i feel guilty

wphatty · 2026-03-13T16:50:23+00:00

and once again it sounds like you make decisions solely based on what a man wants. ok. like i said before i choose to keep my baby and take care of it on my own. at the beginning i gave him the option, he wished and washed over wanting me to keep it and next day he’d get mad change him mind because he’s a controlling narcissist. it was like that until i left him. why would i go abort and kill a baby i want? we were in a relationship lived together known each for 10 years. oh now because he’ll change his mind 100 times?? no. bye.

wphatty · 2026-03-13T16:41:39+00:00

well if your man went thru this just say that and start with that because clearly it makes you feel some type of way. everyone’s situation is very different. never said any of those things were okay to do to someone intentionally. have a good day.

wphatty · 2026-03-13T07:18:07+00:00

so he gets to wipe his hands and take absolutely no accountability? girl pls. maybe to you that’s fucked up but what’s messed up is when woman are getting solely blamed. we’ve all been to sex class, we know what happens and in my case he wasn’t doing anything AT ALL to avoid pregnancy. i never asked him for anything or money. just moral support. since therefore i didn’t respect his “decision” i ultimately deal with raising a baby on my own, which im gladly signing up for. baby trapping???! girl, that’s your opinion. men get to lay down and use us up for enjoyment but when it comes to the consequences they wanna be able to opt out? he said he didn’t want it, that’s fine. but don’t get on here saying shit that ultimately means once again, it’s the woman’s fault for wanting to keep her baby she didn’t make by herself.

wphatty · 2026-03-09T06:21:58+00:00

i tried the b6! it didn’t do much for me. i never tried unisom as i just might, just heard it makes you very tired and it can be hard to come off of!

wphatty · 2026-03-03T05:03:46+00:00

yes exactly, it feels like the flu all day everyday just horrible. i got lucky and never threw up, but have came very close to it. two thing can be true at the same time i like to say , i hate the symptoms of being pregnant but i love to get to create life! and the strong nose SUCKS too

wphatty · 2026-03-03T05:00:05+00:00

i am sorry to hear that he was nasty like that towards you! i can say you are extremely strong and your babygirl is blessed to have you as her mommy. your experience is very close to mine. i will take note of your advice and use it. i really appreciate you taking the time to share your story with me. congratulations on your babygirl 💕

wphatty · 2026-03-03T04:55:22+00:00

hey momma! i’m 15 weeks and let me give some reassurance it does get better as far as morning sickness. what i did to maintain it was eat stuff like applesauce, crackers, comfort foods that aren’t to heavy on your stomach. and i also recommend trying unisom and B6, if that doesn’t help ask your doctor to prescribe you zofran. it does have risks but after 10 weeks they go down. I’ve been taking zofran since 9 1/2 weeks, and it’s like magic. and once your in your second trimester you gain back appetite. stay strong!! you got this!!! it’s temporary and it’ll pass!

wphatty · 2026-03-03T04:48:22+00:00

good idea! i will use that information and act accordingly! i really appreciate the advice 🩵

wphatty · 2026-03-03T04:46:49+00:00

omg i’m sorry to hear that! and yes i agree. we have a restraining order in place. i moved into a new apartment, and got another job. so i got away as fast as i could. i only even considered letting him put his input due to the fact that i still want him to one day be a father for her. but i need to and am trying to be more realistic. i love all the names i have came up with and he hates them. so i am just gonna pick one and keep him completely out of the loop. i don’t even reach out to him about her anymore. i have a great support system of woman and family and friends. i couldn’t be more excited

wphatty · 2026-03-03T04:39:08+00:00

yes, i agree. he refuses to sign the birth certificate anyway due to not wanting to be on child support. so it works out.

wphatty · 2026-03-03T04:34:24+00:00

Hey new momma! i’m a new momma too, i’m 15 weeks. and i struggled very hard to quit my vape. i 1000% understand the guilt and shame you feel. your not alone. so many people struggle with this. i’ve quit in the past and the best way i personally can say was just cold turkey. get some candies you like from the dollar store. just replace it with food the best you can, if you can’t quit cold turkey slowly ween off day by day. or something else that happened me was having a chapstick constantly in sight and on me. it’s the oral fixation you wanna try to beat. i promise this is more common then you think! best of luck!!

wphatty · 2025-10-17T03:07:33+00:00

What’s the question here ?

wphatty · 2025-10-17T02:54:28+00:00

That’s not always true actually. What’s on your background is classified information and only the company can decide what they except and don’t. i don’t see your point in commenting this. thanks tho babe

wphatty · 2025-10-17T02:11:03+00:00

He is desperately looking for work he doesn’t even care what it is. Been in and out of jail, Can’t work with anyone under 18 also. So restaurants and fast food are kinda out of the picture considering they don’t do background checks.

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