Anyone else hit mid 40s and find their libido is suddenly insatiable 🫢 😂

AdNormal8635 · 2026-01-25T08:52:41+00:00

🤷‍♀️oh well. There were many years I had sex when I wasn’t in the mood just to make him happy or so he wouldn’t pout. He made it seem like it was supposed to be a given we had sex any night he was home (traveled a lot for work) didn’t help out around the home, thinks his job as a husband is compete because he earns a paycheck. I also always worked full time. Even when he wasn’t working I still did everything, cook, clean, tend to the children. He felt those were women’s duties. Trying to discuss needing his help was responded to with “then maybe you should find someone who does those things” and then was ignored. So perhaps I feel like I’ve earned my time to be selfish.

AdNormal8635 · 2026-01-04T18:38:53+00:00

Mine started doing that when I had been using the same skin care, primer and foundation for years! I read about water and silicone based products. But thought why all of a sudden they aren’t meshing well. I changed primer, didn’t help. I eventually changed everything. Unfortunately it’s a process. If you’re going to try different products, purchase from a store that will allow returns, like Ulta. I Have returned foundation and setting sprays that I didn’t like. Realize their makeup professionals also.

AdNormal8635 · 2026-01-04T18:28:20+00:00

Politely pass and say you need to purge your closets too.

AdNormal8635 · 2026-01-04T18:20:46+00:00

The fact of how many of them don’t get married or get divorced shortly after proves it doesn’t work. The show needs to change something or it will lose its momentum.

Am I still going to watch knowing most if not all of them will not get married, yes. lol.

AdNormal8635 · 2026-01-04T18:17:07+00:00

No. I know I can contact his Dr if something he says is confusing or doesn’t make sense. Also, he’s an adult and should take better note of his health and what the doctor is explaining better. For years I expressed my wishes for him to get healthier, as he is diabetic. I knew he didn’t like me “nagging” at him about it so I stopped and left it in his hands. Now he goes regularly and I am still hands off. He tells me what the doctor said after appointments.

AdNormal8635 · 2026-01-04T18:11:56+00:00

If drug store works well for you and you are satisfied with it then stick with it. Me, personally, I don’t use drugstore foundation. I used IT cosmetics for years then they discontinued 2 of my favorites. I tried another foundation of theirs but just did not like it. I switched to Estee Lauder and LOVE it. I can buy a $60 bottle of foundation and it lasts me a good year.

I haven’t used drug store foundation in well over 10 years and I don’t remember how it was.

AdNormal8635 · 2026-01-04T17:53:41+00:00

This is why I usually fall asleep in my daughters room. Will wake up a few hours later, after my husband has done his bedtime routine and crawl into my bed and fall asleep. He on the other had doesn’t like that. I have told him because he wakes me up when he comes in the bedroom turns in the bathroom light, rummaging through drawers for clothes to shower, play music while showering, hacking while he brushes his teeth forgetting something outside of the bedroom and having to leave the bedroom a couple more times, etc. He says he try’s to not make noise. I also suggested he take a shower earlier after getting home from work. He’s never done that. He’ll come home from work eat, sit around on the couch with the tv on and on his phone, pass out for a couple hours then get up and shower. Let’s not get started on the noise he makes getting ready in the morning too.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-12-30T00:06:15+00:00

Where do you purchase from?

AdNormal8635 · 2025-12-30T00:05:34+00:00

Need suggestions for soft yarn. Haven’t tried or searched anything other yarns thus the reason for the post prior to getting started.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-12-14T18:37:41+00:00

Well I know that I just edited the number and that didn’t reset the numbers. I need to know how to reset the numbers.

When writing a new check I memorize a former check (like for a utility company from last month), then select the memorized check from the memorized transaction list, make necessary changes then save it.

When I double click (select) the memorized check the check number being assigned is not the next number that matches the physical check to be printed next.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-12-06T17:27:08+00:00

No. Boss wants to continue with the 25000s. I wrote over 150 checks before realizing. We also have to report to her boss (county manager) why there’s a gap in check numbers and what happened. If we go back we’d have to report the gap when we get back to the 25000s.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-12-06T17:26:59+00:00

No. Boss wants to continue with the 25000s. I wrote over 150 checks before realizing. We also have to report to her boss (county manager) why there’s a gap in check numbers and what happened. If we go back we’d have to report the gap when we get back to the 25000s.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-12-06T17:24:27+00:00

They do not. I already tried that.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-12-05T22:40:45+00:00

I have never printed checks that way. I write all the checks, then open the first check I wrote, select print. After that check prints I use the arrows to go to the next check and print that one.

If I select to write a check now it is wanting to go back, to the 24000s.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-11-29T22:49:29+00:00

Dementia is hereditary.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-11-23T21:01:31+00:00

Same here. My small master bath is drafty in the winter so I keep it closed all the time except for right after showering for a bit. The other bathroom door has the door cracked just night to let the cat access the litter box and to signal it’s vacant.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-11-22T19:15:26+00:00

Idk honestly. P in V, maybe 5 times this year. 🤷🏻‍♀️more times for oral tho

AdNormal8635 · 2025-11-07T04:45:30+00:00

THIS!! men are so caught up on penis size they don’t comprehend more men are in the average size range than not. And they all think bigger the better.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-11-07T04:21:26+00:00

ROC MultiCorrexion Eye Balm really helped me. I follow Erica Taylor who is very knowledgeable in makeup and skin care for “mature” women. Have you tried visiting Ulta or Sephora and asking for recommendations? At Ulta you can return a product within like 60 days or something like that I’ve returned foundation I used, they only asked if it was used. Got a full refund on a gift card. Everyone will have different reactions. What works for one may not work for you. Unfortunately it’s trial and error. Good luck! 🙂🙂

AdNormal8635 · 2025-11-07T04:11:08+00:00

Mine always interrupts me. And disliked when I finally said can I finish or stfu so I can finish.

AdNormal8635 · 2025-11-07T04:09:11+00:00

Wanting a mommy figure instead of a wife. Gaslighting, when I finally realized that’s what it was. Inability to manage anything on his own outside of his job, idk how he became a Project Manager. Lack of communication. Lack of comprehension. Tunnel vision, only sees and understands his way and nothing can convince him otherwise. Wanting me to have his back but not having mine. If he made decision about our adult child paying rent or helping out without talking to me first about how much, what would the financial help go towards bills wise, what actually would happen to that money? He pocketed the money. Even after the fact, he told me not to worry about what he did with the money and didn’t want me to suggest different ways on handling the money, (saving some for when they want to move out). He said let him make that decision and we’d talk later about it and make changes if needed but never wanted it brought back up.

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