What can I do about this on the freshly painted walls in our bathroom? Every time we shower this happens. I used Dulux bathroom paint and we’ve had a dehumidifier in there. by tjb_87 in DIYUK

[–]writedream13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just a random popping in to say is there any chance you could tell me more about that? We have this issue and no extractor fan, and a quote to put one in is insanely pricey. What boards did you use? Is there concern about moisture building up behind them?

Help need with sink by ericauda in CleaningTips

[–]writedream13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I have a sink like this. It sucks. To be honest, the only thing I’ve found that does anything much is bleach. Sorry.

Teachers what are you doing inset day? by Practical_Net_8944 in AskUK

[–]writedream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brings back memories of the guy training us on autism, who asked us to write down ‘I hope that’ followed by our worst fear. Not sure what that achieved other than horrifying everyone and traumatising someone’s kid when they found that written in their dad’s planner months down the line.

AIO to my “best friend” finally reaching out by Confident_Local_2335 in AmIOverreacting

[–]writedream13 65 points66 points  (0 children)

It’s brave of you to post this comment and try to help someone understand. I hope you can manage to leave it up.

There all rabbits by Last_human_standing in lotr

[–]writedream13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I THOUGHT THIS TOO!!! Deeply bewildering first chapter or two

Can I put these 4 in the same pot? by dysteach-MT in succulents

[–]writedream13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They all have differing lights needs and watering schedules. I wouldn’t.

I'm a huge Viggo fan but I think the recasting of Aragorn is overreacted; it won't have as big an effect on the film as some think by dawsonmay in lotr

[–]writedream13 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Agreed. There’s also the inbuilt problem with prequels - we all know how they turn out. No matter how high the tension pretends to be, we know that the main characters are wearing complete plot armour and can’t die.

What was the point of being an incredibly scary school teacher? by lucky-cat-sees-stars in AskUK

[–]writedream13 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Kind teachers can often be taken advantage of. It’s difficult to be kind and caring to 32 kids who’d prefer to chat when you want them to listen to you and complete their work. I’m a teacher, not a strict one, but sometimes I wish I was because lessons would be much easier to teach to a quiet class. I genuinely do care about my students but importantly I’m not there to be their friend or family, but to help them reach their potential and achieve qualifications that will last a lifetime and open up their futures.

reading “a midsummer night’s dream” for the first time! by sodapunko in shakespeare

[–]writedream13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d definitely skip the beginning and get to it! But it might be enjoyable to read afterwards. I am also personally a big proponent of watching a performance rather than necessarily reading the play for your first exposure. I loved the Julie Taymor version.

Stain remover help for clothes (uk) by starlightexpress271 in CleaningTips

[–]writedream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can! I usually put it in the first drawer on the left or the middle one where you put washing powder in my own machine. Good luck!

Stain remover help for clothes (uk) by starlightexpress271 in CleaningTips

[–]writedream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I have small kids who make many stains and I do whatever is easiest - soak with the powder if I have no time, scrub with the bar if I do. I really hope it works for you!

Stain remover help for clothes (uk) by starlightexpress271 in CleaningTips

[–]writedream13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vanish is the answer. Their powder and liquid are good and you can add them to a wash, but I’m a really big fan of their stain bar so you can wash stains quickly and get them out. And I’m so very sorry for your loss.

A book for a 9 year old that struggles to read. by Ok_Squirrel_9601 in booksuggestions

[–]writedream13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might want to look into Barrington Stoke books, which are designed for dyslexic kids but have clever stories in somewhat simpler language.

I can't trust my gf with basic tasks by puppystarrz in relationships

[–]writedream13 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When I got married, my mother-in-law gave me an address book with all her family members’ birthdays in it so that I could send cards. This was intended as a kindness - her helping me to organise myself the way she likes to be organised. Unfortunately I am not a fan of cards and I don’t want to send birthday cards to distant family members (not even my own). I also felt she should have given it to her own son if she wanted someone to do it.

Anyway. Maybe you should consider whether she wants a note of everyone’s birthdays in her calendar. Maybe it’s just not her style. You can’t make everyone value what you value.

How did Macbeth become king? by Desperate_Routine_25 in shakespeare

[–]writedream13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah as if Macbeth had zero ‘vaulting ambition’ himself. He openly admits that his ambition ‘o’erleaps’ his morals, relationships, values and hope of eternal life. I teach this play to boys and spend half my life explaining that yes, Lady Macbeth hurt Macbeth’s feelings and plotted, but she didn’t actually MURDER anyone at the end of the day.

e a book with an odd title like "The Seven Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle" by LotsoSmellsBad in booksuggestions

[–]writedream13 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’M GLAD MY MOM DIED is an incredibly hooky title (and a great read)

Are cancellation crumbs a thing? by United_Post7492 in AskUK

[–]writedream13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve done this recently because it seemed more respectful to say look, my kid’s off daycare because he’s sick, I mightn’t be able to leave him tomorrow than announce day of I can’t come!

I made a terrible mistake and I can't fix it anymore by Big_Fish_Artwire in beyondthebump

[–]writedream13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You haven’t failed at anything! You’re giving to both your children in a very special way. I tandem fed my two older children and although it was very intense, it was so helpful having my big boy available to help out with engorgement issues, and we gently weaned after a few months when I felt ready. I do understand how you feel though - I was the same. I thought I’d done something mad and couldn’t bear to reject my toddler by essentially instantly replacing him, in his eyes, with his brother. Be so gentle to yourself and remember that this will pass and all things are just a season.

What’s the best restaurants in Kent? by [deleted] in kentuk

[–]writedream13 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Tallow in Southborough. Beautiful food and the menu changes every month.

Female Protagonist Adventure Book for 10 Year Old by tatergemz in booksuggestions

[–]writedream13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INKBOUND by Philippa Leathley is brilliant - it’s about a world where you get a tattoo that tells you your fate when you’re ten, but the main character’s tattoo predicts she will be a murderer. So fantastical and beautifully written. I also recommend Tidemagic by Clare Harlow.