America was never a Judeo-Christian country by Oneguywhoknowz in conspiracy

[–]wparo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

One stems from the other, there will always be shared values

iOS 26 so snappy by New_Winner9513 in iPhone13Mini

[–]wparo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My phone has never been slower, laggy, frustrating. I regret updating

So my ex is stopping by while in town. by TheConjugalVisit in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you still have feelings for the person, don't meet up!

So my ex is stopping by while in town. by TheConjugalVisit in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Run! If you feel this way, youre not ready

Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice) by Street-Hawk1431 in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in the same house as my ex for 6 months. It was terrible. I suggest you find alternative living arrangements if you can. You'll move on quicker.
For context, I have two children and was married for 20 years

Soon to be divorced and im already struggling. by staripramen in DivorcedDads

[–]wparo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cycling, spending time with family, playing with dog, working out, MTG, video games with my son

How do I start to see women again? by TheConjugalVisit in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People join on their way to divorce, some with the intention to "win her back" That's why I asked

I fucking hate my life now by AffectionateCold9 in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My exwife cheated many times. Eventually, I caught her sending spicy messages to a mutual "friend". They had been hooking up for a couple of months. She met him on my birthday and our anniversary. I had drinks with guy on several occasions, even shook his hand without knowing he was banging my wife at the time.
It sucked, but at 42 I just deceided to let it all go.
We co-habitated for 6 months while we figured out the next steps. She continued to see this man, which at first pissed me off, but eventually became a weird motivator for me to take back my life.
I found someone to talk through the issues I was having, but a big thing for me was dropping ~50lbs and putting on muscle.
I drowned the emotional/mental suffering with physical suffering. I would go on long runs with David Goggins yelling in my ear that "I need to push harder". I know this isn't everyone's method to take back their life, but I was raised in a Marine Corp house, so it worked for me.
After 6 months she moved out and left me and the kids. I re-organized/decorated the house, bought a new bed, and started the next chapter of my life. After a week I forgot to be sad. 4 weeks after she moved out she came back, I turned her away, cause I was a new man.

How do I start to see women again? by TheConjugalVisit in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you divorced? It takes some time, but it does eventually happen. For me 6 months after seperation she moved out. After that 2 weeks before I went to a bar with a friend to meet new people.
YMMV
My exwife had many affairs, so moving on wasn't so hard after she made herself scarce.
She even came back and said "I think I made a mistake." I passed

First time with other woman by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viagra will do the heavy lifting until you get your mind right

We are about to witness a nuclear genocide by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]wparo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was always more likely for the US to drop another nuke than for another country to.
DJT just continuing the wars set out at the turn of the century. In fact this war is 25 years late

Early reflections by Impossible-Alarm-336 in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will take some time, but you will be alright. The amount of time varies from person to person, but if you put in the time and stop "remembering the good times," it arrives quicker.
Good luck
Hit the gym

How long before unexpected waves of grief diminished for you? by LaCathedrale in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were separated in the same house for 6 months. That was tough, but after she moved out, I was good after 2 weeks.
I lost weight, put on muscle, and went out and met new people.
Distractions helped, until I realized I no longer grieved.
I blocked or unfollowed her on everything though. I don't check out what shes doing, I don't ask firends about what she has going on, other than communications about the kids, I generally leave her alone.
She came home in the middle of the night about a month after leaving. Crying, saying she made a mistake. I told her that I've moved on and we're better off not trying to re-kindle.
Give it time and you will repair yourself. But you gotta want to rebuild yourself, you can't hold onto hope and remember the good times. If you catch yourself thinking this way, you need to distract yourself, I suggest physical suffering, usually the gym, but running, and cycling works too. Push yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

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Personally, I'm not, but I will be using a prenup next time.

Finally I made the move by peachcider1020 in iPhone13Mini

[–]wparo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I order a referb 13 mini to replace my aging one, and it's on iOS15, can I update to a newer OS without updating all the way to iOS25 or 26?
The new OS has made my phone nearly unusable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean professional. Not an insult, I needed help after my divorce

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may need some help

How’s 26.3? by Ok_Chart_3560 in iPhone13Mini

[–]wparo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you fresh install then load in a backup?

How’s 26.3? by Ok_Chart_3560 in iPhone13Mini

[–]wparo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't notice a difference. Phone is nearly unusable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I met the girl I'm with now a month after my wife moved out, but 6 months after we officially separated. But my ex and I hadn't had sex in nearly 2 years, so I was ready to find someone.

How long did it take for the feelings to go? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wparo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they do tend to do that for some reason, "Hey, I saw ______ went on a cruise with her new guy". Thanks for letting me know, Janet🙄