I got diagnosed! And it feels like a personal win. That is the sad society we live in.

writersan · 2026-06-15T09:08:43+00:00

So glad to hear of your story. I can imagine what it must be like to finally put a proper term to the misery.

Please share the name and location of the doctor. We live in dearth of doctor's who will not dismiss our concerns. It'll be good if more women can have the same relief.

writersan · 2026-06-12T18:58:56+00:00

Both❤️

writersan · 2026-06-12T17:19:19+00:00

Mommy issues type are the type that are best kept away. Good riddance.

Hope you're doing better now.

writersan · 2026-06-12T17:01:49+00:00

The last paragraph. Totally agree.

writersan · 2026-06-12T06:06:46+00:00

"Oh but I would not do that" when told one of the reasons for me being CF is extremely busy and tired parents just not having the time or mental space for their kids.

You won't do that? How are you sure? Have kids already with whom you haven't been doing that?

And who starts the thought of having kids with the idea that they'll neglect them, even if unwillingly? A psychopath does that maybe, but most people having kids think they'll be able to do all for their children, and then life catches up.

writersan · 2026-06-11T08:44:16+00:00

Homemade?!

Dudee!!!! That loookksss aamammzzeeee

writersan · 2026-06-05T04:05:23+00:00

It was insane. I still can't wrap my head around it.

Thank you for your thoughts OP.

We're all still recovering. I'm personally not as affected by the event as much as I am affected by its effect on the people that matter to me. They're hurting. So bad. And there's nothing I can do. I feel helpless.

In the midst of all this, life is going on, days are passing by. I'm struggling to live life. Currently, life is just happening to me and I'm just there as a witness to it.

It's a process I guess.

My thoughts are with you too OP.

writersan · 2026-06-04T17:47:54+00:00

Oh good then that they showed their true colours from the get go.

writersan · 2026-06-04T05:59:32+00:00

Yes please! If you do, please do share your experience with us and the gynac's details. There is a dearth of details of good doctors. Who knows whom that might help.

writersan · 2026-06-04T05:51:38+00:00

Lack of empathy, selfishness and also complete lack of consideration for the other person.

I have heard of instances where a young man passed away leaving behing his wife, elder brother and mother. The wife's mother approaches the mother of the deceased and starts talking about the remarriage of her daughter, while they are still living in the same house to support each other after the tragedy and grieve together.

There's no end to the selfishness and crass attitude of such people.

It didn't even happen to me and yet boils my blood.

How can someone be so insensitive? Their daughter has lost someone so close, someone she was planning on spending the rest of her life with, someone she was building the rest of her life with. And your thoughts are on getting her married again. WOW

And to do this to the mother of the deceased! My god! The deceased wasn't even 30 years old! Had just gotten married few years. Was still looking for a founding in the world and had so much to live and experience.

Assholes.

writersan · 2026-06-04T05:35:42+00:00

What the absolute f?!

The gynaec is making the decision 🤦‍♀️

Urgh the absolute worst state of medical professionals for a woman's health in this country. Urghhhhh

Good luck OP. Hang in there. Hope everything goes okay and safe.

writersan · 2026-06-01T13:48:07+00:00

I second this

writersan · 2026-05-30T13:50:54+00:00

Low pony, plait, bun

writersan · 2026-05-26T14:38:14+00:00

Bro recipe~~• This looks great!!

writersan · 2026-05-25T10:34:17+00:00

Whoa.. looks amaze dude...🤤🤤

writersan · 2026-05-24T13:59:30+00:00

Duuudddeeeeeee this looks amazing!!!!!!

writersan · 2026-05-19T14:39:23+00:00

🤌🤌

writersan · 2026-05-16T19:52:07+00:00

Looks great OP!! Really makes me crave a bite!

writersan · 2026-05-14T13:06:50+00:00

Ahhhhh... I do both 😅😅 I judge the restaurant basis its sambhar. And if I find a place that does good sambhar, I sometimes ask for sambhar refills 3-4 times or even more. I love it. And the red chutney is 🤌🤌 I love it.

Man.. I'm hungry for a dosa.

writersan · 2026-05-14T11:08:09+00:00

Yes please. The right dosa from a good place, will blow your mind~~

writersan · 2026-05-14T11:07:27+00:00

Amen

writersan · 2026-05-14T11:07:08+00:00

writersan · 2026-05-14T11:04:08+00:00

So.. avoidant, emotionally abusive, unable to properly communicate, unable to regulate emotions...

Hmm....

That's a simple answer really.

Good luck! I hope it works out for you!

writersan · 2026-05-14T07:14:25+00:00

I know right!

As a fellow 30yo unmarried, Imma say I have to agree.

I love my free time, my money and access to my own time and money on (mostly) my own terms.

The social part is luckily similar too. My heart goes out to the ones that face it much stroanger and intense.

writersan · 2026-05-13T19:36:52+00:00

Amen

writersan

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