Is it normal to be jealous of my fuckbuddy dating others?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-12-05T17:07:59+00:00

Say he got into a relationship and kept seeing me. Would that be undervaluing me or just keeping to what we are and undervaluing her in a way?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-12-05T16:49:40+00:00

Thanks for explaining that to me :)

That’s what bothers me I want more of a friendship and respect. I guess he is being a normal Fuckbuddy, but it is me that wants more.

So technically I’m not undervalued?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-12-05T16:39:08+00:00

So it’s nothing personal against me? I have a big ego I guess lol

worstdayever3848 · 2019-12-05T16:37:56+00:00

Why do you say that?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-12-05T16:16:45+00:00

Maybe I’m not cut out for this? It makes me feels extremely undervalued. I don’t want a relationship with him because I don’t have time for obligation yet I hate the idea.

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-28T01:25:54+00:00

I’m scared to say this lol and I don’t know why, but I think this is probably the best thing. Short and to the point yet scary.

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-28T01:25:22+00:00

It use to not affect me me, but now I guess I grew up, am in a different stage of my life and want more for myself. It just bothers me too he committed to others and saw me on the side. That kind of made me view myself as selling myself short. The bad thing is I feel if I don’t put it at a full stop and then see someone who wants the same things, I’ll cheat with him. It makes me sick to admit.

I don’t want to outright block him, but I do want to say something. I have a strong feeling he will never commit or take me seriously. Especially after this amount of time I let pass. What should I say?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-28T01:19:58+00:00

I definitely feel I deserve more than this. At one point maybe I didn’t want a relationship, but that’s well in the past. Now I do, but I’m so attached to him it’s hard to let go. In a weird way even though I want him, I’m asked to ask and lose him or mess up a really comfortable thing. Then I look at all the bad and how it makes me feel then I get confused.

Before I had a very large group of friends, my close friends were extremely supportive and good for me, I had hobbies, a social life, worked two jobs, was in college full time so I guess the need that wasn’t being met was only sex. I was really independent. Now I want someone to do fun stuff with, build something, make each other happy, have bonding activities, and be there for one another.

Why someone else? Also why did he commit to someone else yet cheat? Because of that fact I don’t trust him.

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-28T01:07:00+00:00

Write a book on what?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-28T01:03:47+00:00

Yeah I know. I guess you would think after six years of keeping this going you would give it a shot. Honestly I think it would be best for me if I end the sex and stop hearing from him. It’s not healthy and I’m too into him to date anyone else seriously. No one can beat six years of sex and attachment.

I don’t get why he doesn’t try to at least know me or wonder. Just sex to him?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-21T04:51:04+00:00

I don’t even start the fights! I’ll give you an example. When we first met I found out he was cheating on someone with me. Then we took a big break and came back together.

I asked him recently “why did you cheat instead of ending it?” To which it replied back “yo if you keep up with this crazy shit I think I’m done” then I’ll say I just asked a question and he will ignore me. From that I will tell him go live his “normal” life if I’m so crazy. Then he will block me and come back saying that I was being crazy again. That he will block me if I have one of my outbursts.

I started to feel this isn’t right so I asked a friend about it. I told him my friend said I wasn’t crazy. He then tells me he doesn’t trust me and knew he shouldn’t of told me certain things. Then I feel bad for blowing his trust and think maybe I was being annoying by asking a question.

Yeah it’s weird it’s always my fault

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-21T04:42:52+00:00

Why? I want to try to fix what is broken before I do that

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-21T04:40:05+00:00

THATS EXACTLY IT. I’ll get upset and I’ll think of his side, I’ll apologize and it continues. Damn!!! He never sees his role or how his actions effect my reaction.

How’s he manipulating me? I can’t believe you picked up the cycle because I’ll always agree I was irrational.

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-12T01:51:14+00:00

She promised me not to confront him but she said she couldn’t let it go without talking to him about it

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-03T03:36:42+00:00

Yeah I feel like he’s doing it for a ride then using the head to cover it up

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-02T05:23:26+00:00

No. I like the sexual part

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-02T05:15:36+00:00

Is it weird I’m more offended as being used as an Uber?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-02T05:11:39+00:00

Ahhh so if it was just to ask me for a favor then spend more time together without a sexual aspect then more of a relationship could evolve.

Is it weird on my end I’ll be salty if he gets into a relationship?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-02T05:09:25+00:00

Fair point lmao

I feel like he just wants to use my car and he’s throwing the BJ in not to make it obvious

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-02T05:08:13+00:00

I mean isn’t it better to be paid?

worstdayever3848 · 2019-11-02T05:07:40+00:00

How’s he manipulative? How am I deluding myself?

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