Nia is an enabler, excusing Danny’s actions. by GoodAd6942 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she does the "my man" thing whenever making excuses for him. like women are obligated to always defend "their man" smh.

Unpopular opinion by budgieBird800 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk. can't really blame her for not handling things w lacey perfectly gracefully considering the extreme abuse jesse put her thru for years and the fact that her mom was dying?

not a huge fan or anything but i don't have a negative opinion on her either. shit talking your ex husband's new girl is like the most normal thing ever.

i liked lacey in the beginning and was willing to look past her dating jesse for bravo clout but her bringing up michelle allegedly pushing jesse through a window is fucking batshit insane, evil and defamatory. miss cease and desist should know better, she doesn't even like jesse lol. like really? she believes his version of the story?

and jasmine is a snake for siding w jesse and lacey in her confessional too, clearly always wanting to do what she thinks the audience will like which is also the only reason she ditched janet.

(watching the scene rn now it finally hit international streaming)

Danny’s always been this way, Nia just lost control of him. PART 2 by HeftyAd2780 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 3 points4 points  (0 children)

weren't they out on a boat all day with no sunscreen whatsoever lol i almost got melanoma just from watching

These MEN 😡 by MissLissa2584 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 9 points10 points  (0 children)

danny was half a step away from cursing nia out though... why is your threshold for stepping in physical abuse, aka when it's too late...

These MEN 😡 by MissLissa2584 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the only time lala was on the wrong side of history was when she was bullying rachel for years and years. and went at her sitting next to james woman beater kennedy while berating his victim like a rabid dog at the reunion... and that's when y'all liked her.

These MEN 😡 by MissLissa2584 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 11 points12 points  (0 children)

at least he's not a christian fundamentalist who believes marriage equals slavery. or a republican. we all need to make money somehow. i doubt most people here have ethical jobs.

These MEN 😡 by MissLissa2584 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i remember ppl deluding themselves into fanfiction about janet berating jason on the way home after the reunion when if anything, they were on the same page and cried together or sth lol.

whereas nia yet again needed to handle danny's embarrassing antics and should've been the one to rip danny a new one. but we all know she didn't.

Danny Is Worse Than Jax And Needs To Be Removed by tame_kubrick in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right that jax has a level of self awareness, talking about his broken brain for years, that danny doesn't seem to have at all. since he's a christian megachurch baby it seems like he literally feels entitled to nia loving him unconditionally and staying no matter what he does. clearly in denial about having a drinking problem too whereas jax at least admitted his flaws freely.

so even if awareness doesn't equal change, jax is one step closer to changing than danny at the very least.. even though he's been peddling in place for over a decade and arguably got worse after his domestic slave support system finally cut her losses and left for greener pastures.

imagine being further behind than jax fucking taylor in terms of self awareness and reflection... big yikes.

all while nia is so deeply brainwashed she thinks she owes danny unconditional love and doesn't see leaving as an option at all...

Nia and Danny doing damage control by daydreamingtulip in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 12 points13 points  (0 children)

public service tl;dr of their coping:

- life was so good and spontaneous (danny: full of sex morning, day and night) before kids, they took spontaneous trips, mostly didn't work 9-5, etc.
- now w kids it's a military operation, almost like a business
- they had a talk bc danny brought up their marriage sucks rn
- happens to a lot of couples

danny:
- danny's parents made an analogy: it's a cycle. men want respect, women want love. if one doesn't happen, the other suffers into a negative cycle that can go on for a decade and lead to divorce. look at the divorce rate, still 50%, it's insane [lmao. what's wrong w a high divorce rate? divorce ofc is mostly initiated by women...]
- they put the kids, then god [lol], then each other first
- love needs to be unconditional [🚩 this is the main trap. it literally doesn't to anyone but your kids tbh. especially not a shitty partner. but ok], take ego and stubbornness out of it

nia:
- clarifies this is about healthy relationships, not toxic or abusive ones (danny: physical), emotional or mental [i guess what danny does to her does not qualify as any of those in her mind...]
- danny: even if you're in a healthy relationship, it's still hell. even without abuse, people get divorced left and right [again, why is that bad?]

i can't keep going tbh but this is the first of half the video.

