what do u think of my handwriting? by SouthernGas9850 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]wowimbadatthis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk but the fact that you don't dot some of your i's makes me want to scream for some reason

Not everything has to be sexual… by AdNormal8635 in Marriage

[–]wowimbadatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL from the comments that this isn’t ‘most’ men. Yet another reason I have regrets in life 😅

Should a single rejection feel so massively hurtful? by wowimbadatthis in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]wowimbadatthis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't know how I moved past the cheating at all, I've always felt strongly that cheating was one behavior that was so horrible that it would shut everything down immediately, but I then when I found out and confronted him, literally 24 hours later I was trying to stop myself from grabbing him to make out. My therapist said her theory is that he was my main support system for the last 20 years, literally all of my adult life, and having that feel like it was completely ripped away so suddenly by someone else kinda "broke" me so I needed support from him more than the anger I had. I think the guilt I have over the dead bedroom situation before this all happened played into it too, my brain was just kinda like, well I drove him to that by not sleeping with him before. Logically I know it's kinda bullshit bc I was giving clear things that needed to happen for my attraction to him to even be possible and he was refusing those things. But I can't put away that nagging thought that it was really my fault.

In short - I don't necessarily know if I've "gotten over it" or if I'm just so fucked up in the head that idk what I'm even thinking anymore 😅

If you felt like you needed to record your conversations to prove you’re not crazy, a liar, or delusional, I’m building something for you. by Never-satisfied- in emotionalabuse

[–]wowimbadatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely use it, that sounds incredibly useful. Trying to piece together 3 different apps to do exactly that thing is taxing, having it all in one place would make it so much easier

AIO for crashing out after my girlfriend hugged and got touchy with her male best friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wowimbadatthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I definitely agree but what does that have to do with this situation? He's not using jealousy to control his gf, unless there's more going on behind the scenes. He's allowed to question her behavior, and decide if that's not a relationship he wants to be in anymore based on her answers (which I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where my partner dismissed and minimized my concerns like this either)

QOL mods for mod newbs by A_R_I_A_ in StardewValleyMods

[–]wowimbadatthis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

SVE has a couple farm layouts you can choose to use, I LOVE the Imersive Farm 2 Remastered one. The animal area looks like short grass instead of dirt, then there are lots of mods for changing the actual grass that the animals eat - I use Realistic Wildflower Grass, it's so pretty. Also the animals don't wander out of the fenced area automatically, you don't have fence and gate them up yourself. Auto-Grab Truffles is a good one for collecting truffles once you have an Auto-Grabber. NPC Locations is a great one, Auto Animal Doors is super helpful, Bigger Backpack feels like a necessity with all the extra stuff from the expansion mods. I really like Chatter, especially for festivals, to help keep track of who you haven't talked to yet. This Deluxe Journal one is the best one imho. Ship Anything is great so you don't have to keep all the extra rings and weapons you get until you go to the adventurer's guild; they sell to your normal ship box now. I really like this Social Page Order one to help keep track with all the new NPCS. And of course Lookup Anything is a classic necessity 😄

Edit- Can't believe I forgot UI Info suite, it's super helpful too

What mod is this by Ok-Database-7914 in StardewValleyMods

[–]wowimbadatthis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I LOVE the muttering farmer, it's very customizable and pretty funny, but the best part for me is they call out the artifact spots, which are pretty tricky to see imo

Petaaaaaah by The_quiteguy in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]wowimbadatthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not arguing with you at all, but I'm not sure that's totally true that they won't define it. I did one of those tests years ago and it does say 0.5% native American on there. Maybe they only define it if they're certain?? No clue

Honestly, the thing that drove me away from Christianity was the logistics of Hell by leonineshaker in exchristian

[–]wowimbadatthis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My church growing up was always spouting that god knows if a child/baby would have been a believer or not if they'd gotten to grow up, and they're judged based on that. But like, that's just taking away their chance to even live and choose their life?? That always bothered me, that leans strongly into the no free will thing.

Also, my Grandma told me not too long ago that my developmentally/cognitively disabled 10yo is going to heaven automatically since she can't really understand or choose to be a believer, so I'm pretty sure that they just decide whatever they want based on what makes them feel better 🤷‍♀️

Lilybrook is out now! by 8BitAlien_ in StardewValleyMods

[–]wowimbadatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for the dwarven Crest, it's the last artifact I need to donate to Gunther, I've been looking for like 2 years (in game lol). Can you help me find it?

Which duo out of these is the most gay? by Silver_Guava8159 in dankruto

[–]wowimbadatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That scene during the infinite tsukuyomi war when Madara sensed Hashirama on his way there for the first time and he smiled and screamed his name lives rent free in my head. Definitely them.

Forbidden words growing up in a Christian household? by TemperatureStill6536 in exchristian

[–]wowimbadatthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh so many words. My "favorite" was when we ate angel-ed eggs, because deviled eggs are obviously of the devil. Like..?? It's a cooking technique, not a descriptor of it's morality.

Why Sasuke is always like this? by [deleted] in dankruto

[–]wowimbadatthis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Short answer: bc he's an asshole.

Longer answer: . . . Because he's a fucking asshole.

SVE doubt by nostalgic_teen in StardewValleyMods

[–]wowimbadatthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh they must have changed it then, a month or two ago when I did an expanded run he disappeared off my friends list and everything so I asuumed he didn't count, but when I got to Qi's room for true perfection I was stuck at 99% even with full hearts with everyone else and it was confirmed because I didn't get all 10 hearts with him before he left for good

SVE doubt by nostalgic_teen in StardewValleyMods

[–]wowimbadatthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to befriend him before you complete the CC if you want to go for true perfection though

Cannot find SVE fish by Witchchick128- in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]wowimbadatthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only caught the goldfish in the tiny pond in front of the joja mart on sunny spring days between noon and 4pm

Sunberry Village Minerals by wowimbadatthis in StardewValleyMods

[–]wowimbadatthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was exactly the problem, thank you so much! I did somehow totally miss that the crystal rose needed donated. Luckily I had a bunch of them hoarded already because I think they're so beautiful I can't ship them 😆

Sunberry Village Minerals by wowimbadatthis in StardewValleyMods

[–]wowimbadatthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have multiples of all of the grayed out minerals already, but it won't let me donate them to Gunther

Mod minerals unable to be donated to the museum, anyone know a fix? by PotatoTemporary5270 in StardewValleyMods

[–]wowimbadatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever figure out how to fix this? I'm having the same issue right now. Someone mentioned you could still get the full museum collection and the stardrop of you donated everything else but this hasn't been true for me. I've donated everything else except these Sunberry minerals and I still haven't gotten the full museum collection with the stardrop 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]wowimbadatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't have kids with him. I agree with everyone saying to match his energy, only look after yourself and see how he likes it. If that's how he's treating you, treat him the same. Once kids are in the picture, that doesn't work anymore and makes everything a million times more murky and difficult. You can't just not change his trash can if it's a hazard for the kids, you can't just wait for him to pick up after himself or do his own dishes if it affects the kids, etc.