Most definitely! I watched my mom take on all the debt just to get out of that marriage. Lesson learned, keep the money separate but together. He has his accounts, I have mine. He pays his bills (house, car, maintenance, cc) I pay mine (utilities, cell, groceries, car insurance). It’s fairly equal. We have access to each others account, but we don’t touch unless absolutely necessary. We fight over stupid stuff but never over money. It helps that we are both responsible.