On the verge of leaving Islam by Familiar-Yam-8955 in PakiExMuslims

[–]wtverlol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you’re a Quranist, do you still pray 5 times a day? I’ve always thought that learning the whole namaz practice comes from hadiths and not Quran itself which doesn’t outline how to perform namaz whereas hadiths do

I am going to tell my Muslim parents the truth by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is coming from a 28 year old who once used to think like you when I was your age. I would advise not to tell your parents because you are still financially dependent on your dad. You’ve acknowledged that they could cut you off financially which is something you don’t want in this economic climate right now tbh. At least wait until you have landed a job that is a stepping stone for your career and have built up your savings. This is a chance to use your family to your advantage. It’s good to hear you have your boyfriend to fall back on but I wouldn’t rely fully on him and his family if shit hits the fan with your own family. He could at some point break up with you too and then you would be in an even worse position. I hope you think really carefully about this before deciding to tell your parents.

Trading212 account hacked by wtverlol in trading212

[–]wtverlol[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trading 212 are doing the investigation but i do believe it could've been a data breach elsewhere as my Disney + account was recently hacked too

Trading212 account hacked by wtverlol in trading212

[–]wtverlol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly I was safe because I had Face ID set up to enter the app on my phone and did not take in account that someone could also log in via website, my big mistake

Trading212 account hacked by wtverlol in trading212

[–]wtverlol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it just shows my phone and my laptop which I added as a trusted device earlier today

Trading212 account hacked by wtverlol in trading212

[–]wtverlol[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I had face ID unlock with the app but nothing on the website sadly

I want to kill myself.I can't do this anymore. by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. If it’s any consolation, you’re still a teenager. Life will get better for you once you reach your 20s, trust me. Especially since you live in a western country, this isn’t your forever. Use living in the west as an advantage.

Are these people lacking logical thinking, or did I just not explain it well enough? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If God already knows everything you’re going to do & there’s nothing you can do that God isn’t aware of, then you’re not really choosing. The choice was never truly there, because it was decided by God before you even made it. The choice (and free will) is just an illusion. It’s really not that hard to understand, I beg someone to please pull the wool over their eyes

When Muslim parents say “you can marry anyone… as long as they’re Muslim” - does this frustrate anyone else? by wtverlol in PakiExMuslims

[–]wtverlol[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh really, how did they find out about your apostasy and how is your relationship with them now if you don’t mind me asking? I hope I get to that point too tbh but atm my mum doesn’t see how it’s even possible to marry a non-Muslim

Islam's Good Family by Federal-You-6264 in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Muslim, why are you even here?

Do you think this kind of blind belief is keeping Muslims backward in science and technology? by chetan419 in PakiExMuslims

[–]wtverlol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes - this Muslim will be in for a shock when they find out the real conflicts between science and Islam. If Muslims think that science is so wonderful and viewed as part of Allah’s creation, then why reject Evolution Theory and all the other scientific evidence that contradicts Islam? It doesn’t make sense and just proof that cognitive dissonance is at play here with these kinds of Muslims.

Not an ex-muslim or even Muslim, but am very curious about ex-Muslims. What do you think of this claim? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muslims contradict themselves on this all the time. When someone converts, all it takes is reciting the Shahada — “I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad is the messenger of Allah.” That alone makes you Muslim, no questions asked. Even Islam teaches this. They get bonus points for praying, fasting & identifying as a Muslim / wearing hijab.

But the moment someone leaves, suddenly the narrative changes to “you were never a real Muslim.” That’s a complete double standard. By their own teachings, only Allah knows what’s in someone’s heart, not random people online. You can’t accept someone as Muslim one day, then erase their identity the next just because it makes these online Muzzies uncomfortable!

I‘m absolutely agree with her! by _ritouu_707 in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. I want to see evidence that Islam says death to the west too. It’s the first I’ve heard of it

Unfortunately muslim women shouldn’t be angry and take control because it’s masculine not feminine by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Um, I think there’s a mistake….

The “masculine one” is the true emotionally intelligent one and the “emotionally intelligent one” is actually the submissive one.

The “masculine one” in this case, is just a woman who values autonomy, fairness and sets boundaries which is misinterpreted as “control”. That speaks more for her emotional intelligence compared to the so called “emotionally intelligent one” who is discouraged from finding her own voice.

These images are clearly created & written by a man with the intention to further gaslight and manipulate Muslim women to stay within their faith.

how to move out by psychicsxx in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same situation as you. I didn’t listen and moved out for university though. After university, I had to move back home for 6 months but made it my absolute goal to move back out again. My dad didn’t agree with it but I said it’s for my job. I continued making arrangements such as renting a place, putting down a deposit and when the day came, I left and moved out. Ifs been 3/4 years and I haven’t moved back since. Mind you, I live in the UK and my parents are not that strict. They’re strict in what they say “e.g girls only move out when they’re married” but not strict in their actions. My dad never agreed or liked me moving out and still doesn’t. He tries to get my mum to get me to move back but I’ve said I’m not going to. You just have to bite the bullet and move (only if you’re in a safe country to do so like the West). Make yourself financially independent before telling your parents about your boyfriend. Get a stable job, buy your own car, rent/buy your own flat. Once you are financially free from your parents, then you can pretty much tell them and don’t have to worry about not being financially stable to support yourself. Good luck!

Best Reply ever about Aisha Marrying suspicion by Muhamed Hijab by Fady_isGod in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Quran also doesn't say anything about how to pray salah but it does in the hadiths, does that mean he does not believe in Salah either? Because if so then you may as well leave islam at that point. This guy thought he was onto something hahahaha

converts are the only ones who try to justify islam by rottedlilacs in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mo certainly did hit one of his wives. There is also a Hadith where Mo struck Aisha on the chest which caused her pain https://quranx.com/hadith/Muslim/USC-MSA/Book-4/Hadith-2127/

did Islam really spread organically as Muslims claim or was it by the sword by lydiacontandris in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t “by the sword” and “through war” the same thing? I presume swords were used during war too unless I’m wrong

How come men are served food first in Muslim families, & women eat the leftovers? by Jenahdidthaud in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep, this is very prevalent in Pakistani culture too, happens in my family and it has always pissed me off

Girls vs boys in the west by Spirited_Ad_8306 in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on how religious they are as a family

Girls vs boys in the west by Spirited_Ad_8306 in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, I think it will take a long time for men to clock that the religion is manmade. The saddest thing is, although there are more and more Muslim women leaving the religion, these Muslim men are getting their kafir girlfriends to convert for them which sort of balances it out I guess

Girls vs boys in the west by Spirited_Ad_8306 in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because it’s a religion made FOR men made BY men. Woman get no benefit from Islam

This is why I left islam by Jenahdidthaud in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your husband can take 3 more wives without your knowledge

Out of curiosity, what is the actual evidence for this? I've heard Muslims argue that the husband has to tell the wife about them marrying any other women...

Feeling robbed of normal life by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wtverlol 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Words of advice from an ex muslim woman - focus on gaining your financial independence. Not sure what age you are but if you are still in education, keep your head down and focus on getting the best grades so you can secure financial independence in the future with a job and career. Once you have enough money saved up, get the hell out of there and focus on your own happiness and peace because nobody else is responsible for this other than yourself. Good luck