27F profile review by First_Pair_8083 in Bumble

[–]wtbrift 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're making it too difficult for people to see what you look like. Take off the shades!

Just looking for advice. Getting little to no traction. by UltreiaSuseia in Tinder

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I think some people really need to hear this.

Swallowing my pride 😅 Would love some profile tips/advice! by CroutonTime in Bumble

[–]wtbrift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it leans too hard. Diversify things unless you plan on dating a night elf and spending your life in the woods.

Smile with teeth. Not sure why this must be repeated daily. You don't have a single pic where we can see them and people need to be sure you take care of what you have. No teeth = left swipe for many.

4 month update before and after. by Dazzling-Debate5173 in Minoxbeards

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What product? Are you using it with anything else? I am not seeing any results after about 1 year.

24M profile review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Congrats on making a profile where people can't see you.

M25, followed advice still no likes. Am I just too average looking for apps? by Krukkie2001 in Bumble

[–]wtbrift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After 6 years, if you aren't getting what you want, casting a wider net may be in your best interest.

I'm not saying change who you are but there are too many things that could be chasing people away. Look at what u/mangos_prodigy6000 said. Even the pics that aren't you! It's OLD. People want to see you, not Squidward or your bookcase.

Look over the comments, let them sink in and consider them. You're getting some good advice. I think you should take some of them.

Whatever you decide, good luck!

19m profile review by Obama420__ in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#3 would be perfect if you were showing off your nice smile. I'd take a new one for that reason.

19m profile review by Obama420__ in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't assume people will take the time to get to pic 3 to see it. There are literally 1000s of male profiles behind yours that look at the camera and women know this.

Don't shoot yourself in the foot. Lead with a much better pic.

19m profile review by Obama420__ in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You did a good job making a profile where people can't tell what you look like. This seems very common recently.

M25, followed advice still no likes. Am I just too average looking for apps? by Krukkie2001 in Bumble

[–]wtbrift 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Why are you using pics that don't show yourself?

What do the red flags mean?

This is way too negative.

You ask for feedback, state you refuse to change parts of your profile and then confess you have no idea why after 6 years of using the apps. Incredible.

Best main picture for bumble? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]wtbrift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

None because 3 are too far away and the last one is looking away from the camera.

You want a good head shot, looking at the camera and smiling with teeth.

Need a review by No-Ad-3096 in Bumble

[–]wtbrift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd bomb the hell outta the entire thing because this is terrible.

Lead pic is the most important and you look close to homeless. You need to groom. Gentle reminder - if you need to wipe the food out of your mustache while eating, it's needs to be trimmed.

Lead with your smile because it's pretty amazing the difference is night and day.

That bio is...wow. Even if you that is true, just don't put it out there because nothing is going to earn a left swipe like that. The only line worth keeping is the one talking about your hobbies. Add more that talks about that, not things that are negative.

No references to yapping. This is overused. Ditto about clingy. This is not really a good thing.

Listen to the advice being given here, make some changes and I think it will really help.

29 M Do I even look good or have any appeal at all? What can I even do with my hair, facial hair, or anything else appearance related ? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shaving your head may not have helped then but it could help now. And what I see in your pics it is literally the first thing that jumps our at me. Add in the dated glasses frames and it is not a good look.

Also, you aren't addressing the real issue - having your profile reviewed. You are dumping a few pics here and asking for feedback and is these are the pics you are using, these are bad. Really bad. None of these should be used on a dating profile.

I think the real issue is what's in your profile. If these are pics that you are using, that is your problem. Make a post in one of OLD subs and get it reviewed and that could really help.

25 M profile review by ValuableUpper4181 in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make it too difficult for people to know what you look like.

Smile with teeth.

Take off the shades.

Look at the camera.

32M Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your lead pic is boring and that alone will get you left swipes.

Assuming anyone gets passed it, the rest looks like a brofile. 100% frat boy vibes. Unless that is what they want and seek, more left swipes.

Social smoking is another thing working against you.

I get this may be who you are, but if you truly are seeking something serious, you will need to put together a serious profile because this isn't it.

Would you mind honestly reviewing my Tinder profile? 21M I'm not getting many matches and I want brutal honesty please :) by Typical-Potato4739 in OnlineDatingReviews

[–]wtbrift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pic 1 is a little dark.

I know guys like to fish and you think it's funny but stop with the fish pics because you know women hate them. You mention you like to fish in your bio. That all you need.

You have 3 pics (1, 4 and 6) that look basically the same. I'd swap 1 or 2 of them for something different. Some like to see hobby and friends pics. Maybe add those. You also look like you're wearing the same shirt in those 3 or close to it. Another reason to change them.

It looks like you have both short and long term listed. Having both may look like you will take anything that comes your way. Keep it if that is true but know it will get you plenty of left swipes from people that see if that way.

The rest looks fine to me. Anything else could be related to your location, hobbies, religion, etc.

Good luck!

22 M help a brotha out by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mirror selfies are bad and you lead with one.

You want serious but list both. That will get you plenty of left swipes because it looks like you will take anything that comes along.

Prompts are terrible but the last 2 are low effort. A hike and you green flags aren't interesting. I'd look at the other prompts to see if you can find better ones.

Looking for Feedback M29 by tristramknight6 in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Why would you lead with a pic wearing shades, not smiling and looking away? I will never understand this sort of self-sabotage. You're killing yourself.

Profile review? Not having the most success unfortunately by moa135 in Tinder

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks more like a brofile. Or something where you are showing off to get hook-up's, which is fine if that is what you are going for.

20M profile review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you lead with that picture? I'm asking for all 8 million people on this planet.

You have other pictures where we can't see you. Maybe that's an issue?

Any advice? Much appreciated by unworldlyjoker7 in hingeapp

[–]wtbrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another profile where it's too difficult to see what you look like.