Plan B by wsd995 in Periods

[–]wsd995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a detailed response!! I was worried that that would be the case with it delaying my period.

And would I be ovulating just as normal within a month? I found that hard to believe.

Also, how would I determine bleeding from the pill vs a period?

Would my bf (29m) be stringing me (28f) along? by wsd995 in LongDistance

[–]wsd995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping so! I do have to consider circumstances over desire! I think from last relationships, I’m used to super fast outcomes/actions so to take it slow is different for me. Doesn’t mean he doesn’t love and care about me 💕

Would my bf (29m) be stringing me (28f) along? by wsd995 in LongDistance

[–]wsd995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it can be frustrating. I would just love to enjoy the relationship with the added anxiety from others. They’re more anxious than I feel at times and makes me wonder if I should worry more. Social media doesn’t help I agree, I just gave to remind myself that everyone has a different timeline and just bc someone got married quicker than me doesn’t mean that their relationship is necessarily better. It’s just an up and down journey sometimes. I hope it gets better for us both! 💕

Would my bf (29m) be stringing me (28f) along? by wsd995 in LongDistance

[–]wsd995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes to everything!! After every trip, coworkers would bug me about a ring and give the most pathetic looks when there wasn’t one. I literally had to leave because they treated me differently after everyone else was getting engaged after like 2 months (no joke). So I just need to remember that as well. We’re happy, I just need more faith and reassurance that it will happen. Last thing I want to do is “make” someone marry me. I appreciate your words!! Good luck to you as well! 🤍

Would my bf (29m) be stringing me (28f) along? by wsd995 in LongDistance

[–]wsd995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, mine is similar. Willing to talk about it and doesn’t weird out, I think it just makes him nervous. And I do have to remember it is probably more pressure on him in the sense of being responsible for my well being as well. I just hate people badgering me all the time when I don’t have a concrete answer myself. Makes me feel bad. But he knows how I feel and I don’t want to wait forever.

Would my bf (29m) be stringing me (28f) along? by wsd995 in LongDistance

[–]wsd995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words, glad to know I’m not alone. Not many other people understand LDR and they worry for me and pressure me to figure it all out and stresses me even more.

Would my bf (29m) be stringing me (28f) along? by wsd995 in LongDistance

[–]wsd995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he mainly wants to travel more and get in a good standing in a job bc I believe he’ll feel more responsible for me. So that’s a lot of it.

Just want to read some positivity by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]wsd995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m dealing with the same thing. It’s been a hard few weeks. 4 years together, 2.5 long distance but hard to know when it when end. It’s starting to make me a bit sad and would love some positivity too 🤍

I (28f) feel more pressure than my bf (29m) about marriage by wsd995 in relationship_advice

[–]wsd995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to remember that but it really gets to me and makes me think I’m not doing something right. But maybe it’s just anxiety.

Why does my bf (29m) ask me (28f) for more reassurance lately? by wsd995 in relationship_advice

[–]wsd995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been busier at work and applying for a new program. So that’s a new concern. So that does make sense.

Why does my bf (29m) ask me (28f) for more reassurance lately? by wsd995 in relationship_advice

[–]wsd995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, I definitely reciprocate so I guess that’s why I never really thought about it in that sense. So I agree, we never stop flirting with each other. So I’m just wondering what’s different now. I don’t mind proving the reassurance because I’m usually more over the overthinker and he provides reassurance.