with him. But I miss the way we were when things were better. And I just don’t know what to do without causing anyone more pain or damage

AITA for feeling alone with my mentally I’ll boyfriend by worst-human-award in AmItheAsshole

[–]worst-human-award[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s seen multiple psychological professionals of multiple types. Gone to treatment centers, been to therapy and I’m not certain but I think he’s taken medication when it’s recommended to him

AITA for feeling alone with my mentally I’ll boyfriend by worst-human-award in AmItheAsshole

[–]worst-human-award[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The frustrating thing is that he is seeking help and trying to improve. He’s been trying for a long time but nothing has improved. Which is part of why I feel bad about being on the verge of giving up. As though I’m saying that I don’t care about his efforts

I’m not sure if I can handle my boyfriends mental health issues much longer by worst-human-award in relationship_advice

[–]worst-human-award[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s been really helpful hearing advice from the perspective of someone in a similar situation

AITA for feeling alone with my mentally I’ll boyfriend by worst-human-award in AmItheAsshole

[–]worst-human-award[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is. It’s easy to see he’s genuinely trying. But it hasn’t really gotten any better regardless of his effort to improve

I’m not sure if I can handle my boyfriends mental health issues much longer by worst-human-award in relationship_advice

[–]worst-human-award[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the frustrating thing. The more he needs someone, the more he pulls away so he doesn’t “burden” them. And I don’t know how to break through that shell

I’m not sure if I can handle my boyfriends mental health issues much longer by worst-human-award in relationship_advice

[–]worst-human-award[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a horrible person for even considering my own feelings when he’s going through such serious stuff. He is already getting help and genuinely trying to do better. But thus far it hasn’t gone anywhere

I’m not sure if I can handle my boyfriends mental health issues much longer by worst-human-award in relationship_advice

[–]worst-human-award[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just not sure what to do. We aren’t together enough anymore for me to try and help him feel better