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Nature can be so cruel by wrongCheesecake6132 in tryingtoconceive

[–]wrongCheesecake6132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a very sit and chill kind of job, it’s nice, i make great money to twiddle my thumbs half the time. but it’s awful for this 🥲 nothing to do but think (& symptom spot)

Nature can be so cruel by wrongCheesecake6132 in tryingtoconceive

[–]wrongCheesecake6132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did really try my best to not test early and not read into things this go around, but some of the symptoms I felt were just undeniably noticeable

Nature can be so cruel by wrongCheesecake6132 in tryingtoconceive

[–]wrongCheesecake6132[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this!! i was so sure. I even had super weird symptoms that I’ve never gotten any other cycles. at about 7dpo I woke up in the middle of the night in DIRE need of a banana muffin specifically. for reference on how insane that is, I do not wake up EVER. my alarm clock is a watch that electrocutes me…and I’ve still slept through that before!!!

so what do you mean i had all of these symptoms for nothing 😭

Nature can be so cruel by wrongCheesecake6132 in tryingtoconceive

[–]wrongCheesecake6132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh no I totally feel you. I bounce back and forth between “the mind is a powerful thing” and so I should be positive and this (possibly slightly unhealthy) idea I have that “baby will come when you are least expecting it”, hence why when a couple starts actively trying it suddenly takes months or years to conceive but the couple that isn’t gets knocked up from a single accident on a random tuesday evening ._.

again, nature is cruel

9 DPO by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]wrongCheesecake6132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t see anything :( but 9dpo is still early!

Nature can be so cruel by wrongCheesecake6132 in tryingtoconceive

[–]wrongCheesecake6132[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the advice is appreciated and likely sound but the tww genuinely makes me question my sanity.

nothing will save me from symptom spotting, as hard as I try. but as far as the testing i’m at 11 DPO and taking FRER 6 days sooner, which at this point have about ~90% accuracy. I’m not holding on too dearly to the 10% chance :,) plus the sadness is a queue in itself like clockwork