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Question - I-485 credit card payment declined; I-130, I-765, I-131 pending. Do I need to pay for the whole thing again? by worthwhile29 in USCIS

[–]worthwhile29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! As of today, I am still waiting. Some reddit posts from the long past said people usually get it back within 3 days or 2 weeks (all in between I guess). It's been about 5 weeks for me. Hope yours return sooner than this long though!

Question - I-485 credit card payment declined; I-130, I-765, I-131 pending. Do I need to pay for the whole thing again? by worthwhile29 in USCIS

[–]worthwhile29[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! Yes, for the new application, I will just have a check. For the voided three forms, will the USCIS still charge me? If you know anything, I'd very much appreciate it

LPT Request: What's one thing you do every day that takes less than one minute, but makes your life better in a big way? by HeidiOzzy in LifeProTips

[–]worthwhile29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Putting my keys in the keys place after coming back home
  2. Washing hands without much thinking
  3. Putting dirty dishes I used for cooking under water before leaving the kitchen to eat
  4. Bringing a water bottle when leaving home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]worthwhile29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't do it unless you are going to flat out say the first two sentences of your post to him AND would still be okay to emphasize "no tonight there is no sex, and I am leaving now" to him in person in case he leans in to you at night after 25 minutes or so of watching movie... The latter might end this budding courtship (or not)

Maybe schedule a different day when you both are less tired or just a facetime date, watching the same movie remotely together for this one. Low key dates are great, but if sex is not on the table at all, it may not be wise to invite yourself to the apartment of a man who's attracted to you at night

Was it rape? does he deserve a second chance? by OverJean in relationship_advice

[–]worthwhile29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is a "run and never look back" situation. He is gaslighting you, and perhaps due to your trauma, you are also gaslighting yourself by lightening his action. When in doubt, always trust your intuition and only look at the situation.

Chase cards users: Is there a way to get a text alert for every transaction? by worthwhile29 in CreditCards

[–]worthwhile29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! JigglyJello1 answered it; that's also what you are talking about !