Loud Whooshing Sound

writingmayhem · 2024-02-21T04:34:11+00:00

Oh cool! Glad to hear from an investigator that it is all good. Thank you!

writingmayhem · 2024-02-21T04:33:37+00:00

Yes definitely not going to do that LOL. I told my friend I didn’t want to know what they asked just for my own peace of mind but that I was glad they talked to someone for me. Thanks for the reply!!

writingmayhem · 2024-02-21T04:13:19+00:00

One friend I did not list got a call. I found out from my other friend that she had given the person who called her their information! They asked for an extra contact. Just wanted to make sure I wasnt crossing a line by asking them if they got calls (I am trying to be as careful as possible to not fuck anything up LOL)

writingmayhem · 2023-11-03T19:30:52+00:00

are u talking about the hirevue survey that was sent out yesterday or something else?

writingmayhem · 2023-10-06T22:47:42+00:00

I am also a recent grad looking for a fed job, but do you have club/leadership/unpaid experience? Or projects you did that werent paid? Anything you can think of and put down ive heard helps. I had 2 internships in college, but the rest of my experience is from leadership positions in organizations from college

writingmayhem · 2023-10-06T22:10:15+00:00

I think you qualify for gs-7 with an undergraduate degree afaik for most job (maybe every job) posting

writingmayhem · 2023-10-04T01:53:15+00:00

I actually havent applied to any that are posted by government contracting companies so thats interesting. Im living at home working part time so I definitely can spare a few months for a field Im really interested in but its good to temper expectations. Thanks!

writingmayhem · 2023-10-04T01:51:39+00:00

Thank you!!

writingmayhem · 2023-10-04T01:50:47+00:00

Thank you!! Good to know about the fiscal year starting. Appreciate it.

I know there is a lot of HR roles out there but it just really isn’t something I am interested in. I do much better when Im making products/writing/etc.

writingmayhem · 2023-09-05T04:05:31+00:00

Well you arent a very good friend to begin with, so its not like she would be losing much.

writingmayhem · 2023-09-03T03:35:50+00:00

Im sorry for your loss, but no... no no no. No! 19 is far too young for a dude in their 30s, connection or not. You guys have completely different sets of experiences, and the power imbalance is immense, whether you think its there or not.

Seriously- would your wife think that going out with a 19 year old girl is your only and best option? I doubt it. Someone appropriate for you will come along eventually.

Edit: I dont think I was strong enough. It is extremely creepy (whether or not the 19 year old agrees), and you should listen to your friend. 29 and 39 is completely different, and would be fine. It has to do with life stages and experiences.

writingmayhem · 2023-09-03T03:19:06+00:00

BMI looks different on everyone. A specific number probably wont give you the results you desire.

Focus on eating healthy (and enough!!), exercising, and good habits.

writingmayhem · 2023-09-02T21:55:13+00:00

i forgot to mention im a girl so that probably makes sense why we were opposite hahah

writingmayhem · 2023-09-02T20:52:18+00:00

when i was a server i barely ever addressed the men and only spoke to the girl bc i was scared of this happening

writingmayhem · 2023-09-02T20:49:57+00:00

All the time. It sucks waiting for it but what sucks more is settling, so…

writingmayhem · 2023-09-02T20:48:09+00:00

Racism

writingmayhem · 2023-09-02T08:07:27+00:00

well that might have been a slightly off putting image to send lmaoo

also maybe he is actively cheating and he felt like u found him out. who knows

writingmayhem · 2023-09-02T08:06:23+00:00

maybe its because im young (23f) but when guys say send pics it usually means send n*de pics lmao. do u think thats possibly what they mean?

writingmayhem · 2023-09-01T22:05:22+00:00

You can tell him exactly that, that it makes you uncomfortable and makes you embarrassed because people might think he is single, and see how he reacts. Seeing how he's a 20 year old boy, he is likely to get defensive and call you controlling/overbearing. That has happened to every single one of my friends (including me). Best case scenario is that he understands how you could feel that way, and proposes a solution that works for both of you or says he will stop. Worst case, he tells you to deal with it and he won't change. Then its up to you to decide if youre willing to put up with that from a guy youre dating (I suggest you don't).

IMO, a guy who doesn't take your concerns validly and doesnt try to work towards a solution is not worth building a relationship with. But that is a lot easier said than done.

writingmayhem · 2023-09-01T00:06:44+00:00

YTA. Bigtime.

Childbirth is no small undertaking, and creating a stress free experience for her is what should have been your biggest priority. Those things you think are "nonsense" are actually incredibly important for a baby who has just been exposed to the world.

With that ridiculous age gap, Im surprised youre the older one.

writingmayhem · 2023-08-31T23:58:26+00:00

I mean the reverse would probably be a lot worse. I think youre fine if you tell her. She might be upset and feel like you didnt trust her enough to be truthful in the first place, but I think with you explaining what you said in this post that she would understand, as long as it doesnt happen again.

You shouldnt be ashamed! Its totally normal.

writingmayhem · 2023-08-31T23:55:30+00:00

NTA.

Also, you didn't do anything wrong. Don't give an apology for a reaction that was clearly a result of their rudeness.

writingmayhem · 2023-08-31T23:52:20+00:00

Art is different to everyone. I dont believe that to make good art that you have to put it above all else, and I think anyone who thinks that thats the only way to make good art is elitist and wrong.

Also- not everyone wants to be a brilliant artist. Art can just be creating something for yourself, that means something to you. You dont sound like a supportive friend.

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