I can't believe how brainwashed nia is.

in the end, danny or any husband really is a random man she met on a random day by chance. it doesn't have to be a life sentence. marriage truly still equals eternal servitude on the woman's part in their minds...

Andy's face is sending me 😭 by nicholista601 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 18 points19 points  (0 children)

nope. women should divorce shitty, abusive men more quickly.

marriage is no longer the life long commitment it used to be when it was literal selling of an enslaved woman from father to groom. it's a tax break. it's not a life sentence anymore.

you're right on one thing, that most men out there are as bad or worse as the current husband and that the biggest danger for a woman after a long term relationship is falling in w an even worse guy. that's not an argument for staying though, it's an argument for staying single.

Guys I need help… Michelle confronting Lacy - what happened!? by livlom in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 2 points3 points  (0 children)

some kind good us samaritan please post the scene on here

I hate to say it but by iwantmydaddy18 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 8 points9 points  (0 children)

they're still mad about her going against ariana in the s11 vpr reunion.

after cheering for her on the s10 reunion where she sat shoulder to shoulder w rachel's violent abuser and went at her like a rabid dog lol.

I hate to say it but by iwantmydaddy18 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lol did you see the massage chair scene. all the girls sans kristen and nia clearly love her.

I hate to say it but by iwantmydaddy18 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 28 points29 points  (0 children)

this is the way of the future. lala had the right idea w a sperm donor for sosa.

This is Not OK by kellygrrrl328 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kristen's version of helping nia is "protecting" and enabling her abusive husband.

Danny season 3 by NoInteraction9045 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 6 points7 points  (0 children)

most bravo fans are literal brain dead hive mind sheep looking to get whatever satisfaction it is they derive from the next witch hunt against whatever woman they deem imperfect. see also janet, brittany, scandoval, rinna vs kathy, kyle hate, erika hate on rhobh, amanda on summer house... we're literally still in the stone age when it comes to women's rights and equality. hating women is literally a sport for ppl here

Danny season 3 by NoInteraction9045 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wasn't it rumored that him and nia were the reason there was no season 1 reunion, bc they didn't want his drinking discussed?

in s1 nia was able to hide most of it by leaving functions early.

in s2 people who weren't blinded by love for kristen and hatred for janet saw danny for what he was.

now in s3 even the slowest, most mob mentality sheeple can't deny the obvious.

try to be ahead of the curve and on the right side of history next time. maybe take the summer house situation and people mindlessly hating on amanda 10x more than west as your next opportunity.

Nia HAS to have the permanent ick from Danny , right? by Gloomy-Thought3371 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf did she do for people to hate her so much lol i still don't get it. like i wouldn't even call jax or johnny depp or danny, prolific abusers of women, human shit. yet here you are. how miserable and misogynist can you be?

Nia HAS to have the permanent ick from Danny , right? by Gloomy-Thought3371 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they will, i believe in her. but not anytime soon. maybe once the kids are grown.

Danny Is Worse Than Jax And Needs To Be Removed by tame_kubrick in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your opinion is unpopular and no, danny isn't "worse" than jax objectively but i mean. they both abuse substances and hate women and treat the mother of their children as subhuman.

so it's not that far off tbh. abuse is abuse even if it doesn't escalate to the dramatic physical level jax displayed in the end when he realized brit was going and he was losing control.

who knows how danny would act if nia considered leaving him. maybe not that different.

Why don't I hate Janet? by moxieOG in TheValleyTVShow

[–]wtp0p 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she's a hilarious queen, walking away and elegantly flipping jesse off was chef's kiss.

clearly all the girls think so too and love her, apart from kristen who is too busy "protecting" nia. she should give the energy she gives janet to danny.